Ep 153: Erotic Poetry about her 63 Lovers, and Counting, Karla Linn Merrifield Shares Her Sensual Writings

Ep 353: Hotwife Itty Bitty Vixen Erotic Novella Book Excerpt, Mini Erotic Scenes by Ruan, and an ASMR Sheer Scarf Erotic Scene Reading by Ruan.  Enjoy this episode threefold with an erotic excerpt from a steamy campground story written by Lacey Cross, Sharing His Adventurous Wife, First Time Wife Share Itty Bitty Vixen, narrated by Ruan Willow and InMyHandsAudio. Next enjoy several mini erotic scenes, and lastly savor an ASMR-rich narrative of an erotic Sheer Scarf scene. Go to Story Origin App website to request an ARC copy of the hotwife audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixenarc or email ruan at ruanwillow@gmail.com to request one. To buy the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen To get the book and a trial of Audible (affiliate if sign up/purchase occurs this podcast may receive a finder's fee commission that supports this podcast. thank you): US https://www.audible.com/pd/B0CKY69KPB/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-370409&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_370409_pd_us UK https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B0CKY5YR6V/?source_code=AUKFrDlWS02231890H7-BK-ACX0-370409&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_370409_pd_uk Email Ruan for other country links. Hot entertainment, fiction, and audio arts from Ruan Willow, podcast host: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ NOW IN PAPERBACK! Neighborhood Sex Secrets—one woman's journey of sexual liberation, empowerment, & fulfillment of her desires. Get it now! Help me launch it with a purchase and/or a review! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Check out Ruan's latest audiobook releases! The Hide and Seek Sex Challenge: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook Mallory and Derek Attend Their First Sex Party https://www.kobo.com/us/en/audiobook/mallory-and-derek-attend-their-first-sex-party Buy Hemper Glass https://www.hemper.co/?afmc=gf0&utm_campaign=gf0&utm_source=leaddyno&utm_medium=affiliate%2520Ruan%2520Willow%2520Pod Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

7 Nov 202325min

Episode 352: Men--Are You Sabotaging Your Sex Life? Learn How to Stop with Tips from Men's Sex Coach and podcaster Sebastian Harris. Sebastian is known for helping men transform their sex lives through his coaching, but his tips will definitely help women too.  So, this episode is definitely for women as well. We had such a fantastic chat...we hit on so many important topics to sexual and mental health, relationships, and ways for us all to improve our sex lives/libido. Hint: they are super fun! Topics of discussion: *Men and Sexuality...women too! *Sexual health is a part of mental health *Common emotional, physical, and spiritual blocks for men & their sexuality *Guilt and shame and culturally created negative thoughts about sex (common in Americans and some other cultures) *How men can make women come better in bed *How cortisol levels impact sexuality *Women's sexuality and anatomy *Sex toy usage *The Magic Triangle: Ways Men can improve their testosterone *Aging and testosterone, how to maximize testosterone levels *Unconventional methods for couples to enflame their sex life *The most important aspects of making a woman squirt *How being judgmental hurts relationships and prevents you from living out your own fantasies with your partner *Why men should read erotica *Role plays *Why the American way of life is hurting our sexuality And so much more! We had an incredible chat! Connect with Sebastian Harris: Sexucation for Men Podcast with short episodes for quick tips and learning, quick re-referencing, and fast help:  https://www.sexucationformen.com/sexgod https://www.sexucationformen.com/coaching Hot entertainment, fiction, and audio arts from Ruan Willow, podcast host: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ NOW IN PAPERBACK! Neighborhood Sex Secrets—one woman's journey of sexual liberation, empowerment, & fulfillment of her desires. Get it now! Help me launch it with a purchase and/or a review! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Check out my latest audiobook releases! Sharing His Adventurous Wife, First Time Wife Share: the birth of a hotwife while camping at a campground https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen The Hide and Seek Sex Challenge: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook Buy Hemper Glass https://www.hemper.co/?afmc=gf0&utm_campaign=gf0&utm_source=leaddyno&utm_medium=affiliate%2520Ruan%2520Willow%2520Pod Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Nov 202352min

Season 3, Episode 350 of 350 in all: The Sex Wizards Halloween Party Orgy. Ready to get seduced, enchanted, and mesmerized by magical sexuality? Enjoy the mystical pleasure this Halloween with a Halloween themed short story to wrap yourself in juicy warm sensuality. Janna is horny and she just wants to hookup with someone at the party because it's been a long time since she had sex. Her friend Bonnie, the party host, has a surprise for her. But that surprise is nowhere as amazing as the surprise the sex wizards have for her...she will get the sex wish of her dreams on Halloween night, when their power is at its max level. Read the Halloween erotica story The Sex Wizards at the Halloween Party Orgy on Medium in the Erotic Fantasies Publication https://medium.com/erotic-fantasies/the-sex-wizards-halloween-party-orgy-9e6d44b5bdb5 Ruan's other erotic fiction books and NSFW audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Sharing His Adventurous Wife: First Time Wife Share (Itty-Bitty Vixen) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen Halloween Erotica Anthology: The Femdom Coven https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thefemdomcoven Mallory and Derek Attend Their First Sex Party (hint: it's an orgy!) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendtheirfirstsexparty The Hide and Seek Sex Challenge audiobook https://www.audible.com/pd/B0CLYX2C5B/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-372462&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_372462_rh_us Hemper Glass Smoke accessories https://www.hemper.co/?afmc=gf0&utm_campaign=gf0&utm_source=leaddyno&utm_medium=affiliate%2520Ruan%2520Willow%2520Podcast Get the Ruan Willow Discount on pleasure products, sex toys, sex trips, and more! https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

31 Okt 202341min

Ep  349: Sex IS Positively Pleasurable Get a Useful Important Education with Dr. Stephanie. We chatted about how sex is often still seen as somewhat taboo in American culture and society and how we need to rewire this viewpoint and view sex as a positive and important piece in the wholeness of our well-being. Our discussion focused on how sex negativity hurts us all, our relationships, our mental health, and our perceptions of the purpose of sex. We need to reframe sex for the entirety of our health. We talked about what shapes our sexuality and our sexual triggers is half nurture and half nature, but we can reframe any painful sexual experiences we may have had and turn them into something more positive and enjoyable. A therapist can help. We discussed how BDSM has been around since the dawn of time, but it got negative attention in the late 60's. What most people don't understand is that it's the sub who is in full control always and it's consensual, not abusive. We talked about how people, like the two of us, need to keep discussing sex openly and modeling openness to help those who are sexually and culturally sexually repressed. I brought up how I try and portray healthy sexuality and truth to sexual interactions in my books, and that includes particularly how women reach climax. The clitoris has been largely ignored by medicine and society, only being first imaged in 2005, and the first model not appearing until 2010. Clitoral sexual pleasure has traditionally been downplayed, ignored, and disregarded in importance in modern times and our overall society has suffered because of that, not to mention our quality of life, our relationships, and our happiness/fulfillment. We talked about double standards for the sexes, plus the not widely known fact that vulva genitalia do have erectile tissue and engorge just like a penis.  It basically is an inside out penis. We discussed the anatomical differences and similarities of our genitalia. We discussed the benefits of sex toys, clit mapping, and internal mapping of the sex organ for those with a vagina. We also touched on mismatched libidos and how this may just be that the person isn't having the sex they want to have. We also chatted about dark fantasies. She's also an expert on alternative relationships. She expressed that it's "very normal" to live an alternative lifestyle, maybe common is the best word because 1 in 25 couples in the US engages in some sort of alternative lifestyle. Connect with Dr. Stephanie: Web: evolveyourintimacy.com Pod: evolveyourintimacy.com/podcast Ruan's other erotic fiction books and NSFW audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Sharing His Adventurous Wife: First Time Wife Share (Itty-Bitty Vixen) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

27 Okt 20231h 12min

Episode 348: This story was on the podcast a while back, but here it is again but without all the extra stuff, so you just get the story only. It cuts right to the story, so you get to the hot tale without any delays! A power exchange storyline, a short erotic romance fiction story where he takes care of her, and she desires him to do it.  They match up! No relation between characters. Daddy means dominant partner. All characters over 18 and not related. Daddy washes my car as I finish up writing my book. It's all clean, but he wants to take me in it. It might get dirty again! We go for ice cream, but we have the better cream. Enjoy this sexy tale of a dominant pleasing and enjoying his enthusiastic sub. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

26 Okt 202323min

Ep 346: The Sex Loan Erotica Fiction Story written and narrated by Ruan Willow, podcast host. Enjoy this sexy story, written by fan request. It's a story of revenge, greediness, sexual satiation, and satisfaction--because her big boobs are just what he wants! She intends to seduce him and he desires to be seduced. In the end, they are a perfect pair! And not just talking about her tits! Read this story where it is published in text form on Medium in the publication Wylde Erotic Cravings: https://medium.com/wylde-erotic-cravings/the-sex-loan-47cf8a385eab FREE EROTICA books! Only through midnight PT October 25, 2023: https://storyoriginapp.com/to/S8euhfj More hot entertainment and fiction and audio arts: NOW IN PAPERBACK! Neighborhood Sex Secrets—one woman's journey of sexual liberation, empowerment, & fulfillment of her desires. Get it now! Help me launch it with a purchase and/or a review! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Check out my latest audiobook releases! Sharing His Adventurous Wife, First Time Wife Share: the birth of a hotwife while camping at a campground. All kinds of yummy sexy challenges in the wild usher this hot itty bitty vixen into the world of hotwife wife-sharing. He's in charge, she happily, and lustily follows. They both get so turned on: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen Bisexual orgy party: Mallory and Derek Attend their First Sex Party https://spotify.link/tDqAhSQbaEb Ruan's other erotic fiction books and NSFW audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Affiliate audiobook trials available (podcast may receive a finder's fee, which supports this podcast, thank you!): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thecarsexchallengetrial Find my podcast also on the app for VOD and streaming at 11-12 ish pm ET on the Roku TV/Fire TV channel PodNation Pods: https://player.frontlayer.com/live/fl427618 Buy Hemper Glass https://www.hemper.co/?afmc=gf0&utm_campaign=gf0&utm_source=leaddyno&utm_medium=affiliate%2520Ruan%2520Willow%2520Podcast Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

24 Okt 202332min

Ep 345 total of 345, season 3: Why Boundaries Matter in Sex and Love with Heather Claus aka Nookie. She is a coach, author, and educator. She just released a book (Take No Shit) about how to create better relationships with others and yourself. And yup, it involves boundaries! We discussed sexual and emotional boundaries and the importance of knowing your personal boundaries to protect yourself (and this includes potentially protecting yourself from abuse). We talked about our sexuality and who owns it? Do you own your own sexuality? Or is another enforcing unwanted boundaries on you? Or is it the media, society, or culture that influences you rather than a person enforcing boundaries on you?  We also talked about the shame and guilt that often surrounds sex in the United States (and other parts of the world too, of course). She pointed out that one of the best ways to manipulate people is to try inducing guilt and shame in them. She shared that she doesn't compromise herself in relationships, there might be negotiation, but she doesn't necessarily mean compromise, and how this created lots of backlash and anger when she declared it on social media one time, which is quite interesting.  She created a website and app for Dating Kinky (for kink, love, sex, and those seeking alternative lifestyles) and curiouser.life (which is more mainstream). Connect with Heather, aka Miss Nookie, a longtime writer/educator in the world of love, sex, romance, and kink, and the founder of Dating Kinky/Curiouser, a website dedicated to fostering connections among its user and providing education.: https://my.curiouser.life/ http://datingkinky.com/ https://twitter.com/DatingKinky First published on PodNation TV, then YouTube https://youtu.be/mSASIsK5sNg?si=cbVmJ94eiVwLoEu- RUAN'S most recent BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets NEW RELEASE AUDIOBOOK! Sharing His Adventurous Wife: First Time Wife Share (Itty-Bitty Vixen) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen Request an ARC of the Hotwife audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixenarc Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

20 Okt 20231h 18min

Ep 343: Dirty Talk in the Shower, A Shower Sex Scene to enjoy. An interracial couple, Shannon and Freddy, have had a busy stressful week at work. They wake on Saturday and it's time to enjoy each other's bodies in the shower. Starting with a butt job in the closet, their play takes them to the shower where they engage in dirty talk as they enjoy each other intimately. Their fun in the heat of the shower gets them off in the juiciest ways as they savor the spray of the water against their naked bodies. Marinate in your sexuality with this erotic scene and let your brain get exhilarated and refreshed as you journey through this erotica fiction improv story with me, Ruan Willow. Enjoy your body today! It's important to your mental health, because sexual health is an important part of your mental health, and your overall health and fitness. This is entertainment and exercise for your sexuality, and self care time to bask in the fiery glow of spicy relationship intimacy. RUAN'S most recent BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets NEW RELEASE AUDIOBOOK! Sharing His Adventurous Wife: First Time Wife Share (Itty-Bitty Vixen) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen Request an ARC of the Hotwife audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixenarc The Sex Challenge Series, erotic rom-com novellas https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesexchallengeseries Join the exclusive level of the podcast for $3 a month and get Ruan's Audiobooks and exclusive special episodes:  https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe Catch the Florida Men on Florida Man Podcast with crazy but true stories from the sunshine state.  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/florida-men-on-florida-man/id1445754848 Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

17 Okt 202332min