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Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika love answering your questions.A common question is something along the lines of “How do I find a Pro Domme?” What people really want to know is how to talk with a Pro Domme: how to communicate submissive desires, ask for kink scenes, and basically how to “not fuck it up.”The ladies are thrilled to have Mistress Mia Darque as our guest.Miss Mia calls herself the 6'3" Oklahoma Amazon, mature BBW and someone who has been in the BDSM and kink scenes for more than 20 years.** Find out about Miss Mia’s personal journey in kink. ** Listen to our reactions to judgement by some lifestyle kinksters to Pro Dommes.** We discuss the value and benefit of going to a professional versus an amateur** Learn valuable tips on how to communicate with a Pro DommeMistress Mia Darque: https://www.justsayred.com/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/Miss Mia is also on the Board of DomCon New Orleans. Next week, the conversation continues with questions and answers about what happens at a BDSM convention.

21 Aug 202330min

How do I get my wife to Dominate me? How can I get my girlfriend to act like a Mistress?These questions are so common these Femdoms give their answers from their perspectives.** Hear why Ms Olivia says there is real value in going to a Pro Domme ** Ms Erika points out why experience is so important especially if you are new to kink.What are some of the BDSM terms?** SSC - safe sane and consensual** RACK - risk aware consensual kink** PRICK or personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink.** CCCC, or the 4Cs: Caring, communication, consent, caution.Ms Erika talks about the importance of trust and communication in any fetish or kink play. When you trust your Femdom you are able to let go and experience all the submissive sensations you want to savor.This episode has specific suggestions on how to figure out if you really want your partner to be your Domme. If you do want to bring her into your kink world, there are lots of tips on how to do it (especially if you have a vanilla wife). Then the two of you can begin the kink journey together creating your own Domme / sub relationship.Feel free to get in touch, ask questions, find out about getting a session with us:olivia@enchantrixempire.comerika@enchantrixempire.com Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

14 Aug 202329min

Listeners inspire this episode on the sissy maid.Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika talk about sissy training, feminization fantasies, qualities in a good/bad sissy, and how sissification is different from being a crossdresser or trans. This episode includes: ** What is a sissy maid?** How to tell a service sissy from other types of sissies, including the cuckold sissy husband** Is a sissy always expected to be submissive and obedient?** Why ladies love the slutty sissy fantasy.** Should a sissy be put in chastity for feminization?** How humiliation, tasks and punishment are used in sissy training.** Why degrading terms work so well in sissy play.** How a Mistress uses coerced feminization in emasculating a sissy.** How a Dominant woman uses coerced bi or gay scenes for sissification.** Details about various kinds of sissy maid uniforms or outfits.Ms Erika talks about the Sissy In Depth Probe package available from the Phone Sex Assignments store: https://bit.ly/3EV1nKLThe sissy test package includes email exchanges with both ladies. Today’s episode is inspired by these email exchanges and includes excerpts and questions from some of the people who bought the package.Ms Olivia’s blog, Experienced Mistress: https://bit.ly/3PYYM6KMs Erika’s blog, Intelligent Phone Fantasy: https://bit.ly/3QuyR9b

7 Aug 202329min

How do I get my wife or girlfriend to be my chastity keyholder? How do I tell my partner I want to be put in chastity? I want some kink in our relationship, how can I get my wife to be kinky? These are just some of the most popular questions from our listeners and callers.Today, you’ll hear from a woman who went from being, in her own words, VERY vanilla to now the chastity Mistress of Mature Metal chastity cages.Meet Mrs. Mature Metal and learn:** Her reaction when her husband told her he was going to make custom chastity cages as a business.** What her husband did to spark her curiosity about chastity.** How SHE feels about putting her husband in chastity.** What she likes about a locking cock ring and the role of edging in tease and denial.The ladies all discuss things that work and do NOT work when trying to inspire a woman to get out of her sexual comfort zone. Ms Erika warns about kink dumping your partner. Ms Olivia says women are like cats (not just because we have a pussy). This is a candid conversation about sex, kink and intimacy from the woman’s point of view. If you’re kinky and trying to get your partner into BDSM, kink or chastity play this is the episode for you!MATURE METAL: https://maturemetal.com/Ms Olivia's blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Ms Erika's blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

31 Jul 202340min

We get a lot of questions from listeners. Practical advice for feminization tips or sissy training are always top concerns. Today’s episode is inspired by several listener questions about how to find the best bra, which breast forms to get and how to online shopping suggestions for everything you need for feminization.Mistress Olivia used to work in a luxury lingerie salon and learned how to do bra fitting. You’ll hear how to measure your body to get the right band size. From there, it’s a “simple” matter of everything else! (Only kidding. We know it’s not simple that’s why we’re doing a whole episode on finding the perfect bra.)Ms Erika describes different styles of bras and both ladies talk about what they like and why.Anyone who is a crossdresser, sissy or trans will likely be looking for breast inserts or breast forms. The ladies go into detail:** different types of breast forms** pros and cons of each type of breast insert** inexpensive DIY breasts that might also be fun for erotic humiliation** recommendation on where to shop for breast formsMistress Olivia points out that some crossdressers and sissies have some individual challenges with sizes. Three favorite websites are discussed: one for larger band sizes with small cup sizes and 2 other websites that have sexy plus sizes in lingerie.Legit advice, lots of laughs and even some “research” from writer/humorist Dave Barry, “Scientists now believe that the primary biological function of breasts is to make males stupid.”

24 Jul 202329min

Alice Little, elite Legal Sex Worker, Sex Educator, and Intimacy Expert joins the ladies to talk about artificial intelligence and the adult entertainment industry.Mistress Olivia starts the conversation with a quote from an article, by Alice, on AI and the sex industry: “Soon, we will be able to ask AI to produce videos, complete with computer-generated characters and settings, the content of which is limited only by our imagination and desires. And what we will desire more than anything is sex.”There is no debate - AI is here and here to stay. Now the question is, how will life change? Like most big innovations there will be a variety of impacts. Alice talks about her concerns for adult content creators AND consumers.Can a chatbot or AI ever replace a relationship with a human? - A Snapchat influencer set up a chatbot using Forever Voices and made more than $70,000 in the first week of release.Will AI ever be able to mimic or replace the ebb and flow of a BDSM session or any part of erotic pleasure?Mistress Olivia asks if Alice is concerned that her online content can be used to create deep fake videos and interactions. Alice mentions that is already happening and shares her experiences with fake twitter accounts, fake instagram accounts and even fake phone calls put together by scammers.This episode explores the nature of intimacy, erotic connection and how AI will change the adult industry.

17 Jul 202329min

Alice Little is fascinating, smart, and has stories galore.Ms Erika asks about a quote on Alice’s website: https://thealicelittle.com/ that says her philosophy is “...intimacy is a need, and far too often that need goes unmet.”This leads to a thoughtful conversation about the nature of intimacy, connection, the role of sex workers, and where intimacy fits in for a fulfilled life.Ms Olivia brings up Alice’s appearance on the Tim Ferriss Show podcast. Find out what surprised the ladies about his questions and attitude towards Alice. COVID ended up being a wake up call for many people - including those in the adult industry. For Alice, she decided that no matter what happened in the world she would be in charge of her destiny. That meant a look at her career to date. She decided to create multiple income streams, including OnlyFans and YouTube. The ladies talk about why and how she created the BRAND Alice Little Intimacy Expert.Did you know that Alice is one of the very few courtesans in the legal brothels who has training in BDSM and kink? She is also a BDSM educator and a switch. This leads to some stories about why expertise and experience really matters when it comes to fetish, kink or BDSM pleasure.A slut belonging to Ms Olivia wants to know if there is an opportunity at a legal brothel for a sissy male escort. Alice has some surprising info about men of any identity in the Nevada brothel system.“How to Give A Blow Job” is one of the most popular episodes on The Weekly Hot Spot. Alice graciously shares her blow job tips and tricks.What makes the difference between a good sex worker and a really great courtesan? Here’s a hint - it has less to do with sex skills and more to do with intangibles. This leads to a discussion about how to be very intimate and still keep appropriate boundaries. Alice introduces the term bounded intimacy and shares what that means.This episode wraps up with thoughts on sex worker rights and how to advocate for, or present, sex work as work. Alice says things like The Weekly Hot Spot podcast are part of efforts to combat stigma around sex, sex work and sex workers.NEXT week, part 2 with Alice Little - this will be a conversation about AI and the porn industry. How will artificial intelligence change the adult industry? That and more in the next episode of The Weekly Hot Spot.

10 Jul 202331min

Mistress Harper joins the ladies to talk about FLRs or Female Led Relationships.This episode is inspired by an email sent to Mistress Olivia asking what is real and what is fantasy with FLRs. This leads to a lively conversation with lots of laughs in addition to BDSM education from Femdoms who are in the kink scene in their private lives.They start with the common definition of Female Led Relationships and point out that this may or may not include BDSM, power exchange, kink or any of those sorts of activities.Learn:Experiences with FLR in their personal relationships (Ms Erika’s answer makes us all laugh)Levels of control in a Female Led RelationshipMs Harper makes the distinction between female led and “female did it” which is highly relatable!Whether the ladies WANT Female Led Relationships in their personal lives (the answers might surprise you).Mistress Harper has great insights into patriarchy, matriarchy, and gynarchy. What those are and how these terms relate to relationships where the Dominant woman is in control.There’s talk about the difference between how women exchange power and a power imbalance fantasy - the fantasy isn’t wrong, it’s just that it’s hard to replicate a fantasy 24/7 - and not hard in a good way, hard in the exhausting kind of way.These women are Femdoms who do Distance Domination so the conversation about FLR being sexualized is enlightening in terms of what is real and what is fantasy.What is the difference between a Dominatrix, Pro Domme, Femdom, Dominant and woman in charge?This ends up being a thoughtful conversation about gender, gender roles in society, malicious incompetence, work, culture, and social pressures to comply with what have been traditional norms.

3 Jul 202333min