Episode 360: Your Brain's Rumination Loop
Melisa and Alli explain why your brain naturally ruminates after a breakup. It's not because you're "stuck," but because your mind is trying to make sense of what happened and solve an unresolved prob...
20 Jul 30min
Episode 359: All Lesbians Go to Heaven
Briana Smith joins the show to talk about growing up Mormon, getting married at 20 years old, having four kids by the time she was 29 --- and how meeting a woman at a wedding changed everything.Connec...
12 Jul 47min
Episode 358: The Rules of Attraction
Melisa and Alli answer a listener email about their attraction to masc women vs. femme after coming out. Also, is there a power dynamic when kissing? Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.s...
5 Jul 37min
Episode 357: Three Plus One
This week Alli and Melisa explore the "3+1" theory from Simon Sinek which says that relationships require three core pillars of compatibility combined with one external factor -- Intellectual Compatib...
28 Jun 36min
Episode 356: Meet Liliana Bakhtiar (Atlanta City Council Member)
Trigger Warning: Episode mentions rejection of trans kids, a violent murder, and self harmLiliana Bakhtiar -- the first queer Muslim person to be elected in Georgia and the first non-binary councilmem...
21 Jun 56min
Episode 355: In Our Femme Energy
What distinguishes femme energy versus masculine energy when you take away the heels and the backwards hats? Our friend Robin joins the discussion with Alli and Melisa as they talk about how these ene...
14 Jun 43min
Episode 354: When Things Fall Apart
Alli shares how the book "When Things Fall Apart" is helping her right now. We also get into how to get comfortable with the discomfort of not knowing the future. (And how sometimes seeing a medium he...
7 Jun 39min
Episode 353: The Capacity
Sometimes we take someone's capacity for a relationship really personal when the reality is, it's not that deep. This week Melisa and Alli discuss how much capacity plays a role in emotional bandwidth...
31 Mai 43min
