68. “I just learned he took out a secret $100,000 loan—two years ago”

68. “I just learned he took out a secret $100,000 loan—two years ago”

Jan and Emily are in their thirties and recently bought a house. During the sales process, Emily discovered a $100k loan that Jan had taken out without her knowledge. To make matters worse, Jan admits he didn’t really have a plan on how to use this money to benefit their lives. Emily is the higher earner and lets Jan manage their money, adding to the feeling of betrayal that she keeps buried under a calm exterior. They are both supportive and willing to do the work—but Emily’s fear is real and must be processed out in the open. What happens in a relationship when trust with money is broken in such a profound way? How can you plan ahead or feel secure with your partner's decisions? It’s a path with obstacles, no doubt. Let’s see if we can help Jan and Emily navigate it. Connect with Ramit Website Instagram Twitter Facebook YouTube Linkedin If you and your partner have a money issue and you want my help, I occasionally select a couple to work with, free of charge. Apply for my help here. Produced by Crate Media.

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48. “My husband needs a better job, but he hates the idea of earning more”

48. “My husband needs a better job, but he hates the idea of earning more”

Kara and Sean make $150k annually, with $100k of that coming from Kara’s salary in healthcare. They have a baby daughter, and Kara would like to take a step back in her career in order to spend more t...

21 Jun 20221h 13min

47. “We make $500k. Why are we carrying a balance on our credit cards?”

47. “We make $500k. Why are we carrying a balance on our credit cards?”

Ashley and Charles are in their early forties and have been married for six years. Together, they have five children from previous relationships. They live in a high-cost-of-living area—but, collectiv...

14 Jun 20221h 27min

46. “The ghost of FIRE still haunts our money mindset—we can’t enjoy money”

46. “The ghost of FIRE still haunts our money mindset—we can’t enjoy money”

Carolyn and Gavin have been married for ten years. They have three small children and bring in about $130k annually—with a healthy $500k in investments. So what’s the problem? Once we look closer, spe...

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45. “She tells me that it’s my fault we can’t live the life we want to live”

45. “She tells me that it’s my fault we can’t live the life we want to live”

Sarah earns more than Andrew. They’re unmarried but imagine a future together, or would like to. The problem is that Andrew’s existing money scripts (and $65k in debt) have him frozen—unable to spend ...

31 Mai 20221h 11min

44. “Trust in the universe and it (or my partner) will provide”

44. “Trust in the universe and it (or my partner) will provide”

Today’s couple is actually on the same page when it comes to their Rich Life, but they’re not making much progress toward it. Alex brings in $70k from a full time job. Charlotte runs their joint busin...

24 Mai 20221h 2min

43. “Our $300k income is variable and declining but we aren’t adjusting our lifestyle”

43. “Our $300k income is variable and declining but we aren’t adjusting our lifestyle”

How do you manage your finances when your monthly pay is inconsistent? Vince makes around $300k a year in the mortgage industry, while Kasey focuses on raising their kids at home. Despite that rather ...

17 Mai 20221h 10min

42. “We’re worth $5.7 million but we’re arguing over the price of chocolates for Valentine’s day”

42. “We’re worth $5.7 million but we’re arguing over the price of chocolates for Valentine’s day”

Making a lot of money is surprisingly easy. But if you’ve lived with too little of it most of your life, getting over the fear of spending it can be another story completely. Nicole and Michael have a...

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41. “My wife won’t admit her business is failing and we constantly argue about it”

41. “My wife won’t admit her business is failing and we constantly argue about it”

It’s common knowledge that building a business takes time—but how long should you be willing to wait? Rob works a full-time job. Olivia is split between part-time work and her own business. Rob doesn’...

3 Mai 20221h 32min

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