46. “The ghost of FIRE still haunts our money mindset—we can’t enjoy money”

46. “The ghost of FIRE still haunts our money mindset—we can’t enjoy money”

Carolyn and Gavin have been married for ten years. They have three small children and bring in about $130k annually—with a healthy $500k in investments. So what’s the problem? Once we look closer, specifically at their obsession with money mechanics, we see a deeper issue. They learned these bad habits as members of the FIRE community, a lifestyle they’ve left behind but that continues to haunt their money mindsets to this day. To make matters worse, Carolyn has disassociated from the family’s money conversation completely. How do you work as a team when one member refuses to participate? And how can you reset your instincts related to saving and spending after so many years repeating bad habits? Listen in to find out. Connect with Ramit Website Instagram Twitter Facebook YouTube Linkedin If you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here. Produced by Crate Media.

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208. “We make $157K at 22, but we’re afraid to spend money”

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207. “I’m 40, burned out, and don’t know what’s next in my life”

207. “I’m 40, burned out, and don’t know what’s next in my life”

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206. “I quit my job to care for our son, but can we afford it?”

206. “I quit my job to care for our son, but can we afford it?”

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205. “I've been homeless before…I'm terrified to spend money”

205. “I've been homeless before…I'm terrified to spend money”

Jennifer (37) and Steve (41) have been dating for over five years, but they’ve never spent more than $100 on a shared purchase. Jennifer is a self-made business owner with a clear vision for the fut...

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204. “We make $226K—but our kids think we’re broke”

204. “We make $226K—but our kids think we’re broke”

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203. “He makes 3x more, but wants to split everything 50/50”

203. “He makes 3x more, but wants to split everything 50/50”

Katie (28) and Robin (35) live together in Tennessee and are planning a wedding. They earn a combined $386K, but don't split bills proportionally—even though he makes three times more. She feels judge...

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202. “She racked up $50K in debt — why should I trust her with money?”

202. “She racked up $50K in debt — why should I trust her with money?”

Emma (39) and Dave (39) make $258,000 a year—but they’re stuck in a toxic money dynamic. She built a financial plan during maternity leave. He didn’t believe her. Now, they’re battling over trust, $50...

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201. “I make $40k… but I own 100+ suits”

201. “I make $40k… but I own 100+ suits”

Today’s episode takes us to New York City, where I sit down with not two, but three couples live on stage at my Money for Couples event. First, meet Antonio (23) and Devonta (23), a young couple who i...

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