My Wife’s Addictions Are Ruining Our Marriage

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John will give you practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step when you feel frozen, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. You are not alone in this battle. You are worth being well—and it starts by focusing on what you can control. Let us know what’s going on by leaving a voicemail at 844.693.3291 or visiting johndelony.com/show. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 8:19: A young lady in our class at church has become close with our family. She has drama after drama, and I need to set some boundaries. How? 22:15: Son has drug addiction and I am tired of battling it.  29:28: We’ve moved many times for military and husband’s job. I am starting to resent him for it. How can I get past this 37:43: Lyrics of the Day: "Alive" - Pearl Jam tags: addiction, family, boundaries, relationships, military, anger/resentment/bitterness, marriage These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

18 Des 202040min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So send us your questions at johndelony.com/show or leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 6:42: Husband is spending money without talking to me and won’t disclose the amounts. 16:50: How do we navigate Christmas situations with a side of the family I just don’t really like? 25:50: Teaching Segment: Appreciating the Wisdom of the Elderly 30:46: How do I build a community during a pandemic? 40:41: Lyrics of the Day: "I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For" - U2 tags: marriage, disagreement/conflict, money, infidelity, family, boundaries, relationships These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

16 Des 202043min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So send us your questions at johndelony.com/show or leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 4:31: New stay at home mom. We are trying to get out debt. I feel like I am failing family by not working. 13:56: My father was diagnosed with cancer. How do I process this? 26:10: My sister-in-law said they can’t afford to buy gift for everyone. Is it appropriate for us to buy for them?  36:33: Lyrics of the Day: "Buddy Holly" - Weezer tags: money, workplace/career, guilt, parenting, family, sickness/illness, grief, money, family, boundaries These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

14 Des 202038min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So send us your questions at johndelony.com/show or leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 3:47: How do I control my short temper? 18:18: Teaching Segment: Self-forgiveness 21:38: What is the difference between just drinking and alcohol addiction? 36:42: How do I talk about boundaries with my father who was diagnosed with bi-polar? 44:30: Lyrics of the Day: "She Talks to Angels" - The Black Crowes tags: anger/resentment/bitterness, parenting, reconciliation/forgiveness, addiction, substance abuse, bipolar disorder, family, boundaries These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11 Des 202046min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So send us your questions at johndelony.com/show or leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 2:00: What do you mean when you say "Moms are allowed to be selfish?" 6:56: We're having trouble dealing with our son's ADHD/ODD 25:19: I'm having trouble dealing with my husband's infidelity even though I forgave him years ago 39:45: My girlfriend has gained weight and I'm not sure how to motivate her 53:38: Lyrics of the Day: "Walk" - Pantera tags: family, parenting, ADHD, infidelity, marriage, reconciliation/forgiveness, anger/resentment/bitterness, fitness/physical health These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Des 202056min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So send us your questions at johndelony.com/show or leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 4:19: How do I cope with my family's reaction to my husband's OCD? 17:07: How do we deal with different styles of conflict resolution in our relationships? 25:47: My daughter was conceived via egg donor from my sister; how do we handle this as she gets older? 43:49: The company I work for started on Biblical principles but is straying away from that 53:03: Lyrics of the Day: "My Prerogative" - Bobby Brown tags: OCD, family, boundaries, disagreement/conflict, culture/current events, marriage, parenting, adoption, counseling/therapy, workplace/career, faith, anger/resentment/bitterness These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 Des 202054min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So send us your questions at johndelony.com/show or leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 4:32: How do I navigate my co-worker getting promoted to be my supervisor? 17:13: My alcoholic son is coming to visit for the holidays; how do we set boundaries? 25:48: Teaching Segment: Toxic Positivity 30:29: I was sexually molested by my older brother and have never told anyone. I also struggle with porn/sex addiction. 48:37: Lyrics of the Day: "Motorcycle Drive By" - Third Eye Blind tags: workplace/career, disagreement/conflict, substance abuse, family, boundaries, abuse, sexuality/intimacy, addiction, culture/current events   These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Des 202051min

The Dr. John Delony Show is a caller-driven show that gives you real talk on life, relationships and mental health challenges. Through humor, grace and grit, John gives you the tools you need to cut through the chaos of anxiety, depression and disconnection. You can own your present and change your future—and it starts now. So send us your questions at johndelony.com/show or leave a voicemail at 844-693-3291. We want to talk to YOU! Show Notes for this Episode 4:41: How do I help my mentally-handicapped brother while I can't visit him due to COVID? 16:35: Teaching Segment: What is a Narcissist? article: Narcissist or A**hole? Know the Difference 23:25: How do I set boundaries with my sister-in-law while we both homeschool together? 32:05: Followup Voicemail from an ER Nurse 43:15: Lyrics of the Day: "When I See You Smile" - Bad English tags: family, sickness/illness, boundaries, culture/current events, first responders, trauma/PTSD, workplace/career These platforms contain content, including information provided by guests, that is intended for informational and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional medical, counseling, therapeutic, financial, legal, or other advice. The Lampo Group, LLC d/b/a Ramsey Solutions as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries (including their respective employees, agents and representatives) make no representations or warranties concerning the content and expressly disclaim any and all liability concerning the content including any treatment or action taken by any person following the information offered or provided within or through this show. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional advice, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified professional expert and specialist. If you are having a health or mental health emergency, please call 9-1-1 immediately. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

2 Des 202045min