Ep 154: Sex Confessions, A Sexy Chat with Podcaster Dear Nikky

Episode 682: Open door, NSFW Fiction. Marissa and Humphrey are dressed up in costumes to go on a Halloween haunted hayride and trail, but Humprey has a surprise for his girlfriend. They enjoy all the jump scares and the getting close to each other, cozying up close to get away from the scary monsters! As they progress to the secret spot, Humphrey guides his lover into a dark spot for some sexy fun! This Haunted Hayride Sex Surprise is an Erotic Improv, like storytelling of a sex story around a bonfire. Imagine you are sitting around a warm bonfire in the dark, cool night, but cozying up to the warmth of the fire as you listen to me spin a tale. Back in the day when stories were only verbal, things like storytelling around bonfires would happen. A spooky tale, but with sex in it is what you will get in this Halloween erotic fiction story. I literally created this story right off the top of my head as I recorded it, I didn't have it written...it was live creation! Book Deals:  $0.99 cents books: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ninetyninecentsbookssales Romance Book Blast link (ONLY free on 10/28/2025) https://www.romancebooklovers.com/  John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures (ONLY FREE on 10/28/25) https://mybook.to/johngiveshiswifehotadv The Arousal Package ARC Copy on BookSirens https://booksirens.com/book/EFAMSX6/G9K0WRK  Get the book for $0.99 cents at https://payhip.com/b/Jybjs  Try Audible for $0.99/month for first 3 months at this affiliate link https://amzn.to/4qlR6gE Wicked and Spicy on sale for Halloween on online sellers for ebook and audiobook: A short Halloween Sale $0.99 cents on Spotify and Barnes and Noble $0.99 cents or FREE with subscription It's on sale for $0.99 cents on Chirp ttps://www.chirpbooks.com/audiobooks/wicked-spicy-tales-by-ruan-willow and https://open.spotify.com/show/1GyEDeUbZc0hOnq4O7UDBg ON SALE THROUGH HALLOWEEN erotic, horror erotica, fantasy spicy romance: Wicked & Spicy on Ruan's site: https://payhip.com/b/sT8iP https://payhip.com/b/n8pNH Halloween erotic fiction, THE FEMDOM COVEN EROTIC ANTHOLOGY: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thefemdomcoven Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

28 Okt 32min

Ep 681: **When Early Retirement Led to Unexpected Career Success in Adult Entertainment** Dante, the CEO & the head of Red Bottom Productions, shares his intriguing and amazing story here! What happens when you retire at 33, get bored, and accidentally stumble into founding a multi-brand entertainment empire? Dante, owner of Red Bottom Productions, shares his fascinating pivot from executive protection services to adult film production in this candid conversation. After selling his business and achieving financial independence, Dante discovered that early retirement wasn't the paradise he expected—social isolation and restlessness led him down an unexpected path. What began as helping friends film OnlyFans content evolved into running his own entertainment company covering various genres and fetishes. Beyond the business journey, Dante opens up about challenging societal taboos around sexuality, the professional standards and extensive consent processes in adult entertainment, and how his industry mirrors Hollywood's casting and production methods. He addresses common misconceptions about performer autonomy and the stark difference between fantasy entertainment and real intimacy. The conversation also explores his current lifestyle philosophy of prioritizing travel and experiences over traditional work structures, especially after a health scare that reinforced the importance of creating memories while healthy. From budgeting tips to breaking down stigmas, this episode offers a surprisingly thoughtful perspective on entrepreneurship, personal freedom, and redefining success. Topics: Introduction to Red Bottom Productions Making Sacrifices to Afford Things Breaking Stigmas Around Adult Entertainment Adult Industry Workers Are Regular People Adult Industry: Choice, Investment, and Reality Filming Preferences vs Fan Reactions Supporting Talent and Building Community  Fifty Shades Changed Everything Industry Testing and Safety Standards Knowing Your Status and Industry Acceptance Finding Red Bottom Productions Online Can't Watch My Own Work Key Takeaways:  • **Financial freedom alone doesn't solve social isolation** - Despite achieving early retirement at 33 through a successful business sale, Dante discovered that having money didn't address his underlying feelings of boredom and social disconnection. • **Adult entertainment production involves extensive professional protocols** - The industry operates with rigorous consent processes and professional standards comparable to mainstream Hollywood productions, contradicting common assumptions about it being informal or exploitative. • **Career pivots can emerge from unexpected opportunities** - Dante's transition from executive protection services to adult entertainment began simply by helping friends film content, demonstrating how major career changes can evolve organically from casual favors rather than deliberate planning. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

24 Okt 1h 7min

Season 5, Episode 697: Paranormal romance, Witches, witchy romance (she's a horny one, but so is Carson!), it's a fantasy romance, a Halloween erotic fiction with fall vibes. The Arousal Package: A Spicy Romance Open Door NSFW Short story audiobook, by Ruan Willow. Sometimes the best surprises are the ones we almost run from. Carson is infatuated with his mega sexy neighbor, but he's rendered mute and dumb in her presence. He can't seem to muster the guts to ask her out. He needs help. To assist him in the seduction of her, he seeks a session with a seer witch who promises a love connection spell to fix her heartbroken, but failing at love, clients. Carson is desperate for her help, but things jack knife in a whole different direction when he gets more than he expected as the meeting ends. When magic also means pleasure, getting what he came for transforms into something magical! This is a short romance story, a Halloween themed romance fall vibes, a fall themed romance with a strong FMC. An erotic romance fiction short story to enjoy and satisfy your spooky seductive desires. Subscribe for the full story, or buy it here for $0.99 cents: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thearousalpackage Coming very soon also in audiobook. Try Audible for $0.99/month for first 3 months at this affiliate link https://amzn.to/4qlR6gE Get the full story also by subscribing to my Patreon or Substack (it will be appearing there this week). Other Halloween erotic fiction, The Femdom Coven, get the spicy erotica erotic romance anthology book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thefemdomcoven Have a spicy spooky sexy Halloween! Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

21 Okt 17min

Season 5, Episode 678: When harnessing your midlife sexuality becomes your superpower! Join in to listen and to find more about Carissma DeLuca, Rizzi's, juicy journey into sexual and sensual empowerment where she's made a career for herself in creating content, films, and a podcast!  Quotes from Carissma Deluca: "I feel like I've always been the glue in every situation." "What better way to like be body positive than to get into plus size porn, right?" "I try and create stuff that like couples would enjoy together." "You either are going to jump on the train and ride this motherfucker till it's dead, or you're going to have to back out." "I just want to set the bar." Summary: Ruan Willow sits down with the vibrant Carissma DeLuca, a multi-talented creator who dives deep into the realms of sexuality, intimacy, and the transformative power of embracing one's desires. She shares her unexpected journey into the world of the adult films entertainment, revealing how her personal experiences shaped her perspective on body positivity and self-acceptance. From navigating a challenging relationship during the pandemic to discovering her passion for OnlyFans and adult films, Carissma's story is one of resilience and empowerment. She discusses the importance of representation in the adult industry, emphasizing the need for body positivity and inclusivity. As they explore the intricacies of sexuality, Ruan and Charisma tackle topics such as the impact of aging on desire, hormones, the liberation that comes with self-discovery, and the unique challenges faced by women in midlife. Throughout the episode, listeners will be treated to a candid conversation about the realities of working in adult entertainment, the importance of consent and communication in sexual relationships, and the joy of finding one's voice in a world that often seeks to silence it.  Key Takeaways: - Carissma's journey from a traditional life to embracing her sexuality and body positivity. - The significance of representation in adult entertainment and its impact on viewers. - Insights into the changing dynamics of desire and libido as women age. - The importance of consent, communication, and safety in sexual relationships. Join Ruan and Charisma for an enlightening discussion that encourages listeners to explore their own sexual journeys and embrace their true selves. This episode is a celebration of empowerment, connection, and the beauty of being unapologetically you. Connect with Carissma: https://linktr.ee/carissmadelucaVideo store:  www.carissmadeluca.com Women and HRT: Women doctors to follow on Instagram about perimenopause: kellycaspersonmd, drrachelrubin, drsexandsperm Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

17 Okt 1h 44min

Episode 676: The Mardi Gras Unmasking Erotic Fiction Excerpt, with BDSM, Kara Gets Spanked. This excerpt is from the erotica novella "The Mardi Gras Unmasking", by author and podcast host Ruan Willow, and is exclusively in ebook on Amazon and Kindle Unlimited: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/themardigrasunmasking  Also available in paperback and coming soon in audiobook. This audio excerpt is releasing in preparation for the book releasing soon in audiobook form with a male narrator speaking the male parts. Stay tuned! Book Blurb: In this multiple-partner why choose, reverse harem BDSM novella, a Mardi Gras party allows the perfect setup for a new Dom to hide his plans from his wife. He orchestrates his grand scheme to fulfill her deepest lusty desires. Love transcends jealousy when Dane gives his wife Kara her secret wish by unmasking her hidden wants in a single blissful evening packed with bountiful sexual pleasure. Much to her delight, and even amidst the rules, and the spanks, the night promises to propel her to the highest sexual heights of her life. Each gratifying encounter keeps Kara blissfully happy all night as she is literally kept in the dark, moaning her way to morning. The Dom/sub life has the couple crossing the boundaries of traditional marriage, but the way of life seems to be the right fit for them. Rich in sexual content, this story follows a loving couple exploring their sexual fantasies safely at home. Kara feels solid that Dane is the right man for her, even as they are embarking on the risky uncharted lifestyle as a dominant and a submissive in the bedroom--just one year into their marriage. The question is, will Kara enjoy the full reveal in the unmasking of the masquerade? This book contains light BDSM, an ethical non monogamy relationship style, and is an erotic romance novella. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

14 Okt 17min

Ep 675: Why Choose Shifters and Heat Ratings Author Imogen Knowed on Writing Cozy Sweet Spicy Romance. **You can watch the video version on YouTube at Ruan Willow Podcaster. There is NO excerpt in the YouTube version, please visit podcast apps to get the excerpt. The excerpt is from "Whispers, Whiskers, and Wine" and is at the first part of this episode. Romance Author Imogen Knowed Reveals the Secrets Behind Writing Polyamorous "Why Choose" Stories. Ever wondered how authors craft realistic polyamorous romance without relying on supernatural shortcuts? Romance author Imogen Knowed pulls back the curtain on her unique approach to "why choose" stories and shifter romances, explaining why she ditched the fated-mate trope for something far more complex. In this candid conversation with host Ruan Willow, Imogen discusses her latest works including **Whispers, Whiskers and Wine** and the upcoming **Dates and Dead Bodies**—a cozy murder mystery that blends polyamorous romance with small-town intrigue. She opens up about the challenges of marketing "spicy" romance when platforms suppress erotic content, the wildly subjective nature of heat ratings, and her meticulous research into polyamory to create authentic relationship dynamics. From her recursive drafting process to using a "naughty words" thesaurus, Imogen shares the nitty-gritty details of crafting explicit scenes while balancing entertainment with subtle education. She explores the evolution of cozy romance toward more explicit content and debates whether fiction should teach readers about anatomy and consent—or simply provide escapist entertainment. **Ready to dive into the world of authentic polyamorous romance?** Listen to discover how one author is reshaping the genre with realistic characters, thoughtful consent, and unapologetically explicit storytelling. Key Takeaways: • Erotic romance faces significant marketing barriers—heat ratings and content warnings can severely limit discoverability.   • She pairs a cozy, "sweet‑and‑spicy" vibe with explicit group sex and polyamory, doing detailed research to portray realistic consent.   • Imogen only started writing impulsively in 2022, drafts as a hybrid plotter‑pantser, and has had to accept she can't please everyone. Connect with indie author Imogen Knowed:  Instagram and Threads Imongenknowed Books:  Whispers, Whiskers, and Wine (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/4okmDhn Dates and Dead Bodies (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/4nIAOwu Podcast Host Ruan Willow's latest book release: John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures, Book 2 in the Servicing the Work Men Series https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/johngiveshiswifehotadventures Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

10 Okt 1h 28min

Episode 673: Enjoy a Sensual Sexual Ride Through Ruan's Brain with Erotic Improv as she reads and improvs in her monologue recording. The sensuality and eroticism are on overload with steamy spicy scenes, ASMR sounds, and immersion narration that will undulate your brain through waves of pleasure and braingasm. Romance and sex collide with sensuality in the little, short erotic snippets and scenes. Pleasure is your birthright as are the natural highs your body makes as you climax. It's your baby, take it! It belongs to you! Enjoy this luxurious immersion into sensuality with the focuses of: sexuality,  health and fitness,  sexual health,  mental health,  mental wellness,  relationships,  self care,  self discovery,  personal growth,  pleasure, healing,  self love erotic romance fiction short stories, microfiction shorts Ruan's books mentioned in the episode: Beach House Views (thriller, erotic romance, diverse characters, suspense, dark romance) on Theo Reads, read chapter 1 for free! https://www.theoreads.com/story/71ba59ce-badd-4472-90af-b2d324c6a332/view John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures, hotwife VIxen, Stag dominant man, swingers, throuple, sex date, age gap, reverse age gap https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/johngiveshiswifehotadventures Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

7 Okt 28min

Ep 672: The Unfiltered Truth: What it's like to be an Adult Performer in the Industry with Dante Diggz. Hear it straight from Dante who strives to spread Industry Awareness about what it's really like within the community of the Adult Industry. Sex is labeled as evil and bad by many, hear from a man who speaks his mind about sex, sexuality, and culture. Don't miss as he shares his personal story of sexuality, sexual health, sexual wellness, what it means to perform for the camera, and how this career has affected his personal love life. # From Warehouse Worker to Adult Industry Success: The Dante Diggz Story **Ever wondered what it really takes to transition from a regular 9-to-5 to becoming a successful adult performer?** Dante Diggz shares his incredible journey from working at a warehouse to becoming a recognized name in the adult entertainment industry. In this eye-opening episode, Dante reveals how his background in fitness and the swinger lifestyle naturally led him into content creation when his personal training business declined during the pandemic. He breaks down the realities of turning sexuality into a profession - from the technical challenges of performing while managing camera angles to the rigorous safety protocols that define the industry. The conversation dives deep into what makes someone truly skilled in intimacy, with Dante emphasizing that great lovers prioritize their partner's pleasure and practice selfless attention to detail. He also discusses the business side, including his Urban X Award nominations, building a brand beyond performing, and the strategic decisions that drive content creation. Dante doesn't shy away from the sacrifices either - the loss of privacy, relationship challenges, and how the work requires treating intimate moments as professional productions rather than personal connections. **Ready to hear the unfiltered truth about turning passion into profession? Listen to the full episode now.** Connect with Dante Diggz on social media platforms as dantediggz https://instagram.com/dantediggz99 Find him also associated with Red Bottom Productions. Key Takeaways: • A blue‑collar-to-content-creator pivot: Dante left a warehouse job and personal‑training to monetize sexuality—driven by a swinger lifestyle and fitness—showing sex work can emerge from everyday jobs and subcultures.   • Sex as craft, not intimacy: performers deliberately frame scenes as production—focused on stamina, tailored technique, attentiveness—and separate personal intimacy from on‑camera work.   • Safety and business savvy matter: routine testing, careful navigation of platform limits, awards/fame, and a strategic shift toward production/branding are central to a sustainable career in paid content. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Okt 1h 10min