Rev. Dr. Ken Fong expounds on the difference between toxic shame and healthy shame
Erasing Shame24 Jul 2024

Rev. Dr. Ken Fong expounds on the difference between toxic shame and healthy shame

On this Erasing Shame conversation, Rev. Dr. Ken Fong explains the difference between toxic shame and healthy shame—how they're two different things. Toxic shame carries the message that there's something inherently wrong with oneself, leading individuals to either blame others or internalize the feeling and become worthless. Healthy shame, on the other hand, acknowledges mistakes and wrongdoings, allowing for growth and the reception of grace. He also shares insights into the cultural significance of shame in the Asian American community and the importance of authenticity and healthy connections in a chaotic world.

• Asian America: The Ken Fong Podcast asianamericapodcast.com

• Show Notes at erasingshame.com

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