How to Eat Pussy Like a Pro (ft. Kenneth Play)
In Bed With Alexa: Have Better Sex10 Apr 2025

How to Eat Pussy Like a Pro (ft. Kenneth Play)

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with world-renowned sex educator and author Kenneth Play to talk all things oral sex on vulvas—techniques, mindset, communication, and pleasure-maximizing strategies. Known for his viral videos, global workshops, and author of Beyond Satisfied, Kenneth breaks down how anyone can become a more confident and skillful oral lover—no magic tongue required.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • The most common mistakes people make when going down on someone

  • How to build confidence if you feel awkward or unsure

  • Kenneth’s signature “sex hacking” approach and why it works

  • The anatomy of pleasure: why understanding the clitoris is essential

  • Why going slow is underrated and how to read your partner’s body cues

  • Communication tips that don’t kill the vibe

  • Techniques for different sensations: flicking, sucking, pressure, and more

  • How to involve your hands, body, and breath for maximum connection

  • Tips for anyone struggling to orgasm from oral stimulation

  • What Kenneth learned from working with thousands of vulva owners

  • Busting myths about what “good oral” looks like

  • How to prioritize pleasure over performance

  • Kenneth’s top tips for becoming a more intuitive, generous lover

    • Whether you’re new to oral or want to refine your technique, this episode is full of real, actionable tips that can immediately change your sex life.

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