S12 Ep. 4: I'm Not Attracted to My Overweight Wife, He Hates My 'Trick,' and Why Can't I Orgasm with Her?

S12 Ep. 4: I'm Not Attracted to My Overweight Wife, He Hates My 'Trick,' and Why Can't I Orgasm with Her?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I am a straight man and have had a few long-term relationships in my life. Although I enjoy sex, I never ejaculate during intercourse. I am now 50. I can orgasm with intense fantasy and oral sex, but never during penetration. I have read about sensate focus, but are there other options? I am fit and healthy and have no problems ejaculating while masturbating.


2) My wife has put on a lot of weight and I’m simply not attracted to her anymore. I’m struggling to get an erection when she initiates sex, and rarely initiate myself. I still love her very much, but this is clearly a problem. How do I deal with this? She keeps asking me if I think she is fat and I keep saying no, but she’s probably twice the size she was when we first met.


3) I always thought my oral sex skills were second to none, but it’s clear my new partner isn’t impressed. I know I’m being childish, but I feel hurt. Why did it work on everyone but him? And what do I do now? I only know one way.


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