40 Plus: Gay Men. Gay Talk.2 Mai 2025

The Trouble With Throuples – Jeff Hudson

Maybe you find yourself bored in your couple. Then you decide playing together with another guy could be fun...and it is. Then you decide that maybe having another guy in the middle (so to speak) on a permanent basis will make your relationship thrive (so to speak). And then it doesn't! Helping us explore this whole concept of the Throuple live, is TV producer and Author Jeff Hudson, sharing his brand new book, Deconstructing Us: My Trouble with a Throuple. In this episode:

Discover what can make and break your Throuple
Learn how to love yourself enough to move on
Find the pathway forward after an longterm relationship becomes the past

About Jeff Jeff Hudson is a six-time Emmy nominated television producer and won the award for Best Informative Talk Show for the daytime medical series The Doctors in 2010. Jeff has developed and produced an array of reality, talk, and documentary-style programming including MTV’s Fanatic, HGTV’s Deserving Design, Soapnet’s Soap Talk, plus the syndicated series’ Elimidate and The Montel Williams Show, just to name a few. Jeff’s experience with highlighting stories of real people throughout his career has ultimately led him to this very moment—telling a very real, a very honest, and very raw story about himself. As a true advocate for non-monogamous relationships, Jeff made the decision to give a third man equal footing in his already existing 22-year partnership. BAM. POW. OH YEAH. WTF? After his mind-bending throuple experience, Jeff was cast on The CW’s dating show The Matchmaker. Did he find true love again? Or did his polyamorous relationship completely dismantle his life as he once knew it? Jeff is ready to reveal ALL and is available for interviews about his new book Deconstructing Us: My Trouble with a Throuple. Connect With Jeff Instagram Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies

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