171. how to stop abandoning yourself in relationships & spiralling into your anxious attachment style.

171. how to stop abandoning yourself in relationships & spiralling into your anxious attachment style.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you my best advice when it comes to all things dating as an anxiously attached person. I chat self abandonment in relationships, how to stop losing yourself to your anxious attachment while in the dating stages & what I've done to overcome anxious triggers throughout my years of dating.

My main channel @eliciagoguen 🤍

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00:00 the root of your self abandonment
09:35 waiting for love, detachment & discernment
16:07 self concept
24:36 you are not your anxious attachment
25:09 silence, space & time
28:22 boundaries
32:42 don’t take things personally & co-dependancy
38:30 long-term goals
39:06 face rejection
43:45 stop trying to do it all by yourself
48:26 putting people on pedestals
50:29 the process

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242. build a life you love OFFLINE 📱🌿 let’s talk phone addictions, bad habits & wasted days..

242. build a life you love OFFLINE 📱🌿 let’s talk phone addictions, bad habits & wasted days..

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode, I talk about re-evaluating my relationship with "wasted days" and trying to minimize screen time. I touch on topics such as habits, hobbies, why connecting with othe...

26 Apr 44min

241. refresh your life for SPRING 🌷 new routines, wellness, productivity & mindset resets 🌿

241. refresh your life for SPRING 🌷 new routines, wellness, productivity & mindset resets 🌿

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode, I talk about ways to refresh your life for Spring by refreshing your routines, movement, meals, planning, productivity, music, connecting with friends, and romantici...

19 Apr 38min

240. how to RESET your mind & get out of a negative headspace (in 3 steps) 💭🧠

240. how to RESET your mind & get out of a negative headspace (in 3 steps) 💭🧠

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode, I talk about 3 ways you can get yourself out of a negative head space. I discuss letting yourself feel the emotions, choosing a victim vs. victor mentality, and how ...

5 Apr 31min

239. how to stop self-sabotaging & FINALLY stay consistent 🌱🎧 (stop letting one day ruin everything!!)

239. how to stop self-sabotaging & FINALLY stay consistent 🌱🎧 (stop letting one day ruin everything!!)

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode, I discuss how to stop self-sabotaging. I talk about preparing yourself for the lower-energy days, bad habits & how to build better ones, and celebrating the small wi...

29 Mar 39min

238. rejection: how to handle it, detach from it & redirect from it 🎙

238. rejection: how to handle it, detach from it & redirect from it 🎙

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode, I discuss learning how to deal with rejection. I dive into my story about searching for a new place, as well as how to redirect and let yourself feel the emotions wh...

22 Mar 46min

237. the season of becoming: discipline, faith & letting go of ego

237. the season of becoming: discipline, faith & letting go of ego

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode, I talk about ways to feel alive again, especially with Spring right around the corner. I cover topics such as re-energizing the body, respecting my body's rhythm, hu...

15 Mar 34min

236. 5 steps to your spring awakening 🌷 rebuild your habits, uplift your mood & feel ALIVE again! 🤍

236. 5 steps to your spring awakening 🌷 rebuild your habits, uplift your mood & feel ALIVE again! 🤍

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode, I talk about ways to feel alive again, especially with Spring right around the corner. I cover topics such as re-energizing the body, respecting my body's rhythm, hu...

8 Mar 41min

235. the final stage of healing: letting yourself be happy. 🦋

235. the final stage of healing: letting yourself be happy. 🦋

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode, I discuss learning how to let yourself be happy, letting go of the idea of what you should be, and doing things that make you feel happy. Enjoy! 🤍My book The Ultima...

1 Mar 25min

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