Cocksucking 104th EpisodeTWHS

Ms Harper joins the ladies for a conversation about myth versus reality with total power exchange relationships.Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika give couple of definitions to start the conversation:** What is power exchange?** What does total power exchange mean?** What is the difference between being dominated at a play party and being a full time submissive in a TPE relationship?Ms Harper points out that power exchange games are based on a power imbalance. That imbalance may not exist in vanilla relationships...or it might be there, unspoken and unacknowledged. In BDSM, the imbalance is pointed out, and sometimes, gloried in and celebrated with fun and sexy games.Why would someone want to be in a TPE relationship? BDSM can often be a stress relief, escape from other parts of life, or even a type of erotic vacation. It can be physiological, psychological, and/or emotional stress relief.Other topics include:** Protocol in BDSM relationships** What is High Protocol in a D/s relationship?** Use of contracts between Mistress and submissive** How does power exchange work with Distance Domination?** Role of safe words in BDSM** Role of safe words in total power exchange and why there is a debate about this in BDSM circles.** Is there a difference between total power exchange and total authority transfer?** BDSM communication and scene negotiation** How to communicate with your Femdom Mistress** Role of consent in BDSM relationshipsRemember, if you crave the relief of not having to be in charge, a little power-exchange fantasy is a lot of fun. Whether that’s just letting someone tell you how to jerk off to agreeing to chastity for a set length of time, all the way up to detailed schedules and monitored activities, as long as you’ve had a good conversation with your Mistress or Owner ahead of time then this can be a perfect relationship for you both.Mistress Olivia: Experienced MistressMistress Erika: Intelligent Phone FantasyMistress Harper: Fetish Phone Sex Blog

5 Feb 202431min

How should a sissy cum? Your Femdom Hosts, Mistress Olivia and Mistress Erika, explore the question that asks: should ALL sissies learn how to masturbate like a woman? Sissy Gigi says, yes every single sissy needs to change how she masturbates, and that is part of the feminine journey. This long term sissy says a sissy girl doesn’t deserve the tight grip that a real man uses to stroke and cum.This inspires a conversation that includes:** Rub versus tug - is a sissy allowed to stroke?** What is the proper mindset for a sissy** What is the ideal approach to erotic feminization? ** How to get in the mood for sissy sex.** Why foreplay is key in feminization transformation.** Why foreplay is key in feminization transformation.** Masturbation control and sissy training** Sissy chastity and the role of chastity in feminization** Is a sissygasm different from a male orgasm?** Anal or boi pussy play and why this is so important for a prostate orgasmThis episode includes lots of quotes from people who are in feminization training with the Mistresses or who want to get sissy advice or feminization tips from the podcast hosts.

29 Jan 202432min

Mistress Montana owns several BDSM dungeons. Today’s episode is a real conversation about business, kink and the business of kink.What goes into setting up a fetish play space?How does a Pro Domme choose a location for a dungeon?Ms Erika asks about one location, and this prompts a conversation about so-called conservative middle America and kink on the down low. Topics include:How to talk to a Pro Domme.Dos and don’ts of arranging a session with a Dominatrix.The difference between out of session professionalism and in-session play.How a Femdom will (or will not) choose who she will see in a session.What happens when you arrive for your session.How much training, education, and experience go into making an elite Femdom Mistress?What kinds of BDSM furniture, kink toys and other items are important for a DungeonWho goes to a Pro Domme and why. (hint: Alpha males are the best submissives.).Mistress Montana: https://mistressmontana.com/mistress-montana/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

22 Jan 202431min

The hosts have a candid conversation with Mistress Montana about BDSM, kink, being a Pro Domme, and more.Ms Erika asks about the origin of the name Mistress Montana. This leads to a conversation about becoming a Pro Domme.Mistress Montana started in the adult industry as a phone sex operator. Her callers were the ones that introduced her to Femdom. Ms Montana talks about learning all about BDSM, kink, and male submission. The more she learned about the psychology of BDSM, the more she realized that being the Domme is the perfect fit for her personality. This leads to a conversation about the smart, successful men who are sexual submissives and want to give up control to a Dominant Woman.Topics include:Small penis humiliation and a surprising comment about some men who are into SPH.Sensual sadismThe paradox of pain as pleasurePhysical pain like CBT and emotional pain like cuckoldingEdge play and kinkThe mind as the most important sex organThe symbiotic relationship between a Domme and her subMyths about why someone goes to a Pro Dommeand more.Mistress Montana: https://mistressmontana.com/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

15 Jan 202435min

Today’s episode is inspired by sissy Olivia … not to be confused with Mistress Olivia. Sissy Olivia wants help with her sissy training and sissy skills but she doesn’t know how to stay motivated when she’s on her own as a solo sissy. Other issue topics include: chastity, reinforcement of sissy training, and improving feminization skills.The hosts talk about all kinds of options for any sissy on any budget.Free suggestions are:Join Enchantrix Empire, LDW’s free adult social network. https://enchantrixempire.com/Join GetGirlie - a site for sissy audios, forums, and interactions with the Mistresses. https://www.getgirlie.com/Free assignment sites for sissy training on fashion, sex, make-up, being a submissive sissy, self-care and everything feminization: sissy style magazine https://sissystylemagazine.com/Paid options include:Erotic audios on various topics by various women: https://www.phonesexaudios.com/Sissy training assignments are available from https://phonesexassignments.com/Custom erotic audios made just for you: https://eroticaudios.com/If you need privacy and more flexibility but still want to be directly in contact with your Mistress - Try Email packages https://phonesexassignments.com/product/emails/Texting if you have limited privacy: https://sexytexting.com/Remember you can always leave comments on our blogs:Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

8 Jan 202436min

Happy New Year to all of you friends, fans, fellow kinksters and you, you and you!Mistress Olivia takes the episode right off the rails from the beginning; you’ll get to hear the ladies fooling around right off the top of the show. You don’t want to miss this.You’ll hear how these Femdoms create this BDSM kink podcast. Amongst the laughter, jokes, and sexual puns, the ladies answer listener questions.Has Ms Erika ever sucked her own toes?Why doesn’t Ms Olivia know what Devil’s Lettuce is?Listeners have a variety of questions about the podcast and more.Will there ever be a live show?Do the hosts ever get tired of talking about sex or kink?What is the longest phone sex or distance domination session so far?How many sexual partners have each of you had?How many sexual partners is a lot? This prompts an impassioned response from Ms Erika.How do we come up with ideas for this BDSM kink podcast?A question from sissy olivia inspires Mistress Olivia to pitch a feminization topic.Ms Erika wants to put together a blooper show (as if the beginning of this episode wasn’t enough!)And several more questions.Enjoy and have a wonderful New Year full of joy, BDSM, kink, and sexy fun!

1 Jan 202436min

As we close out 2023, your hosts of this BDSM kink podcast wish you and yours happy holidays and a wonderful kinky New Year!Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika thank YOU, wonderful listeners, for your support, questions, laughter, and, yes, pervy thoughts during this year.There are some last-minute questions to answer, and listeners get questions as well.Favorite guests include:Max Carey from the documentary tOuch kinkKate Lister the Sex HistorianAlice Little and Olivia Bentley from the Nevada Brothel systemKaytlin Bailey, Standup comedian former escort and sex worker advoacte with oldprosonline.orgMistress Mia Darque, from DomCon New Orleans and being a Black DominatrixMistress Rogue, owner of a Florida Femdom dungeonTopics from this year include:Questions about feminization, being a sissy maid and finding a Dominant woman or Mistress owner.Sissy training questions and ideas for dressing en femme on the down lowCustomer service in the adult industryChastity with Mrs. Mature MetalAnd moreThank you all for your support this year, and here’s to a bangin’ (literally and figuratively) New Year!

25 Des 202335min

Listener questions inspire today’s episode about breast forms. Mistress Erika points out that femme girls often spend lots of time and money trying to find the perfect breast forms. There is literally no “one size fits all” when choosing your femme look. Each individual has unique needs. This episode has some things to consider when choosing breast inserts.First, of course, there has to be a conversation about weird sex statistics. Did you know 11% of women name their boobs? That compares to three out of four men who name their penis.Back to boobs - The overall question to consider first is: What do you want to FEEL like IN your breast forms? This will help you begin to think about size, shape, feel, material, etc.Many crossdressers don’t want to spend a ton of money of breasts until they know what they want. These Femdoms love helping male to female transformations on a budget and have specific DIY tips for boobs on a budget before spending money on more permanent boobs.Styles of breasts:Inserts, aka chicken cutletsFull breast inserts into bra cups or stick on your skinBreast platesIf you’re not able to go in person for a bra fitting, the ladies give simple directions for figuring out your own bra band size. From there, you can begin to think about breast size, shape, and other considerations.This episode will help any crossdresser, sissy or transwoman begin to pick out the perfect breastforms.Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/The Breastform Store: https://thebreastformstore.com/The Boobs Shop: https://boobsshop.com/Glamour Boutique: https://www.glamourboutique.com/breast-formsJanet’s Closet: https://janetscloset.com/janets-breast-forms/

18 Des 202328min