45. “She tells me that it’s my fault we can’t live the life we want to live”

45. “She tells me that it’s my fault we can’t live the life we want to live”

Sarah earns more than Andrew. They’re unmarried but imagine a future together, or would like to. The problem is that Andrew’s existing money scripts (and $65k in debt) have him frozen—unable to spend but also unwilling to seriously plan a way out. She wants to spend money on things like vacations, but he doesn’t feel like he can afford to spend. To make things worse, he feels terrible about money in general because that’s how his dad raised him—his presence looms over the conversation. We need to cut out the negative judgments and help Sarah see things from Andrew’s perspective. Then we can talk to Andrew about the mindset to overcome his past—and current—money issues. Connect with Ramit Website Instagram Twitter Facebook YouTube Linkedin If you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here. Produced by Crate Media.

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24. “I’ve saved $0 for my upcoming unpaid maternity leave”

24. “I’ve saved $0 for my upcoming unpaid maternity leave”

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23. “I live in constant fear that our $425k income isn’t enough”

23. “I live in constant fear that our $425k income isn’t enough”

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22. “I’m quitting my job, but I’m worried my husband doesn't support me”

22. “I’m quitting my job, but I’m worried my husband doesn't support me”

Alexandra and Brandon have a household income of $135,000. Alex just handed in her one week’s notice, but she still has financial needs, and she’s scared to broach the subject of spending money on her...

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21. Part 2: “I want to trust my wife with our money, but what if she blows everything?”

This is part two with Charles and Michelle. He has a net worth of well over $10 million but still uses someone else’s Netflix password. After 21 years, Michelle has reached her limit with his relentle...

7 Des 202154min

20. “My wife is going to divorce me unless I can stop being so cheap”

20. “My wife is going to divorce me unless I can stop being so cheap”

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19. “My husband has been promising that we’ll buy a house in a few months… for five years”

19. “My husband has been promising that we’ll buy a house in a few months… for five years”

Brian is a struggling tech entrepreneur and relies on his wife, Serena, a physician with a stable income of $235,000, to support his family. Serena wants Brian to get a job and admit that his start-up...

23 Nov 202148min

18. "He's the man & he should pay. We can't go on like this any more"

18. "He's the man & he should pay. We can't go on like this any more"

Monique expects Pablo to pay for her “as the man” in the relationship. Pablo wants “fairness” in a partner. Last week, I dug into their money psychology. Right at the end of last week’s conversation -...

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17. “I think he should pay for everything because he’s the man”

17. “I think he should pay for everything because he’s the man”

Monique is very open with what she wants in a relationship. “I always expected that fairytale love, the guy pays for everything, the guy opens the door, the guy waits to kiss me at the end of the nigh...

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