45. “She tells me that it’s my fault we can’t live the life we want to live”

45. “She tells me that it’s my fault we can’t live the life we want to live”

Sarah earns more than Andrew. They’re unmarried but imagine a future together, or would like to. The problem is that Andrew’s existing money scripts (and $65k in debt) have him frozen—unable to spend but also unwilling to seriously plan a way out. She wants to spend money on things like vacations, but he doesn’t feel like he can afford to spend. To make things worse, he feels terrible about money in general because that’s how his dad raised him—his presence looms over the conversation. We need to cut out the negative judgments and help Sarah see things from Andrew’s perspective. Then we can talk to Andrew about the mindset to overcome his past—and current—money issues. Connect with Ramit Website Instagram Twitter Facebook YouTube Linkedin If you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here. Produced by Crate Media.

Episoder(257)

40. “We’re worth $5 million but my wife nearly canceled our trip to save $200”

40. “We’re worth $5 million but my wife nearly canceled our trip to save $200”

By now, you know: living a Rich Life is more about mindset than money.  Look at today’s couple, Jack and Rachel. Following the principles described in I Will Teach You to Be Rich, they’ve managed to t...

26 Apr 20221h 35min

39. “She waited until we were engaged to reveal $100k of student loan debt”

39. “She waited until we were engaged to reveal $100k of student loan debt”

Alex and Nicole are getting married this summer and plan to start a family in a few years. That much, they know. How they’ll get there is another question. Nicole doesn’t want to deal with finances—sh...

19 Apr 20221h 12min

38. “He owes his ex $70k/year and it’s straining our finances and our relationship”

38. “He owes his ex $70k/year and it’s straining our finances and our relationship”

Rebecca and John are both attorneys and make good money. While John makes more, he’s legally obligated to pay around $70k annually in alimony and insurance tied to a past divorce settlement.  On top o...

12 Apr 20221h 11min

37. “My love language is spending money I don’t have”

37. “My love language is spending money I don’t have”

Money can be a way of showing love, but what happens when you’re spending money you don’t have? Does spending any less mean you love the people in your life any less?  It seems simple, sometimes it’s ...

5 Apr 20221h 6min

36. “We make $145k per year but have $828k in debt — and feel totally paralyzed”

36. “We make $145k per year but have $828k in debt — and feel totally paralyzed”

Sarah and Nat are physical therapists that are making things too hard for themselves. The enormous cost of education coupled with relatively low pay has left them burdened with debt that colors every ...

29 Mar 20221h 4min

35. “If we can’t stop fighting about money, we’re going to break up”

35. “If we can’t stop fighting about money, we’re going to break up”

Ashley and Josh have come to a stark conclusion: That if they can’t manage to find some common ground in their financial struggles, their relationship has no future. They both earn roughly the same am...

22 Mar 202258min

34. “It’s unromantic if my boyfriend doesn’t pay for date night”

34. “It’s unromantic if my boyfriend doesn’t pay for date night”

Ashley and Josh both have high incomes but they find themselves arguing about who pays for what. Like a few past guests, Ashley thinks certain things are the man’s responsibility to pay for, but Josh ...

15 Mar 202256min

33. “We’re in debt, but I don’t want to make her go back to the corporate world”

33. “We’re in debt, but I don’t want to make her go back to the corporate world”

Martin and Arly feel suffocated by mounting interest on their debt and are jaded by the corporate world. Martin earns $125,000, but Arly is selling essential oils in a network marketing business (read...

8 Mar 202241min

Populært innen Business og økonomi

stopp-verden
lydartikler-fra-aftenposten
dine-penger-pengeradet
e24-podden
rss-penger-polser-og-politikk
rss-borsmorgen-okonominyhetene
pengepodden-2
tid-er-penger-en-podcast-med-peter-warren
utbytte
pengesnakk
liberal-halvtime
livet-pa-veien-med-jan-erik-larssen
morgenkaffen-med-finansavisen
rss-markedspuls-2
finansredaksjonen
rss-pa-konto
lederpodden
rss-politisk-preik
rss-investering-gjort-enkelt
stormkast-med-valebrokk-stordalen