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Have you been to a BDSM kink conference? Do you want to go but are worried that you won’t know anyone? We have a solution, be a volunteer! This episode is inspired by a conversation with Sissy Bruna who wants to be a service submissive to a Femdom Mistress. There is one of the largest gatherings of Femdoms and Pro Dommes happening in LA at the end of May.This episode is all about how to be a volunteer submissive at DomCon LA. DomCon board member Mistress Mia Darque joins the ladies to answer questions about being a volunteer. You don’t need to be submissive to volunteer (Ms Olivia is a regular volunteer for lots of groups), but this can be the perfect role for any service submissive.As far as volunteering for DomCon, there are a bunch of specific questions and topics:Who should consider being a volunteer at DomCon (or any BDSM convention)?How are volunteers picked at DomCon?What are some of the volunteer positions? And do volunteers need special skills?What are the hours for a kink convention volunteer?What does a volunteer wear? Advice on managing the expectations of the volunteer. What are some of the benefits of being a volunteer? Does a volunteer get a discount or other perks?In the conversation about volunteering for DomCon LA, the ladies talk about all sorts of other things. As always, you’ll hear a mix of behind-the-scenes information, useful advice for communicating with a Femdom and random things that catch the attention of these smart, sexy women.DomCon LA is Wednesday May 29 - Sunday June 2ndhttps://domcon.com/sessions/newMistress Mia Darque:  https://www.justsayred.com/Mistress Olivia:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika:   https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

1 Apr 202433min

What are cock rings? Okay, if you’re a fan of this podcast, chances are you know what a cock ring is. Maybe you even wear a cock ring. But, do you know all this about cock rings?The ladies start with the basics of cock rings. Learn how a cock ring works and why it’s effective for erectile dysfunction, stamina, intensifying sensations, and powerful orgasms. Ms. Olivia mentions that people in Victorian England used cock rings as male chastity devices. What the hell!?!Modern cock rings are generally made of two types of material - hard and stretchy. These Femdoms talk about using cock rings in sessions to enhance submission, sensations, and more.Tips for buying cock rings include:Pros and cons of different kinds of materials, including metal versus siliconeSize and fitHow to measure for a metal cock ringHow to find a cock ring that fits your bodyTypes of cock rings with special effects like nubs and vibesSafety and cock rings, including edge play while being risk-awareThe Femdom hosts use cock rings for all kinds of kink play and fetish scenes. They have suggestions for where to get various kinds of penis play toys.https://male-essentials.com/https://oxballs.com/Do you have a cock ring? What do you use and where did you get it?Inquiring minds want to know.Remember to check out our blogs:Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/The Weekly Hot Spot podcast transcripts are posted on the blog: https://weeklyhotspot.com/The transcripts aren’t current, but the ones that are up have lots of links to things we talk about, photos and more so check it out, leave a comment and more episode transcripts will post asap.

25 Mar 202424min

The hosts get an email from someone who describes himself as a submissive male interested in being controlled by a strict Mistress. Mistress Harper joins Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika to talk about requests for a strict Mistress. Ms. Harper is the perfect guest for this episode because she describes herself as a sensual sadist. What does that mean, and how does that play out in a kink session?BDSM terms can mean different things to people at various levels of kink play. For example, what does the term strict Mistress mean to you? Think about some of these terms for a strict Mistress: cruel, sadistic, harsh, demanding, firm, unyielding, etc. Words have various meanings depending on context and the people involved.In this episode, you’ll hear how these three Femdoms ask questions to make sure everyone involved in the scene is on the same page with what will happen.What questions does a Mistress ask to find out what her potential kink playmate means when using various kink terminology?This candid conversation has examples of BDSM negotiation and why consent from both parties is important in power exchange and pain play. Remember, in BDSM, pain can be physical or mental pain. Mental or emotional pain can be things like humiliation, degradation, etc.BDSM is a paradox of sensations and emotions. For example, pain is pleasure; submission is freedom, etc. Want to please your Mistress? Listen to this podcast episode and follow her lead as she asks questions and creates your relationship.Mistress Olivia’s personal blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/Mistress Harper’s personal blog:  https://www.fetishphonesexblog.com/

18 Mar 202431min

Today’s episode on wigs and wig care is inspired by Yvonne, who says keeping wigs from becoming a mess is a real challenge. We agree! Choosing the right wig is complicated. These Mistresses believe that feminization is all about the total package, and, for most people, that means finding the perfect hair for the look you want for your transformation. Unless you win the lottery, you will probably need at least an idea of your budget as you shop for your crossdresser or sissy accessories. Wigs can get expensive, so the hosts of this podcast outline tips that will help you experiment with style, length, and color before you pick out some keeper wigs.Things to consider:Wig material: synthetic, natural hair or a combo of bothWhere will you wear your wig?Do you want to go out and about or stay at home while dressed en femme?What is the weather like where you are? If you’re in Florida, for example, human hair can get frizzy or lose shape because of the heat and humidity.Budget versus qualityHow to shop for your wig: online versus in personWig shopping details:** How to measure your wig. ** Styles of wig cap: basic/blunt or lace** Why a wig liner is importantWashing your wig liner and wig** Detangling and styling your wig** How to store your wigThis episode ends with this quote from Dolly Parton: “There’s a heart beneath the boobs and a brain beneath the wig.” … Unless you’re a sissy bimbo - then you don’t need the brain, your Femdom Mistress will do all the thinking for you!Mistress Olivia’s personal blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika’s personal blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/The Weekly Hot Spot blog with transcripts of past shows: https://weeklyhotspot.com/Face shapes to hairstyles: https://elly-k.com.au/tips-and-advice/face-shapes-to-hair-styles/How to measure your head for a wig: https://www.wigs.com/blogs/news/how-to-measure-your-head-for-a-wig

11 Mar 202430min

Are you a member of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire? If you’re frustrated with being shadow banned and restricted on social media, you should check out Enchantrix Empire.It’s free to join. You’ll find Mistresses, other sexy people, and a fantastic kinky community there.The members of Enchantrix Empire vote for the Mistress of the Month and this month it is our very own, Mistress Erika!So, we’ve got to celebrate in our own special way.And YOU get to have lots of sexy fun with us, including some awesome treats from the lovely and talented Mistress Erika.For details on her Mistress of the Month gifts to YOU, check out her blog:https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/mistress-erika-mistress-of-the-month-march/Thanks for always supporting us and helping us celebrate all the kinky fun!Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

4 Mar 202424min

The cuckold fetish is one of the most popular sexual fantasies. The Femdom hosts of this kink podcast talk about some of the most common myths about the cuckold lifestyle.Myth 1: Only men enjoy cuckolding.The cuckold fantasy is very popular among men, but it’s not exclusive to men. Many women initiate the cuckold lifestyle. Mistress Olivia and Ms. Erika talk about why they love cuckolds and why more women are getting involved in the cuckold lifestyle.Myth 2: The cuckold is always a cis man.Did you know that some women love to BE the cuckold? She is called a cuckqueen.Ms. Olivia shares how she cuckolded male partners with a woman as her lover.Both ladies agree that a particular type of wicked cuckolding can be done with a sex toy. Imagine if you were replaced by a dildo!Mistress Erika adds that a common myth is that the Bull is always a Black man. Interracial cuckolding is very popular because BBC is popular but the Bull can be of any race.Myth #3 - All cuckolds like humiliation, domination and/or denial.BDSM is a paradox. Pain is pleasure. Submission is freedom. Orgasm denial is intense erotic satisfaction. Many aspects of the cuckold lifestyle express these contractions. The hosts talk about personal experiences in their private lives and during distance domination phone sex sessions.Myth #4 - Cuckolds don’t or should not get jealous.Mistress Olivia points out that many cuckolds think they should or should not feel a certain way about their relationship.It’s common for the swirl of emotions to be a big part of why cuckolding is so intense.Ms. Erika talks about jealousy, envy, and the need for good communication for all the participants in this lifestyle.Do you have a cuckold fantasy, experience being a cuckold, or want to explore this kinky relationship? Do any of these labels describe you:The submissive cuckoldThe reluctant cuckoldThe sissy cuckold husbandCuckold in chastityPussy free cuckoldAnd so much more …The ladies want to hear from you! Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

26 Feb 202428min

Goddess Rachel joins Ms Olivia and Ms Erika for this episode, which is inspired by a listener's comment and question.Here’s the comment / question: “I’ve been exploring different ways to cum before the orgasm. I didn’t realize how many different ways there are to come without going all the way first. It’s been great to have a better mind-body connection and multiple cums to enjoy. Have you done a podcast on various ways to cum without full orgasm?”What a great question! Today’s episode is about Tantra, orgasm edging, and gooning.Ms Erika starts the conversation talking about gooning as a state of mind, which is way more than the physical actions of edging and masturbation. She points out that many people deep into a gooning session actually don’t want to have an orgasm. Ms Olivia says gooning is the masturbation version of subspace. Goddess Rachel says that there is a term called goonspace which describes a state that a lot of gooners chase.Topics in this episode include:Full body waves of pleasure without ejaculation via TantraThe difference between edging for a long time and gooningMs Erika’s gooner trance audioWomen who are gooners and are called goonettesThe science and biology of male ejaculationSex toys that enhance gooning, including a brief history of cock ringsFavorite lubes for masturbationAs always, you’ll hear sexy stories, weird erotic facts, flirting, and lots of fun. Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/Goddess Rachel: ​​https://www.sensual-domme.com/

19 Feb 202431min

This episode about feminization is inspired by someone who describes herself as a cis male exploring feminization and being a sissy.Jen Jenn has questions about manicures, nail polish, and whether a sissy needs to go to a salon for a mani/pedi.What is the most femme style for nails?What does Mistress recommend for a sissy who needs to be discreet about her crossdressing?Why press-on nails are perfect for feminization training.The ladies move on to general makeup and hair tips for feminization and sissy dressing. This episode is an overview of sissy style tips. Mistress Erika has recommendations for a skin care routine. Ms Olivia has a confession about her own skin care routine.Topics include:Male to female makeup tipsDiscrete ways to wear makeupHow to find what makeup works for youHair and wigs for feminizationThe best hairstyles for a sissyMistress Olivia’s personal blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s personal blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

12 Feb 202433min