S12 Ep. 10: Hotwife Fantasies, Making a 30-Year Marriage Non-Monogamous, and Sex Acts We've Never Done But Would Love To

S12 Ep. 10: Hotwife Fantasies, Making a 30-Year Marriage Non-Monogamous, and Sex Acts We've Never Done But Would Love To

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) My wife and I communicate well about sex, but lately I’ve become extremely turned on by the thought of watching her have sex with a stranger. I think it’s called ‘hotwifing.’ It’s just a fantasy, and I’m not sure how I’d feel if we acted on it. Usually, anytime we have a ‘kink’ we tell each other, but I worry she’ll think I’m a pervert with this one! Should I tell her or keep it bottled up? I know it’s quite common, but it’s also weird. I guess my question is: is it normal, and should I tell her or keep it to myself? I doubt she’d be game to do it anyway, and I don’t want to freak her out after 15 years together.


2) I’m a 60-year-old man who has been happily married for over 30 years. Sadly, my wife is increasingly less interested in sex. Not only has her libido plummeted, but penetrative sex is painful and non-penetrative sex just doesn’t do it for her. She doesn’t want to give up totally on sex with me, but says it is best if we just do it occasionally. Very occasionally. I struggle with this. I need more than just masturbation, and she understands that. After a lot of talking, she’s suggested we practice non-monogamy. (But just me, since she doesn’t want to have sex with anyone else). We have agreed on some rules: I can’t have sex with someone we know (I wouldn’t anyway), I can’t pay for it, and I must practice safe sex. But that’s as far as we’ve got. Please can you help us, as I don’t know what to do next. And just to clarify: we still love each other, we still want to spend the rest of our lives together, we get on really well, and I am not interested in a romantic relationship—just a ‘play partner.’


3) I loved the question asking you both what are three things you wouldn’t do in bed. Can I be cheeky and ask what three things you WOULD like to both do, but have never done!


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Ep. 6: Affairs, Painful Sex, and Asexuality

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:1. I’m married and having an affair with a man who is also married. I know it’s wrong but I’m addicted to the sex. Is it so wrong to continue? Who are we hurting if no one finds out?2. Ever since I had a baby, sex is painful for me. It’s making me dread sex. I don’t want to talk to my doctor because I’m too embarrassed.3. I think I’m asexual, and I don’t want to be. I wish that I wanted to have sex as much as my friends do. Am I really asexual or am I just afraid to be intimate? How do you tell the difference?And offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off!See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Ep. 5: Stretch Marks, Vibrators, and Porn

Ep. 5: Stretch Marks, Vibrators, and Porn

In this episode, Tracey answers these three questions and offers a signature sex tip:1. I used to love sex but I’m finding, as I’m getting older, that my confidence is falling. I haven’t felt sexy since I had children and put on weight. I’ve also got lots of stretch marks. My husband tells me I look great but I think he’s just saying that to be nice. What can I do to get my confidence back?2. I have most of my orgasms with my vibrator on my own. Sometimes I worry that this is ruining me for sex with my partner. Is it possible to get addicted to my vibrator? Is it bad for you to have most of your orgasms that way?3. My new partner wants me to watch porn with him. I’ve never done it before and worried I’m going to make a fool of myself. What do you do while you’re watching it? Do you watch it and then go off and have sex? Or do you do it while you’re watching?To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off!See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Ep. 4: Pubic Hair Grooming, Frequency, and Drinking Before Sex

Ep. 4: Pubic Hair Grooming, Frequency, and Drinking Before Sex

In this episode, Tracey answers these three questions and offers a signature sex tip:I’ve just split from my partner and back out there dating again. (Just when I thought I’d never have to stare at a stranger’s ceiling again, here I am!) I’m up to speed on online dating but what’s the etiquette with pubic hair now? Do I have to take it all off? I’ve always found the completely hairless thing a bit creepy (not to mention hard to maintain).How often should I be having sex? Is once a week enough? Some of my friends say they’re having it three times a week. Are we being pathetic only doing it weekly?I never want sex unless I’ve had some wine. It relaxes me and gives me confidence. Is this wrong? My new partner gets annoyed with me but I find it difficult to get in the mood unless I’ve had a few.To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Ep. 3: Orgasms, Work Wives, and Frequency

Ep. 3: Orgasms, Work Wives, and Frequency

In this episode, Tracey answers these three questions and offers a signature sex tip:My partner is very close to a woman at his work. Pre lockdown, they’d joke that they’re each other’s ‘work husband and wife’. I don’t think anything is going on, but he does talk about her a lot and they used to have lunch together. Am I right to feel threatened now he’s soon back to work in the office? He admits he’s really looking forward to seeing her. She’s also married.I don’t orgasm during sex. What’s wrong with me? My partner says he’s never had this problem with other women. I’m worried he’ll leave me if I don’t sort this out. My partner has stopped wanting sex. Quite honestly, I’m secretly thrilled because I have too. But is our relationship doomed because of it? Should I say something? To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex. Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Ep. 2: Date Night, Sex Secrets, and Size

Ep. 2: Date Night, Sex Secrets, and Size

Tracey tackles these 3 topics:1. Do date nights actually work - and do I really have to have one?2. I told my friends his sex secret - and now he's found out! 3. Should you be honest about your partner's "size" - what to say? TIP: It's OK to say no to sex. It's OK not to want sex all the time. If you say no now and then, your partner knows that when you do say yes, you mean it! To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex. Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Ep. 1: Porn, Dreams, and Oral Sex

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