#16 - Blurred Lines - Sugaring vs. Escorting vs. Prostitution w/ Serena

Sooooo excited to be bringing Kactus Kutie back on the show! Kactus was a previous guest on the show but this time around, is bringing back her expertise as a photographer in the adult industry. She dishes it out on how to source and vet a good photographer, what questions to ask, who to ask for references and so on. We also discuss what happens during a shoot and reasonable expectations and wait times after the shoot is finished And of course, not to be missed, we describe how best to tag and give credit to photographers work and so on. All really great conversation and a reminder because as we all know, good photography is essential in this business! Also, be sure to wish Kactus a happy birthday because it's her birthday on this release date! Go tip her! Find Kactus Kutie of Kactus Kamera online: https://kactuskamera.com Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠⁠

7 Apr 20241h 18min

You're all in for a treat this week! I was lucky enough to catch European p*rnstar, Agatha Vega, during some her downtime while she is in still in Los Angeles checking out the scene here. On this episode, I sit down with Agatha on how she ventured into the adult industry from her humble roots in Venezuela, moving on over to Spain and navigating the industry there. I explore Agatha's curiosities about checking out the North American market and how similar work is conducted overseas and how much they can differ in various aspects of the industry. Catch Agatha while she is on North American soil until April 15th! Find Agatha online at: allmylinks.com/agathavega Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠⁠

31 Mar 20241h 5min

It's a lighter week this week and I am joined by the host of the And Now We Drink Podcast, Matt Slayer! Matt, a former security guard in the adult industry now turned podcast host, has been running his general, adult rated and multiple award nominated show for the past 8 years. As we have been asked countless times before, we decided to do a fun collaborative episode on the do's and don'ts of podcasting, as a host, as a guest, and as a person who might be looking to start a show. We love podcasting in this industry and love all of our guests. After 13 years total for both of us, it's safe to say that we've learned a thing or two. Matt and I spill the tea on podcasting and share many laughs in this episode (which I'm sure you will too!). https://x.com/matt_slayer https://allmylinks.com/matt-slayer For the month February and March, I will be showcasing several small SWer owned and operated businesses in an ad in within these show notes. Please go and support your SW small businesses! Angelicbutterflyshop is a sws friendly shop that is women owned and ran. We offer a handful of different accessories, customs and we are launching our sweat suit line in February! https://instagram.com/Angelicbutterflyshop Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠⁠

24 Mar 20241h 20min

***TRIGGER WARNING: Mentioning of doxxing*** This is a heavier episode. I can't sugarcoat it and nor should I on such a serious topic. Doxxing is something that happens to SWers unfortunately, more often than you think. My friend, Lulu Adore, was doxxed recently by a complete stranger just a few short weeks ago. She has wanted to come out with her story to warn others that, despite being careful and private about her life, it still happened to her. Not only that, but Lulu also shares, in extensive detail, the backlash she has gotten from her parents and family with her participation in SW. It's not pretty. It's not sugarcoated and nor should it be. This podcast episode is around to share the very real details of the realities that some folks have to live and I thank Lulu for her bravery on speaking out. Listen in and let us know your thoughts. https://instagram.com/lulu.adore --- For the month February and March, I will be showcasing several small SWer owned and operated businesses in an ad in within these show notes. Please go and support your SW small businesses! Red Door Products is a new adult toy company focussing on providing quality toys and normalizing pleasure.  Our vision in the future is to provide a space not only to shop but to talk about your desires in a non-judgemental environment. https://buyreddoorproducts.com/ https://instagram.com/red_door_products Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠⁠

17 Mar 20241h 16min

Often times, our clients like to dump on us. No, not literally (but maybe they do?!) but moreso dumping on us the woes from life, work stressors, home life, depleting marriages and more. Sometimes our services are sought out for that nurturing care, the the support, the embrace...which is why crises counsellor and fellow SWer, Fiona Dawson, is joining me on this week to speak just about that! Fiona share this perspective that sex work is care work. She compares our work with those who are in the umbrella of care work (ie. therapists, counsellors, social workers, etc.) and we analyze how there is a bit of a double standard going in. Such a fascinating conversation - listen in to the whole episode and let us know what you think! instagram.com/smut_therapy linktr.ee/smut_therapy --- For the month February and March, I will be showcasing several small SWer owned and operated businesses in an ad in within these show notes. Please go and support your SW small businesses! Looking for low cost therapy? I can help! My name is Kaitlin Petter and I'm an intern psychotherapist. My rates are as low as $50/hour and I offer sliding scale prices! I work with individuals, couples, and children using an existential approach and somatic focus. I provide in-person therapy in Langley, BC., and Zoom therapy for anyone living in British Columbia, Canada. Check out my profile on Psychology Today (Kaitlin Petter) to learn more about my approach, and book a FREE 15 minute consultation. Find me on Instagram and TikTok @therapreach for free therapy memes and mental health advice. Hope to see you soon! Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠⁠

10 Mar 20241h 7min

It's our 200th episode! Still can't believe I've made it here...and not without all of your support over the years! Huge thank you to everyone who has listened in to an episode. This week, I am excited to bring you another great episode, this time, with a perspective focusing on public health and how that can impact the adult industry. I am bringing on Ian O'Brien, Executive Director of the Performer Availability Screening Service (PASS). PASS is the entity that aims to standardize and monitor adult industry testing. Ian and I speak about the history of PASS, how it was formed, who it serves, and the tests they conduct. We also speak about accessibility and cost, current issues and challenges, a length discussion about mGen and their new Studio Certification Program. Thank you, Ian, for bringing your expertise to the forefront and the great work you do for the community! https://www.passcertified.org/ https://www.passcertified.org/donate x.com/passcertified https://www.instagram.com/passcertified PASS Studio Certification Program - https://www.passcertified.org/studio-certification-program Places you can get tested as part of PASS - https://www.passcertified.org/testing-partners --- For the month February and March, I will be showcasing several small SWer owned and operated businesses in an ad in within these show notes. Please go and support your SW small businesses! PinXsters is a free adult social media site, where you can share images, videos, monetize porn and more. https://twitter.com/Pinxsters https://www.facebook.com/PinXXsters Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠⁠

3 Mar 202457min

It's a re-release week! In light of Black History Month, I am re-airing this gem of an episode with Mistress Marley on breaking into the dome world as a Black SWer, the impact she's made in the dominatrix world as a Black dominatrix, the schooling and mentorship she is providing for aspiring Black dommes. --- For the month February and March, I will be showcasing several small SWer owned and operated businesses in an ad in within these show notes. Please go and support your SW small businesses! Erotica by Phoenix James, skrippa-style dance certification created by a skrippa, for skrippas. Interested in getting certified? Click here to get started! --- I am so proud of this episode with dominatrix, Mistress Marley. It’s really inspiring to hear all that Mistress Marley is doing for the community. As a young sex worker, Mistress Marley dabbled in other forms of sex work and stumbled into domming when answering an ad on Craigslist. It gave her the freedom and flexibility to live her life the way she wanted to. But there was one problem: the domming world was very White. The lack of peers that looked like her and spaces that were safe to her inspired her to create The Domme Academy, her own group and program for Black and Brown dominatrices, Black and Kinky – events for Black kinky folks and her own Brooklyn-based dungeon, Pynk Matrix. If you are in the New York area, you’ll have to check out these events and spaces in person! Watch the video exclusive only on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/strippedbysia https://linktr.ee/mistressmarley Don’t forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! https://twitter.com/strippedbysiahttps://patreon.com/strippedbysiahttps://instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcastwww.strippedbysia.com

25 Feb 202458min

It's great to sprinkle in a lighter episode every now and then and this week is no exception! I am delighted to bring on FSSWer, writer and media contributor to Petit Mort Magazine, Katarina Quinn, onto the show! This whole episode is dedicated to talking about how SWers are represented in some of the hottest shows and films over the last couple of decades. On this week's episode, Katarina and I discuss and analyze the representation of SWers in Sex and the City, White Lotus, The Menu and Poor Things. I've seen 3 out of the 4 media pieces involved here and *spoiler alert* if you haven't seen these shows and films and intend to, there might be some spoilers! I loved chatting with Katarina on her approach on how sex workers are viewed. https://twitter.com/katarina_quinn https://msha.ke/katarinaquinn For the month February and March, I will be showcasing several small SWer owned and operated businesses in an ad in within these show notes. Please go and support your SW small businesses! People are pleasure! Community celebration empowerment passion & positivity. Ruby‘s Pop Up Peepshow: A mobile theatre for the senses, not the censored! Don't forget to LIKE, RATE, SHARE, REVIEW and SUBSCRIBE! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠twitter.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/strippedbysiapodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon.com/strippedbysia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.strippedbysia.com⁠⁠

18 Feb 20241h 5min