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The co-hosts of this BDSM kink podcast answer questions about their private lives.What is a typical day like for an online Femdom Mistress?What prompts Mistress Erika to say, “A day without masturbation is like a day without sunshine?" This leads to a conversation about how to masturbate with a chastity cage on, getting a blow job while locked up, and other devious techniques that are perfect for humiliation and mindfucking.Shout out to Mature Metal Chastity Cages for their design, value, and amazing customer service. https://maturemetal.com/A sub who is a bit of a smart aleck asks Ms Olivia about her latex catsuit. Among the laughter, there is also a serious answer about how to clean fetish latex outfits and BDSM gear.Another playmate asks if we ever have such a hot session that we masturbate while thinking about it.How much planning goes into a BDSM or feminization session? Ms Erika talks about the variety of types of calls we get - sometimes phone sex or GFE, sometimes a specific fetish like the Giantess tiny man fantasy, all the way to more traditional BDSM, domination, cuckolding, or cock control calls. Mistress Olivia adds her thoughts on BDSM scene negotiations and pre-call session planning.DownUnder Subby asks: Is there much conversation amongst Mistresses about callers?This question is a perfect opportunity for the ladies to talk about client privacy, 2 Mistress sessions, sharing playmates, and more. Ms Olivia talks about email packages for 2 Mistress sissy training and feminization where everyone is in the same email.A sissy girl asks about ways the Mistresses get pumped up for domination sessions.Another subby is curious about what we do for a daily work routine.Speaking of routines, someone asks about exercise routines and staying fit.Lots of people want to know: What does a Mistress do for fun or just to fill up the downtime (when away from out Domination antics)? The question comes from our new friend Aborigen who is a size fantasy writer (Giantess and tiny man stories).Zheightgeist podcast: https://zheightgeist.com/Lots of laughs, personal stories, some serious thoughts, and a wish for you as 2023 ends and 2024 begins.Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

11 Des 202337min

Are you curious about going to a Pro Domme? How do you approach a Dominatrix? What do you say and how do you interact with a Mistress?Have you ever wondered why a Mistress would open her own Femdom play space? What’s it like to set up and run a BDSM kink dungeon? Your Femdom hosts get answers to these questions and so much more as they talk with Mistress Rogue, owner of The Dom House in Florida.What does the general public get wrong about sex work and sex workers?Why is it important that these Femdoms dispel myths about being Pro Dommes?Other topics include:** The social stigma around sex and sex work.** The stigma from the non-pro BDSM kink community towards those who get paid for Domination skills and services** The differences between a full service provider like an escort and a Dominatrix.** Whether having sex with a submissive makes the Femdom less dominant.Since our guest is the HeadMistress and owner of the Dom House we (and listeners) want to know:** How did you decide to open a BDSM Dungeon?** How much BDSM furniture and kink toys do you need to have a full Dungeon?** What is your favorite piece of kink furniture?** How do you handle privacy for clients and discretion about your neighbors?Do’s and don’ts of contacting a Pro Domme** DO be vulnerable and open to the woman in charge** DO read the website before contacting so you don’t ask questions about things you can easily find out if you read her website.** DO be respectful in your communication** Have patience; don’t get upset if you don’t get an immediate answer.** Don’t send a wall of text in all caps, tons of unpaid emails or act entitled. ** DO be prepared to talk with your Domme when she asks: what is your safe word, what are your boundaries, do you want me to push your boundaries, what’s your goal, how do you want to feel, and more.This episode is a peek behind the scenes of the lives of these Femdoms. Enjoy!

4 Des 202331min

Miss Fiiona gets a question from one of her callers. The ladies love the question, and that inspires today’s episode.The listener wants our thoughts on sissy or femme style and what is (or is not) considered feminine.What a great question! This sparks a conversation about self-image, gender roles, gender presentation, and so much more.What is the right look for a crossdresser, sissy or submissive transwoman?Why are skirts, heels and frills considered traditionally feminine?Who gets to decide what the right look is for someone who is being transformed from male to female? Do crossdressers or sissies worry about not looking a certain way?Does a sissy feel compelled to conform to the sissy style seen in porn or feminization memes?How does someone present themselves to the world as feminine even when not conforming to traditional girly fashion?Ms Erika has some tips on how to think about self-image when you are a crossdresser, sissy, or transwoman.Ms Olivia points out that as someone becomes more feminine in their feminization journey, they often end up with some of the same self-image worries as cis-gender women have. Miss Fiona points out that not all cis women think alike, so it’s important that anyone who is dressing en femme knows that part of the feminization journey is to develop your own style that works for you. Among the laughter and fun is a thoughtful conversation about image, societal roles, and how to find your community of choice that supports who you are.PS. You’ll also find out some stuff you probably never knew about each lady. Hint: did you know Ms Erika loves powerwashing? Don’t judge! Okay, the ladies did all laugh about that one.Miss Fiona: https://mistressoffantasy.com/Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/Ms Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

27 Nov 202333min

Elite Dominatrix and Dungeon owner Mistress Rogue is today’s guest.Ms Olivia and Ms Erika have a great time talking with this fascinating Florida Femdom and kinky Mistress. There are lots of personal stories about being a real human person who is also a Femdom Mistress.Each Mistress has a unique path. Mistress Rogue shares about her BDSM kink journey:** getting introduced to BDSM** the journey from submissive to Dominant** the importance of mentoring in the BDSM kink communityThe relationship between a Mistress and her submissive can be intense and powerful. This BDSM kink podcast episode has insights into:** How a Femdom creates a kink or power exchange scene** The importance of a Domme being able to read her submissive in a session** BDSM scene negotiation before the scene** Sub drop and Domme dropMistress Rogue brings up the importance of boundaries, rules, safe words, medical conditions, and triggers. Ms Olivia points out that these are the types of questions that an experienced Mistress will ask.The ladies talk about scenes that were challenging or confusing at first. For example, Mistress Rogue mentions her initial fear of sounding and how she learned to love it. This leads to a conversation about erotic humiliation, intense edge play, and the unique transformative experiences that BDSM sessions can facilitate.Mistress Olivia recommends abook called Radical Estacy by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton All three discuss the preconceived ideas about a Dominatrix - that to be a Femdom means you need to be a mean Mistress with a stern or angry demeanor. They talk about stereotypes of what a Dominant is and how the Domme should or should not behave. Mistress Rogue: MistressRogueFL @ gmail.comhttps://mistressrogue.com/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Mistress Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

20 Nov 202334min

Your Femdom hosts love to get questions from listeners. This episode is inspired by Sissy A who writes, ““I love feminine things, panties stockings bras but I don’t want to suck cock, am I still a sissy?”What a great question!Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika explore the variations and nuances of sissy training, behavior and styles of play for feminization transformation.Some of the topics:** sissy porn is great for humiliation, coerced bi, sissy cuckold husband, etc. but porn depictions of kink, BDSM and sissy play are always exaggerated. Your mileage may (and will) vary.** different ways in which a sissy can be submissive** sometimes feminization can bring up cock curious desires where the sissy is coerced into having sex with a man or men.** emasculation where the male traits are eroded or eliminated when being sissified** the role of humiliation in BDSM, feminization and sissification** the importance of vulnerability when in a safe space** gender and erotic desires** chastity and the pussy free for life sissy** types of sissies** traditional wife, sissy maid, and moreAll this and more in this week’s episode.If you have a question, comment or show suggestion - get in touch!Ms Olivia: olivia @ enchantrixempire.comMs Eriks: erika @ enchantrixempire.comMs Olivia’s blog: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Ms Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

13 Nov 202334min

The Scarlet Mistress joins the ladies to talk about CFNM.CFNM stands for clothed female naked male. There are so many ways to go with this type of fetish scene as you can hear in this episode.Miss Scarlet mentions BDSM parties run by Dominant Females. Each Femdom brings her male submissive with the understanding that all the men at the party will be required to be naked.What happens at CFNM parties and what kinds of CFNM games are there to do? Ms Scarlet brings up the human monopoly board, where the play pieces are naked men. Of course, this cracks up Ms Erika and Ms Olivia. Listen to the ladies talk about the spots on the board where naked men are required to do pushups, jumping jacks, hula hoop, dance, and more activities … including a penis measuring station!Penis measuring makes Ms Olivia think of sph and erotic humiliation. Is humiliation always part of CFNM play? This leads to a conversation about power exchange scenarios that might (or might not) involve humiliation but all involve submission to the Dominant Woman.Each lady talks about her favorite CFNM scenes:** CFNM strip poker ** MILF roleplay, where the mature woman tricks the younger man into taking off his clothes for her.** Trapped and tricked until he is naked and exposed—like being tricked into being a nude model at an art class.Of course, there’s lots of laughter, teasing, and creative idea cross-pollination. Do YOU have a favorite CFNM scene, or did you hear one that you want to experience?Miss Scarlet: https://www.thescarletmistress.com/Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/Mistress Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

6 Nov 202335min

Miss Fiona joins Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika to take part in what’s called the largest sexual personality survey ever done.Yep, you read that right. Pornhub and the Museum of Sex partnered with academic researchers on a project to create a sexual personality test on Pornhub!Since the ladies are often cruising around Pornhub, we, of course, had to take the survey to find out our sexual personalities. This leads to a conversation about all kinds of things.For example:** the Explorer vs Bonder scale measures your preferred type of romantic bond. Find out where Ms Erika lands.** the Physical vs Mental scale shows that Mistress Olivia is more stimulated by mental imagery, foreplay, erotica, and the anticipation of sex than the typical person. Little wonder why phone sex is the perfect career!** Miss Fiona found out that she prioritizes her orgasm more than she realized, or more than she admitted to herself.The sex survey is the starting point for a conversation about intimacy, erotic pleasure, Femdom control, polyamory, and so much more.Sex Survey: https://www.pornhub.com/sextypemeMs Fiona: https://mistressoffantasy.com/Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/\Ms Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

30 Okt 202331min

Ms Brighton joins the ladies to talk about cuckold fantasies. Did you know that one survey found that 2 out of 3 men have some kind of cuckold desires? That doesn’t really surprise these Femdom Mistresses but the same study showed that one-third of the participating women had thought about cuckolding. What makes this such a powerful fantasy?Mistress Olivia says she’s surprised that more women aren’t into the hot wife or cuckold lifestyle.Ms Brighton points out that a number of women are interested in this as a cuckoldress or a cuckqueen. What is a cuckqueen? That’s a woman who gets sexual pleasure when her male partner has sex with other women.Ms Brighton has a theory that cuckolding has always been popular, but it is more popular these days because guys grow up watching porn. They want to have the experience of watching (and maybe participating).Each Mistress talks about some of their favorite cuckold scenes. Ms Brighton brings up cuckolding a man with her (a woman) being the “bull” with the man’s wife or girlfriend! Ms Brighton is the Domme to both the woman and her partner. Ms Erika’s loves scenes with the “uninvolved cuckold” meaning he’s not involved in the cuckold relationship other than to know that it exists. He might be in chastity while his hot wife sends texts and photos about her hot date.Ms Olivia talks about being back home with her cuckold, giving him a sensual handjob with a loose grip while talking about being pleasured by the big, fat cock from her lover.All three ladies talk about cuckolding in their private lives.Other topics include:Is cuckolding about revenge or humiliation?Does a cuckold always have a small penis?Can this be a tender, loving gift from her husband because he knows she deserves great sex?What makes a cuckold scene memorable?How does cuckolding work with a Distance Domination Mistress?How does each lady make the scene even more intense?All this and so much more, including a request to hear from you about being a cuckold in fantasy or reality.Ms Brighton’s cuckold blog: https://thecuckoldlife.com/Ms Brighton’s main blog: https://enchantrixtease.com/Ms Olivia: https://www.experiencedmistress.com/Ms Erika: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

23 Okt 202339min