#36- Mind of the Lotus with Jordanrmure

In this episode The Black Lotus Podcast collabs with the The Mure Mind Podcast, hosted by our friend and tiktok pheom, @Jordanrmure. In this episode we hopped on instagram live to talk about dating in the modern world, particularly in the Black American Community. This was a lengthy discussion and we also brought other guests onto the instagram live to discuss their experiences dating in the present-day environment. This episode was recorded on instagram live on May 15, 2021.

00:00 Mind of the Lotus

04:45 What kind of man are women desiring to be equal too

07:05 The grind a that is expected for men to be respected

08:50 How do Black Men oppress Black Women

12:35 The truth about Red pill

15:25 No one cares about men that aren't successful

17:10 What is wife material

18:00 Marriage thoughts

21:45 Black men aren't as strong as they were before

22:10 Low integrity individuals

24:45 Having balance between the Pills

33:10 Toxic masculinity

36:00 A man will change when you're the one

40:30 Do women know what they really want

42:45 Do girls complement their competition

45:21 The truth about life not being fair

47:00 First sponsor

47:40 Do women care about things other than money

49:45 A man in his horny stage will do anything

51:30: Men and women are wired differently

56:20 In a relationship someone has to submit

57:38 Can you handle being in charge

58:50 Don't get with a loser and expect not to lose

1:04:19 Can a woman's ambition be more than yours

1:05:05 The most important thing in a relationship is respect

1:10:00 The approach has changed

1:13:00 Stop playing games

1:16:30 Dr. Umar vs Kevin Samuels intro

1:20:00 Black relationships

1:23:00 Problem with DR. Umar

1:26:00 Do you watch the full Kevin Samuels

1:30:00 You can't get mad if the person you like doesn't like you

1:31:30 Red vs blue pill defined

1:37:00 Do certain women deserve high-value men

1:39:45 What do women need to do to earn a high-value man

1:43:00 The desire to be a power duo

1:46:10 Cheating and lying

1:50:30 The Friendzone

1:53:20 Why do people lie

1:56:09 Women thinking they deserve something they don't (woman's perspective)

1:59:00 Bill Gates situation

2:01:00 Women that have babies with men who aren't at the right level

2:06:00 The purpose of destroying black families

2:10:30 Thoughts on hitting men

2:15:00 The effects mothers have on their sons

2:22:45 Therapy

2:24:40 Psychology of Black people

2:32:40 Closing