6 Mistakes We Make in Relationships & 4 Ways to Make Them Right
Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm Being too critical about the things your partner does, unknowingly, makes you the toxic person in the relationship. When you get the same treatment from your partner, you often feel unappreciated and unloved without realizing that you’ve been doing the same thing to them. As this cycle continues, the foundation crumbles and the relationship inevitably fails.In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty explains the mistakes we often make in our relationship and how we should be mindful of our actions to strengthen it.Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ Key Takeaways:00:00 Intro01:47 The common relationship mistakes we make03:53 Mistake #1: Being too critical to our partner07:42 Instead of criticizing, get creative in removing complaints09:42 Mistake #2: When jokes go too far14:57 Mistake #3: We become deflective, we become defensive17:35 Mistake #4: Disconnecting or becoming aloof19:41 Mistake #5: You focus on the value displayed in the moment22:13 Mistake #6: Our partners aren’t our coaches Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
8 Jul 202223min
Matt Damon & Gary White ON: Seeing Problems and Taking Action & How to Help Others in Crisis
Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on CalmJay Shetty sits down with Water.Org co-founders Matt Damon and Gary White to talk about the water crisis around the world. We see stories of extreme poverty in places that are less developed and have little to no access to basic services such as electricity and water. These stories of struggles are out there but we don’t get to hear the rawness of the situation and reality many people live in. The water crisis is real and it’s one of the major hindrances for children to have proper education and a chance at a better future. While everyone knows Matt Damon as an actor and producer and screenwriter, in 2006, he founded H20 Africa Foundation to raise awareness about water initiatives on the continent. Matt's active participation in the work of Water.Org and Walter Equity has positioned him as one of the world's experts on water and sanitation issues. Now in 1991, Gary White launched Water Partners, now the international NGO known as Water.Org. Today, he leads two organizations in creating and executing market-driven solutions to the global water crisis driving innovations in the way water and sanitation projects are delivered and financed.Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/What We Discuss:00:00 Intro03:14 The water crisis is a daily struggle09:35 Taking the problem one step at a time and find a solution 16:49 How the lack of water impacts women and girls more21:53 What else should a thirteen year old girl think about?24:41 The impact of seeing places in extreme poverty27:50 Tapping into existing microfinance institutions (MFIs) across the globe35:10 Finding a partner in the water credit space40:44 Spread awareness on these individual storiesEpisode ResourcesWater.OrgWater EquityThe Worth of WaterSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
4 Jul 202244min
5 Ways To Reduce Helplessness in Difficult Times & How To Improve Your Relationship With The News
Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm How many times have you heard bad news first thing in the morning and then end up feeling bad for the rest of the day? Or how about reading a bad comment online and feeling restless about it? The news that we consume everyday can highly affect our mental health which can result in us feeling stressed and helpless. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares facts of how to reduce the feeling of helplessness and how we can improve our relationship with the news.Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/ Key Takeaways:00:00 Intro00:28 The feeling of helplessness02:17 The Seligman Experiment07:24 Step #1: Choose when & where you consume news10:28 Step #2: Expose yourself to good news12:24 Focus on the things you’re doing well16:53 Step #3: Find your role in the community18:52 Step #4: Practice self-care21:58 Step #5: Pray for courageLike this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
1 Jul 202225min
Gabrielle Bernstein ON: Childhood Trauma & Why You Must Be the One to Heal Yourself From the Inside Out
You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on CalmJay Shetty sits down with Gabrielle Bernstein to talk about how past trauma affects our daily life. Within us is our protector self, that part of us that takes over when we face fear, danger, sadness, longing, and feel hurt. And our protective self can sometimes stop us from taking chances, from taking risks. It can possibly hinder our growth and healing. Let’s tap into this inner version of us and make peace with our wounded self.Gabrielle Bernstein is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Universe Has Your Back, Super Attractor, and has written six additional bestsellers including her latest book, Super Attractor. Gabrielle was featured on Oprah’s SuperSoul Sunday as a “next-generation thought leader,” and The Oprah Winfrey Network chose Gabby to be part of the “SuperSoul 100,” a dynamic group of 100 trailblazers whose vision and life’s work are bringing a higher level of consciousness to the world. The New York Times identified her as “a new role model.” Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/What We Discuss:00:00 Intro02:02 What is happiness?05:27 The concept of being present11:54 We’re all running from trauma of some form15:43 Our greatest protector part is to dissociate19:25 “For my husband, Zach…”22:18 How do you help someone help you?29:36 Opening up something and not getting stuck in one place32:40 Our physical conditions are psychosomatic36:08 Carrying around shame39:10 How do you fall in love with yourself again?46:27 Dealing with your protector and exile parts48:48 It’s not about getting out of it overnight52:45 Thinking of trauma as a mother55:38 Getting through postpartum depressionEpisode ResourcesGabby Bernstein | WebsiteGabby Bernstein | YouTubeGabby Bernstein | InstagramGabby Bernstein | TwitterGabby Bernstein | FacebookGabby Bernstein | LinkedInGabby Bernstein | BooksDear Gabby PodcastHappy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner PeaceSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27 Jun 20221h 2min
2 Unhealthy Eating Habits Many People Have & How To Improve Your Body Image and Confidence
To see my Top 3 Reasons why you should try online therapy visit betterhelp.com/jaystop3. You deserve to invest in yourself, and BetterHelp is a great way to do that. Go to betterhelp.com/jaystop3 and to get 10% off your first month of online therapy when you sign up. For this special series, in partnership with Betterhelp, Jay Shetty sits down with Haesue Jo, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp and Jayme Cyk. Jayme, who has been unhappy with her previous sessions, shares how finding the right therapist has helped her gradually accept and love her own body. What We Discuss:00:00 Intro03:18 What brings you to therapy today?04:09 Different eating habits that started at a young age07:57 Noticing that the eating habits are beyond being healthy and mindful12:34 Taking antidepressants since nine16:20 Conversations matter in every session20:23 Relationship between body image and self worth30:54 Now in the 6-month commitment to therapy33:24 Therapists should prioritize building rapport37:53 Finding the right therapistSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24 Jun 202247min
Dr. Rangan Chatterjee ON: The Science of Mental Well-Being & How to Live a Happier Life Without Burning Yourself Out
Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on CalmJay Shetty sits down with Dr. Rangan Chatterjee to talk about the core of happiness. There is a huge difference between success and happiness, oftentimes we confuse the two as one and the same. One can be successful in their job, career, business, and family life, but can be unhappy. We need to learn the core of happiness to genuinely enjoy life by appreciating our past self, our current life, and the future we all look forward to having. Dr. Rangan Chatterjee is regarded as one of the most influential medical doctors in the UK and wants to change how medicine will be practiced for years to come. He hosts the biggest health podcast in the UK and Europe, ‘Feel Better, Live More’. He can simplify complex health advice so people can feel better and live more. Dr Chatterjee is known for finding the root cause of people's health problems and he highlighted his methods in the ground-breaking BBC television show, Doctor in the House.Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/What We Discuss:00:00 Intro03:11 Happiness is the byproduct when we do the right things08:12 We confuse success and happiness14:54 Accepting everything that has happened to you27:14 The process of alignment40:23 The 2-part exercise to stay aligned47:00 Alignment is not a destination you get to49:58 Dr. Rangan on Final FiveEpisode ResourcesDr. Rangan Chatterjee | InstagramDr. Rangan Chatterjee | YouTubeDr. Rangan Chatterjee | TwitterDr. Rangan Chatterjee | FacebookDr. Rangan Chatterjee | LinkedInDr. Rangan Chatterjee | BooksDr. Rangan Chatterjee | WebsiteFeel Better, Live More PodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20 Jun 202252min
3 Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship & 2 Toxic Traits to Watch Out For
Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on Calm What truly defines a healthy relationship? And what makes one unhealthy? Is there an easy way to spot if the relationship we’re in is good for us or gradually hurting us? It often involves the level of our emotional health, our mental maturity to process difficult situations, and how far are we willing to stay in the partnership. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty shares facts of how unhealthy traits eventually ruins relationships and the positive habits that can turn things around.Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/Key Takeaways:00:00 Intro01:30 The power of having a support system02:08 Why the quality of our relationships are good for us11:12 Sign #1: Sense of mutual respect15:01 Sign #2: Honesty18:56 Sign #3: Individuality24:53 Unhealthy Trait #1: Sense of control25:04 Unhealthy Trait #2: Emotional regulationLike this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17 Jun 202227min
Gary Vee ON: Living Without Judgment & How to Stop Beating Yourself Up When You Make Mistakes
You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on CalmJay Shetty sits down once again with Gary Vee to talk about choosing to fight for your passion over what other people have to say. When you allow people and their opinions affect how you live, you give them control over your life. You are giving them the power to decide for you. You can change that but choosing how much of your life you want to share and to what extent is already considered an intrusion into your private life.Gary Vaynerchuk is a serial entrepreneur, and serves as the Chairman of VaynerX and the CEO of VaynerMedia. Gary is considered one of the leading global minds on what’s next in culture, relevance and the internet. Known as “GaryVee” he is described as one of the most forward thinkers in business - he acutely recognizes trends and patterns early to help others understand how these shifts impact markets and consumer behavior. Today, he helps Fortune 1000 brands leverage consumer attention through his full service advertising agency, VaynerMedia.Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/What We Discuss:00:00 Intro01:39 “I do a good job of making my Dad popular.”06:41 If it works for you, you can juggle multiple things12:33 “I’m very happy because I’m very simple.”18:11 We have demonized losing when losing is the best22:26 You’re in control of your life26:50 Leveraging family and personal life lacks authenticity29:54 Lack of accountability is leading to so much unhappiness34:29 What is your most worthy pursuit?Episode ResourcesGary Vee | InstagramGary Vee | YouTubeGary Vee | TwitterGary Vee | LinkedInGary Vee | BooksGary Vee | FacebookVaynerMediaThe GaryVee Audio ExperienceSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13 Jun 202237min
