Why Gossiping Could Help Your Love Life
Modern Love19 Feb 2025

Why Gossiping Could Help Your Love Life

For Kelsey McKinney, the author of the new book, “You Didn’t Hear This From Me: (Mostly) True Notes on Gossip,” spreading a good story occupied a morally gray zone throughout her childhood.

McKinney, who is also the former host of the podcast, “Normal Gossip,” talks with Modern Love’s Anna Martin about navigating the ups and downs of gossiping in her own life.

McKinney also reads the Modern Love essay “We Were a Party of Two, but Never Quite Alone” by Linda Button, who tells the story of how gossiping with her rich suitor’s exes brought the euphoria of her relationship back down to earth. While reading Button’s essay, McKinney fields questions from Martin so they can do some gossiping of their own.

How to submit a Modern Love Essay to The New York Times.

How to submit a Tiny Love Story.

Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your favorite podcast app here https://www.nytimes.com/activate-access/audio?source=podcatcher. For more podcasts and narrated articles, download The New York Times app at nytimes.com/app.


Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Episoder(431)

I Will Be Your Mother Figure | With Laura Dern

I Will Be Your Mother Figure | With Laura Dern

Laura Dern of HBO's "Big Little Lies" on one priest's commitment to a parishioner in limbo. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your fa...

5 Apr 201721min

Death Bear Will See You Now | With Ry Russo-Young

Death Bear Will See You Now | With Ry Russo-Young

Ry Russo-Young, director of the new feature film "Before I Fall," tells the story of a break-up, a best friend, and a performance artist. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts a...

29 Mar 201721min

The End Of Small Talk | With Paul Rust

The End Of Small Talk | With Paul Rust

Paul Rust, star of the Netflix comedy hit "Love," tells the story of a man who says 'no' to conversations about traffic and weather. Even on a first date. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on...

22 Mar 201718min

Elvis And My Husband Have Left The Building | With Malin Akerman

Elvis And My Husband Have Left The Building | With Malin Akerman

Malin Akerman of Showtime's "Billions" tells the story of a pair of best friends who vow to stay together forever--at least until the green card arrives. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on ...

15 Mar 201719min

Single, Female, Mormon, Alone | With Justina Machado

Single, Female, Mormon, Alone | With Justina Machado

Justina Machado, star of the Netflix reboot "One Day At A Time," shares the story of one woman's quest to lose her virginity while at the same time finding herself. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podc...

8 Mar 201722min

Live From The Wilbur Theater (Part Two) | With Emmy Rossum

Live From The Wilbur Theater (Part Two) | With Emmy Rossum

Emmy Rossum, star of the Showtime series "Shameless," performs in front of a live audience. Subscribe today at nytimes.com/podcasts or on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. You can also subscribe via your fa...

1 Mar 201731min

Live From The Wilbur Theater (Part One) | With Brian Tyree Henry and Alysia Reiner

Live From The Wilbur Theater (Part One) | With Brian Tyree Henry and Alysia Reiner

Brian Tyree Henry, star of the hit FX show "Atlanta," and Alysia Reiner of "Orange is the New Black" kick off Part I of our live episode recorded live at the Wilbur Theater in Boston. Subscribe today ...

21 Feb 201751min

Modern Love: The Podcast Valentine's Special

Modern Love: The Podcast Valentine's Special

Forget Netflix and chill. Settle in for a binge episode of Modern Love: The Podcast featuring Tony Hale ("Veep"), Gillian Jacobs ("Love"), and Colin Farrell ("The Lobster") Subscribe today at nytimes...

13 Feb 201747min

Populært innen Samfunn

rss-spartsklubben
giver-og-gjengen-vg
aftenpodden
konspirasjonspodden
aftenpodden-usa
popradet
rss-nesten-hele-uka-med-lepperod
rss-henlagt-andy-larsgaard
lydartikler-fra-aftenposten
grenselos
alt-fortalt
wolfgang-wee-uncut
synnve-og-vanessa
rss-dannet-uten-piano
frokostshowet-pa-p5
rss-dette-ma-aldri-skje-igjen
fladseth
min-barneoppdragelse
relasjonspodden-med-dora-thorhallsdottir-kjersti-idem
opptur-med-annette-og-ingeborg