Do you really want TPE or total power exchange?

Do you really want TPE or total power exchange?

Ms Harper joins the ladies for a conversation about myth versus reality with total power exchange relationships.

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika give couple of definitions to start the conversation:

** What is power exchange?
** What does total power exchange mean?
** What is the difference between being dominated at a play party and being a full time submissive in a TPE relationship?

Ms Harper points out that power exchange games are based on a power imbalance. That imbalance may not exist in vanilla relationships...or it might be there, unspoken and unacknowledged. In BDSM, the imbalance is pointed out, and sometimes, gloried in and celebrated with fun and sexy games.


Why would someone want to be in a TPE relationship? BDSM can often be a stress relief, escape from other parts of life, or even a type of erotic vacation. It can be physiological, psychological, and/or emotional stress relief.


Other topics include:

** Protocol in BDSM relationships
** What is High Protocol in a D/s relationship?
** Use of contracts between Mistress and submissive
** How does power exchange work with Distance Domination?
** Role of safe words in BDSM** Role of safe words in total power exchange and why there is a debate about this in BDSM circles.
** Is there a difference between total power exchange and total authority transfer?
** BDSM communication and scene negotiation
** How to communicate with your Femdom Mistress
** Role of consent in BDSM relationships

Remember, if you crave the relief of not having to be in charge, a little power-exchange fantasy is a lot of fun. Whether that’s just letting someone tell you how to jerk off to agreeing to chastity for a set length of time, all the way up to detailed schedules and monitored activities, as long as you’ve had a good conversation with your Mistress or Owner ahead of time then this can be a perfect relationship for you both.


Mistress Olivia: Experienced Mistress

Mistress Erika: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Mistress Harper: Fetish Phone Sex Blog

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