117. The Good Girl Contract - part five: The Contract after separation
This is where the lens widens. Parts 1 through 4 focused on the Contract as it operates in the woman herself - her history, her patterns, her practice of interrupting it. Today, Danielle takes on the ...
12 Aug 45min
116. The Good Girl Contract - part four: Interrupting the Contract
Part 4 of The Good Girl Contract series. This is where the series pivots. Parts 1, 2, and 3 were diagnostic in nature - naming the Contract, walking through what happened when we took it into adult in...
9 Aug 1h 5min
115. The good girl contract - part three: The mirror
If you have been quietly noticing that you struggle to accept other people's boundaries with you - that their no’s, their unavailability, their limits land in you as evidence of your own worth rather ...
30 Jul 39min
114. The good girl contract - part two: The moth and the flame
Their woundedness was a moth to a flame to your overfunctioning. Part 2 of The Good Girl Contract walks through what happened when you took the Contract into your adult intimate relationships. Why th...
23 Jul 38min
113. The good girl contract - part one: Where boundaries begin (or don't)
When your childhood taught you that having needs was dangerous - that being pleasing, useful, and indispensable was the difference between love and its withdrawal - the reason boundaries are so hard a...
16 Jul 25min
112. Working as intended (Postscript): Do I even need a lawyer? An honest conversation on self-representation
If you have been listening to our Working As Intended series, and you have been quietly wondering "if lawyers were never trained in what my children need, and I have to bring all of that myself, do I ...
10 Jul 1h 3min
111. Working as intended - Part 4: How to use your lawyer
If you've been with Danielle across this series, you now know how the family law system in Australia was built, what its practitioners were and were not trained to know, and how to test whether anyone...
2 Jul 36min
110. Working as intended - Part 3: The standard - How to tell who actually knows what your children need
"Child-focused." Two words that appear on the website of virtually every practitioner in the post-separation space. Every lawyer. Every mediator. Every divorce coach. Every family therapist. Eve...
24 Jun 46min
