11. “My wife wants to quit her job but I’m worried about money”

11. “My wife wants to quit her job but I’m worried about money”

Nicole and John have already won the money game. Combined, they bring in $650,000 a year. But it's not an even split. Nicole currently earns $150,000 and would like to leave her stable job to create a startup. John feels this gamble has not been discussed at length. They keep talking about “having the conversation,” but they never do. Both complain that they’re not feeling appreciated. John yearns for acts of service from Nicole. Nicole feels like her contribution is never enough. (You will frequently hear the lower earner talk repeatedly about “contributing” to the relationship.) Listen as this anxiety slowly bubbles to the surface. On John's side, the growing pile of money in his bank account is making him more paranoid than ever before. He worries he could lose it all -- like what happened when he was younger. The fear runs so deep, he doesn't even believe me when I use math to demonstrate they will be more than fine for the rest of their lives. On paper, Nicole and John have a rich life, but they're not fleshing it out together because of their fears, insecurities, and lack of communication. Listen in as I nudge them towards a Rich Life. Connect with Ramit Website Instagram Twitter Facebook YouTube Linkedin If you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here. Produced by Crate Media.

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233. “I save while she spends on vacations. Is this fair?”

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232. “My husband gives me an allowance. I feel like a child.”

232. “My husband gives me an allowance. I feel like a child.”

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231. “Our $200k in crypto is gone. Now we live with his mom.”

231. “Our $200k in crypto is gone. Now we live with his mom.”

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230. “We spend 168% of what we make. What are we missing?”

230. “We spend 168% of what we make. What are we missing?”

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229.  “I’m almost 50 and have nothing to show for my life”

229.  “I’m almost 50 and have nothing to show for my life”

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228. “I’m 30, broke, and tired of budgeting”

228. “I’m 30, broke, and tired of budgeting”

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227. “We bought our dream house. Now we’re drowning”

227. “We bought our dream house. Now we’re drowning”

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226. “She’s chasing FIRE. I want to enjoy life now.”

226. “She’s chasing FIRE. I want to enjoy life now.”

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