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Ep 357: The Older Billionaire and the Precocious Little Brat plus Author Interview B.B. Pierce.  Ruan narrates an excerpt from the erotica book Rich Older Men and Much Much Younger Women: The Older Billionaire and the Precocious Little Brat. It's a sexually indulgent story of power exchange, but who's the one really in control? Enjoy the steamy age gap story of a rich man and a young college student who works as a waitress. His yacht and bank account make up for what he lacks... but Chrissie will enjoy herself no matter what! Get the full book on Amazon. Also includes the author interview with B. B. Pierce, the author of the excerpt. Ruan reads the interview questions as answers as the author prefers to remain fully anonymous. Connect with the author here: https://www.bbpierceauthor.com/ https://twitter.com//BBPierce2 Rich Older Men and Much Much Younger Women: The Older Billionaire and the Precocious Little Brat book https://amzn.to/3uhfMhV Amazon author page https://www.amazon.com/Rich-Older-Much-Younger-Women-ebook/dp/B0CJ38HTYB Thank you to B.B. Pierce for sharing the story and answers to the author interview questions! FREE erotica through end of day 11/15/2023 PT https://storyoriginapp.com/to/RYuZjv0 About the Podcast host: Ruan Willow and latest releases: Sharing His Adventurous Wife, First Time Wife Share Audiobook request an ARC copy hotwife audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixenarc To buy the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen NEW! Taste of Victory, the last in The Sex Challenge Series: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/tasteofvictory https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook The Hide & Seek Sex Challenge https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook The Limo Sex Challenge https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallenge Guilty Pleasures: Daddy Dominant Stories, His Perfect Sub https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/guiltypleasuresdaddydominantdtorieshisperfectsub Thanks for listening to this erotica book excerpt fiction entertainment and author interview! Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

14 Nov 202352min

Ep 356: Healthy Sexual & Emotional Intimacy, How Embodiment and Nervous System Regulation are Important with Dr. Alison Ash.  She is a sex & intimacy coach and educator/lecturer at Standford University, and online. Dr. Aly shared what embodiment means and how our US culture devalues the wisdom of our bodies, so we often disconnect from our bodies as a result, which causes us to run into problems in sex, relationships, pleasure, and quality of life. Not only does the US have poor sex ed, it basically has zero intimacy education (but things are getting better as some universities are starting to offer such courses). Practicing embodiment is to be very present living in the moment, which Dr, Aly explained is a form of meditation and mindfulness. We can engage in nourishing our intimacy. Our intimacy can be draining rather than fulfilling if it's lacking. She offers courses to help people with this and other issues (including sexual topics). She explained how the 'window of tolerance' and 'range of resiliency' impacts our lives and relationships, and how we can widen that window through self-care.  She talked about examples of self-care, which our culture tends to minimize and devalue, such as taking a bath, gardening, journaling, or wrapping up in a soft blanket. She addressed how we need to self-soothe (self-regulate) and co-regulate (meaning engaging in a soothing connection with someone else...aka feel that click with them). Both are important for a healthy relationship.  She stated intimacy comes from mutual vulnerablity and with our goal oriented culture, goal oriented sexual relations often occur and this takes us out of our bodies which leads to less enjoyable and fulfilling sex lives. She also stressed that as a culture, we need to stop labeling emotions as good or bad, they are all valuable and give us all information.  We also touched on repairing ruptures in relationships, and the female sexual genitalia anatomy...do you know what the clitoris looks like? It is about six inches long and has lobes, legs, a shaft, and a head (somewhat analgous to the penis). Check out Dr. Aly's new course https://www.turnon.love/sexual-and-emotional-intimacy-skills And her other courses: http://www.turnon.love/ About the podcast host: request an ARC copy hotwife audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixenarc To buy the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen NEW! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

10 Nov 202353min

Episode 355: All characters over 18. Not related. Sex in the Morning Sun with My Daddy spiced scene with ASMR sounds. Delicious intimacy in the morning for this couple enjoying orgasms in the sun. Erotic romance entertainment arts for your enjoyment. Role play fun. Daddy means dominant man, dominant partner, Dom/sub play power exchange play. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

10 Nov 202313min

Ep 353: Hotwife Itty Bitty Vixen Erotic Novella Book Excerpt, Mini Erotic Scenes by Ruan, and an ASMR Sheer Scarf Erotic Scene Reading by Ruan.  Enjoy this episode threefold with an erotic excerpt from a steamy campground story written by Lacey Cross, Sharing His Adventurous Wife, First Time Wife Share Itty Bitty Vixen, narrated by Ruan Willow and InMyHandsAudio. Next enjoy several mini erotic scenes, and lastly savor an ASMR-rich narrative of an erotic Sheer Scarf scene. Go to Story Origin App website to request an ARC copy of the hotwife audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixenarc or email ruan at ruanwillow@gmail.com to request one. To buy the book: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen To get the book and a trial of Audible (affiliate if sign up/purchase occurs this podcast may receive a finder's fee commission that supports this podcast. thank you): US https://www.audible.com/pd/B0CKY69KPB/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWU-BK-ACX0-370409&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_370409_pd_us UK https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B0CKY5YR6V/?source_code=AUKFrDlWS02231890H7-BK-ACX0-370409&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_370409_pd_uk Email Ruan for other country links. Hot entertainment, fiction, and audio arts from Ruan Willow, podcast host: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ NOW IN PAPERBACK! Neighborhood Sex Secrets—one woman's journey of sexual liberation, empowerment, & fulfillment of her desires. Get it now! Help me launch it with a purchase and/or a review! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Check out Ruan's latest audiobook releases! The Hide and Seek Sex Challenge: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook Mallory and Derek Attend Their First Sex Party https://www.kobo.com/us/en/audiobook/mallory-and-derek-attend-their-first-sex-party Buy Hemper Glass https://www.hemper.co/?afmc=gf0&utm_campaign=gf0&utm_source=leaddyno&utm_medium=affiliate%2520Ruan%2520Willow%2520Pod Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

7 Nov 202325min

Episode 352: Men--Are You Sabotaging Your Sex Life? Learn How to Stop with Tips from Men's Sex Coach and podcaster Sebastian Harris. Sebastian is known for helping men transform their sex lives through his coaching, but his tips will definitely help women too.  So, this episode is definitely for women as well. We had such a fantastic chat...we hit on so many important topics to sexual and mental health, relationships, and ways for us all to improve our sex lives/libido. Hint: they are super fun! Topics of discussion: *Men and Sexuality...women too! *Sexual health is a part of mental health *Common emotional, physical, and spiritual blocks for men & their sexuality *Guilt and shame and culturally created negative thoughts about sex (common in Americans and some other cultures) *How men can make women come better in bed *How cortisol levels impact sexuality *Women's sexuality and anatomy *Sex toy usage *The Magic Triangle: Ways Men can improve their testosterone *Aging and testosterone, how to maximize testosterone levels *Unconventional methods for couples to enflame their sex life *The most important aspects of making a woman squirt *How being judgmental hurts relationships and prevents you from living out your own fantasies with your partner *Why men should read erotica *Role plays *Why the American way of life is hurting our sexuality And so much more! We had an incredible chat! Connect with Sebastian Harris: Sexucation for Men Podcast with short episodes for quick tips and learning, quick re-referencing, and fast help:  https://www.sexucationformen.com/sexgod https://www.sexucationformen.com/coaching Hot entertainment, fiction, and audio arts from Ruan Willow, podcast host: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ NOW IN PAPERBACK! Neighborhood Sex Secrets—one woman's journey of sexual liberation, empowerment, & fulfillment of her desires. Get it now! Help me launch it with a purchase and/or a review! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neighborhoodsexsecrets Check out my latest audiobook releases! Sharing His Adventurous Wife, First Time Wife Share: the birth of a hotwife while camping at a campground https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen The Hide and Seek Sex Challenge: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thehideandseeksexchallengeaudiobook Buy Hemper Glass https://www.hemper.co/?afmc=gf0&utm_campaign=gf0&utm_source=leaddyno&utm_medium=affiliate%2520Ruan%2520Willow%2520Pod Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Nov 202352min

Season 3, Episode 350 of 350 in all: The Sex Wizards Halloween Party Orgy. Ready to get seduced, enchanted, and mesmerized by magical sexuality? Enjoy the mystical pleasure this Halloween with a Halloween themed short story to wrap yourself in juicy warm sensuality. Janna is horny and she just wants to hookup with someone at the party because it's been a long time since she had sex. Her friend Bonnie, the party host, has a surprise for her. But that surprise is nowhere as amazing as the surprise the sex wizards have for her...she will get the sex wish of her dreams on Halloween night, when their power is at its max level. Read the Halloween erotica story The Sex Wizards at the Halloween Party Orgy on Medium in the Erotic Fantasies Publication https://medium.com/erotic-fantasies/the-sex-wizards-halloween-party-orgy-9e6d44b5bdb5 Ruan's other erotic fiction books and NSFW audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Sharing His Adventurous Wife: First Time Wife Share (Itty-Bitty Vixen) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen Halloween Erotica Anthology: The Femdom Coven https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thefemdomcoven Mallory and Derek Attend Their First Sex Party (hint: it's an orgy!) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendtheirfirstsexparty The Hide and Seek Sex Challenge audiobook https://www.audible.com/pd/B0CLYX2C5B/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-372462&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_372462_rh_us Hemper Glass Smoke accessories https://www.hemper.co/?afmc=gf0&utm_campaign=gf0&utm_source=leaddyno&utm_medium=affiliate%2520Ruan%2520Willow%2520Podcast Get the Ruan Willow Discount on pleasure products, sex toys, sex trips, and more! https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

31 Okt 202341min

Ep  349: Sex IS Positively Pleasurable Get a Useful Important Education with Dr. Stephanie. We chatted about how sex is often still seen as somewhat taboo in American culture and society and how we need to rewire this viewpoint and view sex as a positive and important piece in the wholeness of our well-being. Our discussion focused on how sex negativity hurts us all, our relationships, our mental health, and our perceptions of the purpose of sex. We need to reframe sex for the entirety of our health. We talked about what shapes our sexuality and our sexual triggers is half nurture and half nature, but we can reframe any painful sexual experiences we may have had and turn them into something more positive and enjoyable. A therapist can help. We discussed how BDSM has been around since the dawn of time, but it got negative attention in the late 60's. What most people don't understand is that it's the sub who is in full control always and it's consensual, not abusive. We talked about how people, like the two of us, need to keep discussing sex openly and modeling openness to help those who are sexually and culturally sexually repressed. I brought up how I try and portray healthy sexuality and truth to sexual interactions in my books, and that includes particularly how women reach climax. The clitoris has been largely ignored by medicine and society, only being first imaged in 2005, and the first model not appearing until 2010. Clitoral sexual pleasure has traditionally been downplayed, ignored, and disregarded in importance in modern times and our overall society has suffered because of that, not to mention our quality of life, our relationships, and our happiness/fulfillment. We talked about double standards for the sexes, plus the not widely known fact that vulva genitalia do have erectile tissue and engorge just like a penis.  It basically is an inside out penis. We discussed the anatomical differences and similarities of our genitalia. We discussed the benefits of sex toys, clit mapping, and internal mapping of the sex organ for those with a vagina. We also touched on mismatched libidos and how this may just be that the person isn't having the sex they want to have. We also chatted about dark fantasies. She's also an expert on alternative relationships. She expressed that it's "very normal" to live an alternative lifestyle, maybe common is the best word because 1 in 25 couples in the US engages in some sort of alternative lifestyle. Connect with Dr. Stephanie: Web: evolveyourintimacy.com Pod: evolveyourintimacy.com/podcast Ruan's other erotic fiction books and NSFW audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/ Sharing His Adventurous Wife: First Time Wife Share (Itty-Bitty Vixen) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/sharinghisadventurouswifefirsttimewifeshareittybittyvixen Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

27 Okt 20231h 12min

Episode 348: This story was on the podcast a while back, but here it is again but without all the extra stuff, so you just get the story only. It cuts right to the story, so you get to the hot tale without any delays! A power exchange storyline, a short erotic romance fiction story where he takes care of her, and she desires him to do it.  They match up! No relation between characters. Daddy means dominant partner. All characters over 18 and not related. Daddy washes my car as I finish up writing my book. It's all clean, but he wants to take me in it. It might get dirty again! We go for ice cream, but we have the better cream. Enjoy this sexy tale of a dominant pleasing and enjoying his enthusiastic sub. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

26 Okt 202323min