CBT The Weekly Hot Spot

Even if you’ve called phone sex before, calling a new service, or a new Femdom Mistress can be daunting. What happens? What does she do? What should you do? There are so many questions. And, those who have never called a distance domination service are even more nervous! We get it and since there are a bunch of new fans to our BDSM kink podcast, we want to give you some tips for how to prepare for your session.Today’s podcast gives you a basic understanding of how distance domination works.What happens when you call LDW Group?What are some of the different types of long distance BDSM relationships?How does kink play work when Mistress and pet aren’t in the same physical play space?Are you shy?Are you nervous?This podcast episode will help you understand a bit about what to expect, how to ask for what you want, and then how to physically get ready for your session.As usual, the conversation goes on safari with stories, anecdotes and more. Enjoy this peek behind the curtain of the business of distance domination and femdom phone sex.OH and you don’t have to be a submissive to call! As you can tell from this podcast, we love to have intelligent conversations with smart, sexy people (ie YOU!)Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

3 Mar 31min

The ladies try something a little different. Today’s feminization programming is sissy bathtime. We know it’s kind of an odd title and we’re doing a podcast much more like the non-explicit parts of a session.This episode is a mix of sissy training instructions and reasons why these Femdoms recommend them for your journey into womanhood.Topics include:** Shower versus bath** Sex in the shower** Bathtime rituals for each host: Ms Olivia and Ms Erika** Bubbles or bath bombs, or bath oilsSuggestions for relaxing into the sensuality of the experience:** How to create the perfect environment** How to reinforce the benefits of this sensory experience** Why we say, wear a bikini or panties in the bathThe ladies do brief guided meditation with feminization affirmations.There is also a trance type sissy programming audio.We urge you to take the time to use the rituals and sensuality of taking a bath to honor and reinforce your feminine feelings.  We want you to take your feminization to the next level with these ideas, tips, and suggestions.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

24 Feb 29min

A Twitter spaces conversation inspired today’s episode where we talk about common concerns about sexual desires. Our callers often worry if they are ‘normal’ or ask something along the lines of ‘what does it mean if I get aroused by this?’ We’ve got you!In fact, the Femdom hosts hear some version of “is this weird” a lot. We highlight several common areas of concern: Anal play / prostate playCock suckingWearing pantiesBeing a submissive manWhat is normal? Who gets to decide what types of erotic pleasure are outside the norm?Who can you talk with about your concerns?How to find someone who can guide you through these desires.You’ll also hear that you aren’t alone in your worry about being weird or whatever. The ladies share personal stories about our own experiences. Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

17 Feb 29min

A listener asks for an episode about prostate play and prostate health. The ladies think this is a great idea for a podcast focused on playing with the prostate and all that goes along with that.The episode includes:A bit of biology, where the prostate is, how to find it, why you want to explore it.All the fun names including one that will make total sense when you hear it.What does a prostate orgasm feel like and how is it different from a ‘regular’ orgasm?What is a sissygasm and what does that feel like?If someone is a chastity pet, then the Mistress might keep that submissive caged and do prostate milking. These Femdoms talk about prostate health and using prostate milking for someone who is in long term chastity say as part of sissy training and feminization.Why would someone be nervous about or reluctant to try prostate play? The ladies talk about some common concerns. The two most common worries about anal sex are: will it hurt and will it be ‘messy.’ You’ll hear recommendations for favorite sex toys for anal play, including remote controlled sex toys.Personal stories, jokes and laughter are always part of the podcast – so we’re glad to have you here with us!Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyNOTE:  if you navigate to our blogs but land on TalkToMe123 you are not lost.  If you want to know more how to access our blogs, just get in touch.Here's how:Olivia@enchantrixempire.comErika@enchantrixempire.com

10 Feb 30min

Your Femdom hosts talk about why they love phone sex and distance domination. The focus is on fantasy roleplay that is only possible in fantasy or is the perfect choice for someone who can’t explore their desires in a “real” life setting.Ms Erika describes fantasy roleplay as letting go of logic and being able for a Mistress to push boundaries that couldn’t otherwise be pushed. Ms Olivia agrees, adding that being able to suspend reality is perfect for storytelling. Both ladies point out the unique intimacy in this kind of connection. Mistress Erika brings up how the long distance relationship actually reduces inhibitions and allows someone to really talk about erotic desires without fear of judgment or fear of rejection from your real life partner, wife or girlfriend.Some roleplays are physically impossible. The ladies talk about several examples including:Giantess, shrinking, and tiny man fantasiesThe magically transformed category that includes coerced feminization: male to female transformation scenes as a sissy, bimbo / slut, or submissive woman.MILF fantasies where the caller is transported back to being a young man with an older womanBi sexual exploration or submission to a Dominant manFantasy cocksucking without any fears of safety, health or other issues.All the various versions of cuckold fantasiesPublic humiliation (that’s a no no for consent and safety reasons)Exhibitionist and/or voyeur fantasiesCum eating that is hot only before someone has cum to eatSome of the behind the scenes conversation will give you insight into how we each bring our creativity to our erotic roleplay scenes.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

3 Feb 29min

We get lots of questions about feminization. A question that is on the minds of many a crossdresser, sissy or transwoman is about self-confidence in appearance. We get it. Your physical appearance is very important but it’s your mind and heart that will end up having the most influence over your experience of being feminized.In this episode, you’ll hear personal stories from the Femdom hosts about building confidence, self-acceptance, and resisting the urge to compare yourself to others. What do you do when your reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy?That’s a common question for many kinky people and it’s especially true for those exploring feminization.Don’t worry!  We’ve got you covered (pun intended).Like always, along with the sexy stories, you’ll get practical tips, advice and instructions to reinforce your sissy training. Remember, confidence is the sexiest attribute you can have — well that and some really cute panties. Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

27 Jan 30min

Are you a naughty sissy? Maybe you’re simply someone who needs a firm hand with your feminization training. Perhaps you are someone who is new to sissification and curious about what might be involved. This episode is all about using BDSM protocols, pain, and firm control for sissy training.What is petticoat discipline?Petticoating and its origin in Victorian England (TLDR those people were very kinky!)Discipline can be used for behavior modification, correction, and more.Maintenance spanking to ensure submission and obedience.Mistress Erika points out that the training might not involve any form of physical pain - it can be things like:Erotic humiliation which we call pain for the brainBDSM high protocol used to reinforce roles of power exchangeFeminization as part of a FLR - Female Led RelationshipsHow a Femdom Mistress can use tasks and rewards to reinforce feminization goalsThe hosts give specific scene examples that call for:Locking clothing and shoesCBT: ball slapping, etc.ChastityHave you ever thought about how many ways there are to train a sissy? We have (as you can tell) - now we want to hear from you! Do you need a firm hand? Let us know.Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

20 Jan 31min

What do you do when you have kink desires and you can’t get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme? For many people, the solution is finding an online Mistress or someone who specializes in online domination.The ladies first talk about different places where someone might find a Femdom. Unless you happen to ‘run across’ a Dominant Woman in the wild, so to speak, we tend to be in the kink community, Pro Domme spaces, or available for online Domination. Those categories are not mutually exclusive; many ladies belong to more than one group. What are some of the benefits of having an online Mistress? Your hosts are both with LDW Group femdom phone sex so our experience is only with this elite company. This episode talks about some of the unique benefits of what we do:PrivacyThe caller controls his or her anonymity by choosing what to share.That anonymity allows for a discrete exploration of erotic fantasiesPlaying with a professional means an affair gone wrong won’t blow up your lifeSpur of the moment sessionsKeeping the various aspects of your life separateMistress Erika mentions a pet peeve of hers and Ms Olivia agrees! Listen to behind the scenes stories and learn about phone sex reviews, Mistress recommendations and more.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyMistress recommendation form: My Perfect Mistress

13 Jan 38min