How to Use Your Hands: Fingering & Handjobs

How to Use Your Hands: Fingering & Handjobs

Two of your most powerful sex accessories? Your hands. Hands set the tone of your sexual energy. For example, caressing their cheek while you make out versus pinning their hands down while you have sex. And while we talk a lot about what to do with our mouths or genitals on this show, today I’m focusing on a lost art: hand play. Specifically, how to finger, give a hand job, and use your hands with sexual intention. Today, my Producer, Erica, and I first share how to penetrate a vulva with your fingers. We give you tricks to stimulate the labia and clitoris, different forms of pressure and touch, and how to find the G-spot when you finger. Next, we give the penis some love with hand job techniques and upgrades like toy play and perineum stimulation. Finally, we discuss secondary erogenous zones and answer your hand play questions. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why hand play—fingering and handjobs—is the underrated pleasure tool you need to master. How to turn up the heat with expert hand techniques for both vulvas and penises. The secret to making manual stimulation feel even better than penetrative sex. Show Notes: Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Try Nutrafol Today! Head to Nutrafol.com and use code "SWE" at checkout for $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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Episode 284 - She Doesn't Want It

Episode 284 - She Doesn't Want It

Why isn’t she having sex with you? Is it the teddy bear collection? The acute gingivitis? Find out on today’s show. Emily and Menace prepare for a sexual weekend, so Emily needs to hide her hundreds of sex toys – quickly. In the world of gossip, Kim Kardashian apparently loves golden showers, and Ray J claims his sex tape is worth more than $30 million. The link between bad movies and nudity is explored, as is how to keep the fire alive while co-habitating. How to fight the urge to cheat, and possible herbal remedies for lack of orgasms. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

1 Sep 201159min

Foot Fetishes

Foot Fetishes

Emily's lesbian cousin Liz shares how to please a woman, how long do you really want sex to last, why lesbian sex is so passionate, strap-ons, dildos, lesbian death-bed syndrome, 24 hour date, creative ways to turn her on, female oral sex tips from the lesbian perspective, why men are afraid of touching breasts, kissing during sex, how to get into the mood, orgasms from nipple play, Panty Droppers, being the single person in your friend group, when to lose your virginity, Emily knows how to please men, the number one male fantasy, where you don't want to meet people, and foot fetishes just for men? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

31 Aug 201159min

Episode 282 - Creepy Men 2

Episode 282 - Creepy Men 2

No more heavy breathing on the phone guys, Emily’s onto you! Learn how you can avoid being ‘the creep’ in today’s episode. Then, Emily dishes about her orgasm meditation retreat, and she and Menace talk about their current love lives. There’s an influx of pimps coming to San Francisco. Speaking of things to be afraid of, Emily instructs you on what to do when the condom breaks, and when and how you should seek out STD testing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

30 Aug 201158min

Episode 281 - Your Cheatin' Heart

Episode 281 - Your Cheatin' Heart

Apart from going on Jerry Springer, what can you do if you suspect your partner is cheating on you? Today Emily walks you through the signs your partner may be cheating, and how you can confront them responsibly. Emily talks about her first time, and she and Menace discuss sex surrogates who sleep with your partner when you can’t, as well as “coregasm” class. Then it’s onto dirty talking, the chemistry of friends with benefits relationships, and the 30 day masturbation challenge - are you tough enough to handle it? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

29 Aug 201159min

Episode 280 - Whaddya Want (in bed)???

Episode 280 - Whaddya Want (in bed)???

Emily gets her intern to talk candidly about what she really wants in bed, and tells you how to handle it when your partner “doesn’t know” what they want. There’s advances in 3D porn, and an $800 sex doll you can race. Men’s issues get addressed, such as orgasm dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and how to change one’s mindset when masturbating in order to have better sex. Then for the ladies, we talk about when you need to realize he's not the one, and the best breast play techniques there are. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

26 Aug 201157min

Episode 279 - Creepy Men 1

Episode 279 - Creepy Men 1

It’s a creepy job, but someone’s gotta do it. Today Emily attempts to de-creep our nation - one male listener at a time. In the meantime, she and Menace work out their on-air "relationship", and wonder why everyone is taking nude pics. The how to's of female ejaculation are broken down, as are the reasons why guys should clean their sheets. Learn how to prioritize your long distance relationship, then join us as we reveal the bisexuality myth. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

25 Aug 20111h 5min

Episode 277 - Awkward Sex

Episode 277 - Awkward Sex

Emily debates her future with or without a man, the top ten cities for cheaters and sluts, Will Smith and Jada Pickett Smith separated?, how marriage doesn't change how much you argue, when trying to have multiple orgasms is actually necessary, why a vibrator is a gateway toy, Emily and Menace talk about their first sexual encounters (oh my!), are you asexual? and how to solve awkward sex moments, one laugh and confession at a time. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

23 Aug 201138min

Episode 275 - The 7 Deadly Daters

Episode 275 - The 7 Deadly Daters

Forget gluttony, sloth, and lust, if there’s seven things to avoid, it’s the seven deadly dating personalities – find out how today. Also find out why Emily goes stag to weddings, how women set the price of sex, sperm facts, and if sexting can make you a sex offender. Emily discusses why it’s riskier to send your man to a wedding than a bachelor party, fun tips for sex during pregnancy, the basics of tantric sex, and why we date people like our parents. Finally, as a big gift to the listeners, Emily demonstrates her best phone sex. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

19 Aug 20111h

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