BDSM: pain play and how to not leave marks

BDSM: pain play and how to not leave marks

What do you do if you love pain, impact play, discipline, CBT, and/or bondage but you can’t have marks on your body?
How do you hide the marks when you love being on the receiving end of the S/m dynamic?

That’s the topic today and it’s the result of a listener question to the previous episodes about many aspects of pain play.


Topics include:

Training for a submissive versus a kinky scene with a pain slut
The role of stress positions to enhance kinky scenes
Physical pain, mental pain and the role of an intense mindfuck
The role of suffering in submission to a beautiful Femdom Mistress

Of course, there is always a lot of emphasis on the role of communication in BDSM.

The ladies talk about BDSM negotiation, what to ask your Mistress and why it’s important that you answer her questions honestly (so she can plan the play effectively).

This is BDSM education:

Thuddy versus stingy impact play
The role of warmup in impact play
How bondage affects the skin for CBT
Electrosex and what to look for an a tens unit for kinky usesWax play and safety concerns
Temperature play and a wicked use of ice water
The importance of aftercare

These creative Femdoms talk about workarounds for those who crave S/m pain but need to keep this part hidden.


Remember if you hear something in the podcast and you have a followup question, send an email.
Olivia AT enchantrixempire.com

Erika AT enchantrixempire.com

Ms Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

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