How to talk about kinks & fetishes with your partner(s)

How to talk about kinks & fetishes with your partner(s)

Curious about exploring BDSM or introducing your kinks to a partner? In this revamped episode of "BDSM Basics," Anna and Gregor share practical advice on navigating these conversations with confidence and care. Whether you're single and seeking a new play partner or in a relationship and unsure how to bring up your desires, this episode covers the dos and don’ts of discussing fetishes for the first time. Tune in to learn how to break the ice and build trust in your intimate connections. Downl...

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Renowned dominatrix Eva Oh talks kink, money & fame

Renowned dominatrix Eva Oh talks kink, money & fame

Dominatrix and kinky influencer Eva Oh is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about her fascinating journey to sex work. She went from working in strategic consulting to becoming a highly successful dominatrix, now earning up to $10,000 a day with an online following in the hundreds of thousands. Eva shares the psychological aspects of her work – particularly her interest in power dynamics and emotional masochism – and misconceptions surrounding sex work and the BDSM community. Timest...

21 Des 202334min

Kink on cam – Todd Max Carey’s BDSM documentary

Kink on cam – Todd Max Carey’s BDSM documentary

BDSM often gets a bad rap in pop culture, notably exacerbated by the problematic portrayal in 'Fifty Shades of Grey'. Determined to shift the narrative, Anna and Gregor sit down with kinky documentary director Todd Max Carey to talk about his latest project, 'Touch Kink,' a film that explores real-world BDSM and fetishism. Carey tells the story of how he got into BDSM and why it was so important for him to bring the stories of other kinky people to the big screen. Tune in as they navigate thr...

7 Des 202335min

Leather fetishes with artist Steven Harwick

Leather fetishes with artist Steven Harwick

It's all about leather in this episode of Spank U, Next... and quite frankly, it's long overdue. The leather fetish community is perhaps the most well-known aesthetic of the queer kinky community – but where is at today? Once thriving leather bars in New York, San Francisco and beyond have closed their doors as dating apps fill the supply and demand of queer and kinky sex. Artist Steven Harwick, a Brooklyn-based artist, has been photographing modern leather kink culture and how the subculture...

20 Nov 202334min

Vampire fetishists thirsty for blood play

Vampire fetishists thirsty for blood play

It's the spooky season – the demons are among us. So Anna and Gregor dive into the realm of vampire fetishism and blood play in this special Halloween episode. They talk Buffy the Vampire Slayer and gothic influences, how vampire fetishists play with their prey, and their recent trip to New Orleans, a city with a vibrant vampire community. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedbac...

30 Okt 202324min

On repeat: A 24/7 BDSM marriage

On repeat: A 24/7 BDSM marriage

Listen to an old fan favourite about the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub’) and JB lift the lid on round-t...

19 Okt 20231h 6min

BDSM on the therapist's couch with Dr. Stefani Goerlich

BDSM on the therapist's couch with Dr. Stefani Goerlich

Spank U, Next is back after a summer hiatus and you're in for a treat. World-renowned sex therapist and kink specialist Dr. Stefani Goerlich is in the studio to talk about BDSM and psychology. Early into her work, Stefani was struck by the kink-shaming she saw among other sex therapists and decided to do things differently. She takes an empathetic and non-stigmatising approach to help kinky people (and their partners) enjoy good sexual health and happiness. In this episode, Stefani tells Anna...

5 Okt 202349min

We answer ChatGPT's BDSM questions

We answer ChatGPT's BDSM questions

All anyone is talking about is AI. How it’s coming for our jobs, our minds, and our sex lives. But does ChatGPT know a thing or two about BDSM? It appears so. New AI tools tend to swerve sexual and adult content – including anything about kinks – but Anna & Gregor hacked ChatGPT to become a curious kinkster. They were surprised about its sophistication – as you will be, too. Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter. Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people l...

9 Aug 202325min

BDSM Basics – Foot fetishes

BDSM Basics – Foot fetishes

In this episode of BDSM Basics, Anna and Gregor explore the world of foot fetishes and how the allure of feet may be tied to their taboo nature, often associated with dirt and sweat. Listen as they make biblical references to foot worship and discuss the symbolism of submission and adoration tied up with these fetishes. If 1 in 3 people have a fetish, and foot fetishes are the most common, that's a lot of people into feet. Timestamps: Intro [00:00:00] Why sexualizing feet feels ta...

20 Jul 202321min

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