Katherine and Jay Wolf: Wounded Healers

Katherine and Jay Wolf: Wounded Healers

Jay and Katherine Wolf were 26 years old, newly married, and brand new parents when Katherine survived a brain stem stroke that upended their lives. That was fifteen years ago. Today, they continue to live with the enduringness of recovery, caregiving, and care-receiving, all while trying to maintain hope. Theirs is a story of commitment and love in the face of tremendous odds.


In this episode, Kate, Jay, and Katherine discuss:


  • Why, in the face of impossible circumstances, sometimes the best we can do is to learn to love what must be done
  • How to talk to your kids about the difficulties they might face
  • The different experiences of being a caregiver and care-receiver over the long haul
  • The story of hope and love that Jay and Katherine live into
  • Why you are worth caring for—no matter how broken your body or mind or heart is


I felt so grateful to speak with them fifteen years after the original crisis. This tender conversation offers a wide view of their story of hard-won hope.


P.S. If you are someone for whom people didn’t stick around after your crisis, we see you. We love you. I hope you will hear Katherine’s words: “You are worth it.”


CW: stroke survivor


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