Kit Roughhouse on Gay Erotica, Reinvention, and Telling the Truth After 40
Many gay men over 40 are reinventing themselves after layoffs, burnout, or careers that no longer fit. Creativity becomes survival, not a hobby. In this candid conversation, Kit Roughhouse shares ho...
20 Mar 36min
Belonging, Safety, and the Body: Reclaiming Authenticity as Gay Men with Devin Scott
Why do so many gay men spend their lives trying to belong, and still feel unsafe being themselves? This episode explores the deeper layers of belonging, authenticity, and self-trust through the lens o...
13 Mar 49min
Living Without an Esophagus: Cancer, Community, and LGBTQ Resilience with Dallas Oliver
What happens when your body is permanently changed—and you still choose to show up fully alive? This episode features Dallas Oliver, a gay man and esophageal cancer survivor diagnosed at just 39. Dal...
6 Mar 43min
Prostate Cancer Is Silent, and Why Gay Men Over 40 Must Pay Attention – Dr. Arthur L. Burnett II
Prostate cancer rarely announces itself. For many men, especially gay men over 40, the first sign comes too late. PSA testing can catch prostate cancer early, yet most men avoid the conversation or as...
27 Feb 40min
The Truth About Bulimia, Divorce, and the Secrets Gay Men Keep – Kyle Ridley
Many gay men over 40 struggle with eating disorders, addiction, and shame while appearing successful and in control. Bulimia, compulsive behaviors, and secrecy often go unnoticed until a breaking poin...
20 Feb 35min
Heated Rivalry: The Love War You Keep Fighting With Yourself – Rick Clemons
Negotiating love feels responsible until you realize it is costing you your self-respect. For many gay men over 40, relationships quietly turn into endurance tests disguised as commitment. You toler...
13 Feb 39min
Can You Still Get Hard After 40? Shay Doran on Performance Anxiety for Gay Men
Many gay men over 40 quietly panic when sex stops working the way it used to. Erections feel unpredictable. Anxiety creeps in. Porn, media, and aging myths make it worse. Men’s coach Shay Doran bring...
6 Feb 45min
Gay or Straight, Same Relationship Struggles: Attachment, Boundaries, and Starting Over with Ralph Brewer
In this powerful midlife conversation, Ralph Brewer, author of Rebuild: The Complete Guide to Starting Over as a Man, unpacks the universal relationship challenges men face, gay or straight. From a...
30 Jan 41min
