How to stop comparing yourself to others
Buddhability3 Apr 2021

How to stop comparing yourself to others

Today we are discussing a question that comes up a lot: How do I stop comparing myself to other people? It can be a real struggle, especially if you feel like the people around you are better or farther ahead than you in some way. Here’s an article we did on the subject, called Feel like you're falling behind?


Our guest today is Harrison Tsao, who started practicing Buddhism in high school because he was deeply struggling with anxiety and depression, stemming from the fact that he found school really challenging, and was constantly being compared to his twin brother. It’s a really inspiring story: Once he started chanting, he took steady steps to find his own path forward and discovered his dream of becoming a chef. Then Covid-19 happened. Still, he never gave up. (You're gonna wanna to listen to the end on this one.)


Cheat Sheet


00:13 Introduction to today’s topic

2:17 Why Harrison started practicing Buddhism

6:45 What it was like growing up as a twin

9:41 His journey toward college and finding his dream

15:41 How Covid-19 impacted his path

18:32 How having a Buddhist community helped him navigate his path forward

22:28 The quote that changed his life

24:38 How he started setting goals for himself

29:59 Advice for anyone who feels like other people are farther ahead in life

31:59 Where Harrison is now

Episoder(246)

Buddhability Short: Is Overcoming Divisiveness Really Possible?

Buddhability Short: Is Overcoming Divisiveness Really Possible?

Buddhability Shorts is a monthly series where we break down a Buddhist concept or common life challenge we’ve touched on in an interview. Today we’re talking about how to overcome division in our pers...

10 Okt 202510min

Recognizing My Worth Changed Everything

Recognizing My Worth Changed Everything

If someone asked you to identify something getting in the way of your happiness right now, could you? It can be challenging to see ourselves clearly but doing so helps us change our lives. Our guest, ...

3 Okt 202539min

Buddhability Short: How to Handle Societal Stress

Buddhability Short: How to Handle Societal Stress

Buddhability Shorts is a monthly series where we break down a Buddhist concept or common life challenge, we’ve touched on in an interview. Today we’re talking handling personal stress brought on by pr...

26 Sep 202513min

Being Unafraid to Change Your Career

Being Unafraid to Change Your Career

There isn’t an expiration date for our dreams. It’s our own limiting beliefs that hold us back from pursuing them. Today’s guest, Jee Hyo Kim, of the Bay Area, set a dream aside and didn’t pick it bac...

19 Sep 202548min

Buddhability Short: Starting a New Life Chapter

Buddhability Short: Starting a New Life Chapter

Buddhability Shorts is a monthly series where we break down a Buddhist concept or common life challenge, we’ve touched on in an interview. Today we’re talking about how to start and navigate a new pha...

12 Sep 202511min

Learning to Love Myself [April 2024]

Learning to Love Myself [April 2024]

It can be hard to embrace ourselves when society often makes us feel otherwise. In this episode, we’re talking about how chanting Nam-myoho-renge-kyo empowers us to appreciate and treasure every part ...

5 Sep 202551min

How Living True to Myself Improved My Relationships [January 2024]

How Living True to Myself Improved My Relationships [January 2024]

Whether we like it or not, we don’t exist in isolation. The interconnection of life means that when we change, our environment changes as well. Today’s guest, Heidi Hayashi, of Stratford, Conn., share...

29 Aug 202549min

Breaking Free from Self-Imposed Limitations [December 2023]

Breaking Free from Self-Imposed Limitations [December 2023]

Believing that we each possess limitless wisdom, courage and compassion—what we call Buddhability—can be a daily battle. Many of us impose limitations on ourselves, believing that we’re not capable of...

22 Aug 202550min

Populært innen Religion og åndelighet

rss-nesten-hele-uka-med-lepperod
lydartikler-fra-aftenposten
rss-lilli-isabelle
sektledere
sektpodden-2
rss-det-uforklarlige-med-victoria-skau
rss-paradigmepodden
andelig-pafyll-hver-tirsdag
dokka
rss-uhoytidelig-spirituell-healer-susanne-og-erik-ertsland-askvik
rss-andelige-tanker-med-camillo
rss-espen-er-kristen
rss-normalt-paranormalt
rss-losrevet
ole-martin-og-einar-leser-bibelen
rss-hoyt-lavt-med-ida-tonseth
gry-hammer-podcast
and-vitenskap
rss-pust-for-livet
rss-kulturkrigen