So you want to be a service submissive. What does that mean to a Femdom Mistress?

So you want to be a service submissive. What does that mean to a Femdom Mistress?

Every Femdom hears this: “Mistress I want to serve you.” What does that mean?

There are many ways for a sub to serve a Mistress. There is no arbitrary ‘right’ way to have a D/s relationship. Part of BDSM negotiation means making sure that each person is in agreement about roles, expectations, activities, etc.


Topics in this podcast episode include:

The difference between fantasy BDSM roleplay and lifestyle kink relationships.
A discussion of some things that help different people to feel submissive.
The role of chastity, orgasm denial and/or suffering for your Mistress.
Does a service submissive automatically mean sexual service?

What are some non-sexual things that a service sub provides?

Since your podcast hosts do Distance Domination, the role of a service sub is a little different but the fundamentals are the same as an in person play partner.


What can someone do for their Goddess?
The ladies have some specific suggestions:
Visit our blogs and stay on the blog for at least 3 minutes, click on several pages, staying on each page for several minutes.
Write comments on our blogs
Follow us on social media; comment on and share our posts.

What does the sub get out of serving a Mistress?

Hear what other submissives say about being a service sub.

Have you ever wanted to be a real service sub?

What does that phrase mean to you?

Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

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Mistress Guide to Male Chastity Episode 120

Mistress Guide to Male Chastity Episode 120

The Weekly Hot Spot returns to take you behind the scenes of kink, BDsm, Distance Domination and phone sex. The hosts are Lifestyle Femdom’s who enjoy sharing their love of fetish, kink and erotic pleasure.This episode is inspired by a 2 Mistress call featuring Ms Olivia and Ms Delia. You’ll hear what the caller said about chastity and why his comment inspired a reboot of this adult podcast. We’ll give you a hint of today’s topic. The caller says he likes to use chastity as a reboot to his orgasm and sexual pleasure but he has a problem. The Mistresses talk chastity, cock cages and timing, how to keep someone sane in chastity, what to do when he can’t wear a cage all the time and so much more.

14 Okt 201933min

How To Talk To Mistress The Weekly Hot Spot

How To Talk To Mistress The Weekly Hot Spot

Ms Delia and Ms Olivia give tips on how to communicate your fantasy to a Mistress....and some things that you do NOT want to do when emailing a Femdom for your Distance Domination.

5 Nov 201833min

CBT The Weekly Hot Spot

CBT The Weekly Hot Spot

Your Mistress hosts talk about CBT --- pain play involving the cock and balls. What is it? How does each Femdom do a CBT session. How to do intense play that is still safe. What is sexy about CBT and some stories you won't hear anywhere else. Ms Delia and Ms Olivia LOVE CBT!

29 Okt 201827min

Sex Research The Weekly Hot Spot

Sex Research The Weekly Hot Spot

Sex is the topic -- sex RESEARCH specifically -- you might not be as much of a "pervert" as you think. Ms Delia shares what happened in her marriage when her husband said NO to kink for a time. Ms Olivia says her vanilla friends are kinkier than she ever imaged. Each Mistress has lots to say about new research out of the Kinsey Institute.

22 Okt 201826min

Cock Control Guided Masturbation

Cock Control Guided Masturbation

Each Mistress has lots of say about cocks --- size, shape, playtime, and more. Ms Delia talks about why this month is called COCK-tober. These Femdoms are in a mood in this adult podcast!

15 Okt 201825min

Feminization and sissy play

Feminization and sissy play

Mistress Delia and Ms Olivia talk about feminization, crossdressing and sissy play. You'll hear some behind the scenes talk about gender, sexuality, sexual identity, fetsih play and how to buy panties! Plus a few giggles about how slutty a sissy can be.

8 Okt 201824min

WhyTalkToAMistressHotSpot

WhyTalkToAMistressHotSpot

Ms Delia and Ms Olivia talk about why phone sex callers want to talk to a Mistress --- some of the reasons might not be what you think. BDsm, fetish, kink, all kinds of sex and a lot of laughers.

1 Okt 201827min

MistressInterviewsTheWeeklyHotSpot

MistressInterviewsTheWeeklyHotSpot

Special edition of The Weekly Hot Spot featuring 2 Mistress Interviews -- co-host Ms Delia and HeadMistress Ms Ally. Ms Delia talks about how Distance Domination changes her in person fetish play and her evolving Mistress style. Ms Ally talks about creating LDW Group as a collaborative effort with kinky, sexy people like you!

24 Sep 201825min

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