Two Female Podcasters Talk About Sex, Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries & Ruan Willow

Ep 169: Sexual Energy, Empowerment, and Healing with Natasha Edwina.  Natasha is an LMFT, an alternative and holistic coach, a hypnotherapist, and a consultant with a focus on pleasure, spirituality, and healing through pleasure. She highlights female sexuality topics that attend to states prior to dysfunction or problems occurring. She also teaches how diet affects both our sexuality and our mental health.  She zones in on the significance of the breath to connect with yourself first before sexual relations. She discusses how women experience pleasure and orgasms differently than men in that they have rolling hills of bliss rather than the hard and fast route to climax and enjoyment. She says, "Don't miss the subtle energy" of the rise of pleasure to orgasm (or not orgasm, but always pleasure).   Heterosexual couples: She talks about the importance of foreplay and how it's not just about touch. It begins way before the sexual encounter. She discusses how the different brain chemistry between the sexes is something to pay attention to and that women are more circular, whereas men are more direct with the hard and fast path, and often compartmentalized. Both men & women would do well by slowing down to understand each other's sensual processes. We talked about why couples should make a fantasy list which includes boundaries that should not be crossed, the devastation that occurs if boundaries are not respected, & the extensive healing needed if a boundary is crossed. We talked about squirting and how sexuality is taught & treated around the world. We spent time talking about how erotica is beneficial, especially to women, and how it can be used for sexuality but also remembering that we are all different in this area. Natasha pointed out that in relationships, we all need sexual connection and a charge, that desire, otherwise it's just a pleasant relationship without passion. She explained how sex is basic to a couple-relationship, it's integral. Communication is key and knowing things change for all people is something we should all recognize, so our sexuality is not static but ever-evolving & changing over time. She also taught us about how nutrition and sugar impact libido and how sugar is a boner and sex drive killer. Learn more about Natasha and her offerings here: https://linktr.ee/natasha.edwina Find Natasha on Instagram http://instagram.com/natasha.edwina Website https://www.natashaedwina.com/ Connect with the podcast host Ruan Willow here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow New book in presale: Never Say, Never Swing (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3nNQBgn Topics about this podcast include discussion around advice, sex, psychology, spirituality, women's health, self help, self care, & sexuality. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

8 Jul 202251min

Ep 168: Female Sexuality and Sexual Help for Women with Jordan D'Nelle. This is a very epic and amazingly informative episode for women and men too!  Jordan D'Nelle is a Physician Associate, Women's Sexual Health Educator, Intimacy Coach, and speaker. She is the founder of the Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators Podcast. Her goal is to raise awareness about conditions, sexuality, sexual intimacy and relationships that specifically affect women. She wants to help normalize women's health and create a safe space for women to feel validated. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan magazine, Women's Health Magazine, and many other podcasts. She is a resident blogger for ForPlay films. She has helped many woman overcome shame and have better intimacy with themselves and their partners. Jordan and I shared an amazing discussion. We chatted about how erotica is a tool, a resource to improve your sex life, as are sex toys. She addressed how poor sex ed is in the US because it has always focused on the male and ignores the female, and shame starts there. We need to rewrite these stories as we create more comprehensive and thorough sex ed now and include both sexes in all discussions. Educators need talk about the real purpose for sex, which also can lead to decreasing shame around sex. She explained how squirting is not pee. Get a squirt blanket! Yes! It's a thing! She also elaborated on the types of orgasms females have and that pleasure should be the focus. I loved how our discussion went when Jordan and I talked about ethical porn, erotic blueprints, and kink, and how kink can be used to heal past trauma by rewriting it. Other fantastic topics we hit on are that there is no "normal" when it comes to sex and kink and how the BDSM community really does it right in terms of consent and communication. It's a great model all relationships should adopt whether they are into kink or not. She talked about how we are all way kinkier than we are lead to believe by society and culture. She also talked about the benefits of daily masturbation for females, period sex, and taking the time to learn what turns us all on. She highly recommends the book (affiliate) Pussy Reclamation: https://amzn.to/3nEUeF8 Connect with Jordan here: https://jordandnelle.com/menu/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! Love ya, Ruan P.S. Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6- Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

5 Jul 20221h

Ep 167: Sex at the Coffee Shop, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop, Final installment: Part 5 of 5 in the Podcast miniseries.  We've made it to the final episode in this sexy steamy story of exhibitionism, voyeurism, hooking up, and sexual satisfiaction! This little spicy story hits the ahhhh!!! button on the sexual kinks of many people. It's a fantasy for some, and a reality for others, but here, you get to experience it and enjoy and imagine all you want! This installment is the final hot sex scene between Lana the barista and the male customer. They share a mutual instant attraction and find they have similar kinks. They both experience delicious climaxes and sexual satisfaction. Be sure to listen to the episodes in order. This is part 5 of the story.  This full story is on my website https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ Ruan's Books! https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon affiliate: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Internet Radio Station! My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! Love ya, Ruan Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

4 Jul 202224min

Ep 166: Spanking the Barista, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop Story Part 4 of 5, A Podcast Miniseries. Welcome to installment 4 in this erotica story podcast miniseries! In this episode we find Lana, the sexy coffee shop owner's wife, hooking up with a deliciously sexy man who is visiting the unique coffee shop for the first time. This installment is a part of the full scene between Lana and this man, which culminates in a hot sex scene in the last part of the miniseries. They both enjoy the impact play of sexual playful spanking in this episode. Be sure to listen to the episodes in order. This is part 4 of the story.  This full story is on my website https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ Stay tuned for the rest of the hot nuggets of erotica coming daily until it's done, baby! Let's go! Ruan's Books! Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Internet Radio Station! My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/  Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment. Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Jul 20229min

Ep 165: Lana Hooks up with Customer, Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop; a podcast miniseries part 3 of 5. Welcome to installment 3 in this erotica story podcast miniseries! In this episode we find Lana, the sexy coffee shop owner's wife, hooking up with a deliciously sexy man who is visiting the unique coffee shop for the first time. He and his friends are blown away by the open sexuality and sharing that's going on in the shop. This installment marks the beginning of the full scene between Lana and this man, which culminates in a hot sex scene in the last part of the miniseries. Be sure to listen to the episodes in order. This is part 3 of the story.  This full story is on my website https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ Stay tuned for the rest of the hot nuggets of erotica coming daily until it's done, baby! Let's go! Ruan's Books! Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway rated 5 stars:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 I hope you enjoy this narration and I'd be honored if you purchased my book and gave it an honest review on the site you purchased it from. Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Internet Radio Station! My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/  My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! Love ya, Ruan Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

2 Jul 202210min

Ep 164: Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop Part 2 Podcast miniseries. This is a podcast miniseries! You will get daily nuggets of this story until I make it to the end! It's a hot steamy intense erotic story about a fictitious coffee shop where patrons can tip to suck whipped cream off the waitress's tits, plus more! In this installment we find Lerise engaging with a patron and oh she's got the secrets! And we find out about the titty washer that Harley invented. Have a listen to this piece of erotic fiction! It's a story sure to get you revved up!  This is part 2 of the story.  This full story is on my website https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ and on the site Lush Stories. Stay tuned for the rest of the hot nuggets of erotica coming daily until it's done, baby! Let's go! Ruan's Books! Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 I hope you enjoy this narration and I'd be honored if you purchased my book and gave it an honest review on the site you purchased it from. Thanks for listening! Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Internet Radio Station! My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/  My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is intended for the purposes of entertainment with some sex ed thrown in. Expand your fantasy life, and dwell in the erotic arts for a bit. Sexual health and fitness are essential parts for a healthy sex life. Have a sexy day! Love ya, Ruan Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

1 Jul 202213min

Ep 163: Sucking Nipples at the Licking Sip Coffee Shop part 1: a podcast miniseries. This is a podcast miniseries! You will get daily nuggets of this story until I make it to the end! It's a hot steamy intense erotic story about a fictitious coffee shop where patrons can tip to suck whipped cream off the waitress's tits, plus more! But mind you, it's not a brothel, it's tip-based, but spankings, suckling, and all-out fucking are decided on a tip basis. Nothing is sold. It's a delicious lush dive into the fantasies many hold about exhibitionism, being used (consensual and non-abusive of course), and voyeurism. The characters all want what's happening to them to happen. They decide it all. And they ALL get off! The coffee shop is frequented by patrons who keep their eyes open, their wallets open (for coffee and more), and their mouths shut. They want this coffee shop to stay in business. It's guilty pleasures all around! The shop's owner, Harley, created this shop, and his wife works and runs the shop, but damn, does he love to watch what happens in his little scorching lust haven. This is part 1 of the story. This full story is on my website https://ruanwillowauthor.com/sucking-nipples-at-the-licking-sip-coffee-shop/ and on the site Lush Stories. Stay tuned for the rest of the hot nuggets of erotica coming daily until it's done, baby! Let's go! Ruan's Books! Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway:You can find this book on sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 I hope you enjoy this narration and I'd be honored if you purchased my book and gave it an honest review on the site you purchased it from. Thanks for listening! Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Internet Radio Station! My podcast has been picked up by Full Swap Radio! It's an internet radio channel you can listen to within an app. Search for the free app Full Swap Radio to listen to my podcast and other sex-positive podcast shows. So many great ones there and I'm honored to be in their lineup: https://fullswapradio.com/  My episodes are currently set to air on Tuesdays at 6:30 pm CST and Wednesdays at 8:30 am. Find the schedule here: https://fullswapradio.com/show-line-up/ Welcome! Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy, for adults only,  interviews with experts, and the podcast is inten Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

30 Jun 20229min

Ep 162: 9 Essentials for a Sex Vacation and How to Pack Them. Are you going on a sex vacation? Do you want to plan one because you love this idea? I have tips to make it hot, sexy, steamy, fun, and memorable. Whether sex is your vacation goal or just part of the vacation fun, my ideas are concrete ideas and products to help you enjoy, savor, and get the most sexual satisfaction possible. This episode even applies to those traveling without a partner because several of these things will help a person with solo sex as well. This podcast contains affiliate links to products I use and endorse. Please know that I do get a kickback for advertising the products but that is at no added cost to you. I hope you find this podcast episode helpful in planning your next vacation with sex in it, or your next sex vacation. You can have so much fun, just pack the right stuff and you will enjoy to the max! You can read this blog post with links to the products by clicking here:  https://ruanwillowauthor.com/9-essentials-for-a-sex-vacation-and-how-to-pack-them/ Links to products I LOVE from the podcast episode (affiliate): I adore these brands! Check them out! Link to the Zumio sex toy I love: https://shrsl.com/3l91u Lovense: https://amzn.to/3OKdm0b https://www.lovense.com/r/bhjft9 Mystery Vibe: https://shrsl.com/3l922 Promescent Delay Spray for longer-lasting erections, female arousal gel, orgasm-enhancing supplement, and lubes: https://shrsl.com/3l92b Ruan's favorite gel lube: https://amzn.to/3OJOUvS and https://amzn.to/3NtHjQQ and the purple one https://amzn.to/3I2DiCa Enhanced Male sex toy cleaner: https://shrsl.com/3l92k Avidlove lace lingerie: https://amzn.to/3OvFzrI Amazon Audible 3 month free trial: https://amzn.to/3HWGizU Want some ideas for your sex vacation? Check out my novellas where the topic is a sex vacation! Get a copy of my new book  Ruan's Beach Getaway:On sale at online sellers: https://books2read.com/u/m2eE6d And on Amazon  for any market in the world (affiliate): https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/c9fbb3e6-ddf1-11ec-b61c-5b8761feaf66 Get the first book Ruan's Cabin Getaway where Ruan and Sebastian have sex all over the cabin for a fuckfest weekend! https://books2read.com/u/4jgBE2 And on Apple and Kobo https://books2read.com/u/medqrV Hello! Welcome to my podcast! Connect with me here as well: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Listen to this podcast episode to improve your sexuality, learn something new, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find erotica and romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

28 Jun 202225min