The Truth About The Spark in Relationships

The Truth About The Spark in Relationships

Is the spark gone? Dr. Scott Lyons, as I explore how to get the spark back in relationships and sex. We're talking about why the spark is not what you think and what you're actually looking for. In this episode, Dr. Scott Lyons and I discuss: ● Why the initial 'spark' might be misleading. ● The importance of evolving and growing in relationships. ● How trauma responses affect attraction and intimacy. ● The difference between intensity and intimacy. ● Practical ways to cultivate a sustainable and fulfilling connection. I share personal experiences and insights on dating, attraction, and the journey toward deeper self-understanding. Dr. Scott Lyons brings his expertise as a trauma therapist and somatic healer to help us understand the complexities of relationships and sexuality. Show Notes: 00:00:00 - Rekindling the Spark: What You Need to Know 00:02:45 - The Reality of Growth: Attraction Can Evolve 00:07:57 - Freedom vs. Attachment: Different Relationship Patterns 00:11:10 - Evolving Attraction: Hemisexuals, Saposexuals, and Demisexuals 00:15:03 - The Attraction ICK: Is There an Attraction Spark? 00:19:29 - Peeling Away the Layers: The Beauty of Intimacy 00:22:49 - The Honeymoon Period Is Drunk: Sobering Up and Finding Organic Excitement 00:27:40 - Variety and Newness: Keeping the Spark Alive 00:31:17 - Passion or Safety: Cultivating Eroticism in Safety 00:35:56 - Arousal Runway: Pottery Classes and Cooking Meals 00:40:19 - Developing New Habits: Making Time for Connection 00:42:51 - Chasing the Familiar: Red Flags as a Spark 00:46:16 - The Importance of Feeling Safe 00:49:54 - Childhood Was Perfect: Somatic Therapy and Nervous System Regulation 00:53:10 - Grounding in Our Senses: Getting Back to Sensuality and Connection 00:56:26 - Healing Patterns: Not Taking the Bait 00:58:20 - Sustainable, Healthy, Loving Relationships: Going the Distance Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Try Dipsea Free for 30 Days! Right now, you can get a 30-day free trial PLUS 25% off your annual subscription at DipseaStories.com/SWE See the full show notes at www.sexwithemily.com

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Episode 348 - The Future of Fellatio

Episode 348 - The Future of Fellatio

Emily helps teaches a kissing workshop at Good Vibrations. A guest on the show askedher to be his demonstration model. Emily agreed to kiss him in front of a classroom of people (all for the sake of helping people of course). Her advice: kiss your partner the way you want to be kissed. Ask them to kiss you back in the same way and then switch. Also, the future of fellatio is an Masque oral gel strip that tastes like Mango. Emily gives tips on oral sex and open-relationships without jealousy. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

1 Des 201133min

Episode 344 - Why They Didn't Call

Episode 344 - Why They Didn't Call

Emily knows that men fake orgasms too but proclaims they aren’t as good as it as women. Emily talks about how to have more confidence and the stuff you should never say on a first date. Also, why they didn’t call you back - unless they have amnesia, it's usually not because they lost your number. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

25 Nov 201145min

No on fake O

No on fake O

Sorry guys, she might have faked it. Emily and her assistant Kelsi talk about why women fake it and how to tell if she's not really orgasming. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

22 Nov 201121min

Episode 339 - Kinky

Episode 339 - Kinky

Adult film star Pony from Kink, says she’ll try everything twice. Emily and Pony talk about polyamorous relationships, BDSM for beginners, getting shocked by tasers for pleasure (not for resisting arrest), and Divine Bitches. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

18 Nov 201133min

Episode 336 - 7 Year Itch

Episode 336 - 7 Year Itch

Emily is excited because she has lots of dates coming up. Hopefully none of them are living with their mother. Also, science gets closer to understanding the female orgasm. Family law attorney Erik Newton joins the show and talks about the truths behind the "7 year itch” in marriage, Facebook's influence on divorce, and what you have to discuss with your partner before getting married. Also, can making a prenuptial agreement be romantic? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

15 Nov 201159min

Episode 335 - Tips From A Sultry Vixen: Jessica Drake

Episode 335 - Tips From A Sultry Vixen: Jessica Drake

Emily talks with vixen Jessica Drake about Wicked Sex, anal sex tips and butt plugs. Emily and Menace debate whether men are intimidated by successful women and if the notion ‘once a cheater, always a cheater’ is true. Also, hand job fetishes, and special positions for giving fellatio. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

14 Nov 201148min

Episode 331 - Rough Sex... and Rougher Sex!

Episode 331 - Rough Sex... and Rougher Sex!

Emily has a blind date and divulges about what she really does at night. Menace plans his dream wedding and Emily talks shotgun weddings. Also, extreme manscaping and etiquette for rough sex, including but not limited to spanking, wrist holding, hair pulling, and biting. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

8 Nov 201146min

Episode 330 - How to Successfully Date Online

Episode 330 - How to Successfully Date Online

Online dating is about marketing yourself. The first message you send someone is extremely important. Be specific and show them that you have common interests. Emily gives essential online dating advice to improve your experience and success rate. Emily and Menace discuss the best famous landmarks to do it at, the pros and cons of dating a criminal, and should you tell her about your foot fetish? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7 Nov 201152min

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