The Intimate Art of Erotic Massage: Mastering Sensual Touch, Confidence, & Enjoyment for Women with Lee Jagger

The Intimate Art of Erotic Massage: Mastering Sensual Touch, Confidence, & Enjoyment for Women with Lee Jagger

Ep 438: In this tantalizing episode, Ruan welcomes sex coach extraordinaire Lee Jagger, CEO and founder of Rock the Bedroom. Lee has transformed the lives of thousands of women by empowering them with her signature erotic massage techniques, helping them to forge deeper connections with their partners and ignite confidence in the bedroom. **VIDEO version airing on PodNation TV on 5/1/2024**

Lee and Ruan explore the misconceptions surrounding erotic massage, revealing that it's so much more than a mere hand job. It's a journey of slow, sensual exploration that can include the entire body, with over 69 techniques that a man simply can't perform on himself. Lee shares her personal story of transformation from being homeless to becoming a beacon of sensual empowerment for women everywhere.

The discussion delves into the importance of playtime (not just foreplay), the art of communication, and the power of treating your partner like royalty. Lee emphasizes that when it comes to touching, men crave the sensation of being desired, and she challenges women to touch their partners like they love it, transforming obligatory acts into moments of genuine pleasure.

Lee also shares valuable insights on how these techniques can enhance sexual experiences for men with erection challenges, offering alternatives to intercourse that still provide deep satisfaction. And for the singles out there, Lee discusses how these skills can boost confidence in the dating world, attracting partners who will cherish and respect them.

Don't miss this episode that's as informative as it is steamy, it could save your relationship. Lee Jagger's advice is life changing.
Website: https://www.rockthebedroom.com
Podcast: https://rockthebedroompodcast.buzzsprout.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/rockthebedroom/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@rockthebedroom

Episode Chapters
(02:45) The journey from homelessness to empowering women in the bedroom
(05:20) Understanding the true essence of erotic massage
(08:15) The power of confidence in the bedroom and its ripple effect on relationships
(08:26) Is that why you became a sex coach for women?
(09:41) When I started erotic massage, my boyfriend couldn't even get an erection
(14:56) Our sex ed in America is so focused on reproduction
(11:02) The importance of intimacy and connection beyond intercourse
(13:40) Addressing the challenges of single women and the importance of self-worth in dating
(16:25) Communication in the bedroom
(18:50) Importance of touching your partner with genuine desire and love
(29:48) Prefer the term playtime over foreplay
(38:55) Women often assume that flaccid penis doesn't do anything
(58:32) One thing men really wish that women knew about touching a man's body
(01:02:19) When you have control in the bedroom, you have the best sex

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Hot Summer Sex Part 2: Five Point Stimulation to Euphoric Sexual Bliss

Hot Summer Sex Part 2: Five Point Stimulation to Euphoric Sexual Bliss

Episode 634: Hot Summer Sex Part 2: Five Point Stimulation to Euphoric Sexual Bliss. Anna and Dane continue their erotic adventure in the screen tent in their backyard. Dane has created a contraption to secure sex toys in to blow Anna's mind, and his ultimate goal is to give her five points of erogenous stimulation to help her reach orgasmic heights...but he gets to fulfill some fantasies, too, an oral pounding he's been wanting to try. Join in the summer heat as these two lovers expand their sexual boundaries and blow out the top of their sexual expectations, as they attain new heights of bliss. Enjoy the erotic romance, erotic fiction storytelling to spark your sexual wellbeing, enhance your sexual wellness, and peak your sexuality and your imagination in yummy adventures! It's a story about sexy relationships, reaching for and attaining orgasmic delights. It's an erotica storytelling story! Listen to part 1: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/episodes/17466395 Crush Virtual Erotic Con! CRUSH Publications Don't forget to enter for your chance to win tons of books and now the prize of trip to a VEGAS RESORT, 3 Days, 2 nights for 2 is added in as a prize! Learn more here: 2025 Giveaway's & VIP Packages - by CRUSH Publications Enter your entry to win your chance at a free ticket the con You can watch the Con for FREE but for a chance to win the books and the getaway, you can buy a VIP ticket for $15. I'm on the narrator panel for this conference. Ruan's New Release: Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Summer Teases 2 An erotic story anthology of summer sexy fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/summerteases2anthology Smashwords Sale for July 2025, 50% off Ruan's books: https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

15 Jul 202536min

Reclaiming Pleasure, Breaking Free from Purity Culture, and Sexual Liberation with Lauren Elise Rogers

Reclaiming Pleasure, Breaking Free from Purity Culture, and Sexual Liberation with Lauren Elise Rogers

Ep 633: A Journey to Sexual Liberation! Join us! Lauren Elise Rogers is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Summary: Discover how Lauren Elise Rogers transformed from a restrictive Bible Belt upbringing to become a certified holistic sexuality educator helping others reclaim their sexual autonomy. This powerful episode explores the intersection of faith, sexuality, pleasure, and personal empowerment. Lauren shares her compelling journey through divorce and self-discovery, highlighting how early religious teachings can shape our relationship with intimacy. Through her work as an intimacy coach, she guides clients in untangling inherited beliefs about sexuality while maintaining their spiritual connections. Key highlights: - Exploring the contradiction between religious celebration and condemnation of sexuality - Understanding erotic plasticity and belief systems - Identifying and "weeding out" limiting beliefs from different life stages - The importance of body wisdom in setting boundaries - Reframing pleasure and consent in intimate relationships Ready to challenge your own beliefs about sexuality and spirituality? Listen to this transformative episode that bridges the gap between faith and sexual empowerment. Timeline: 00:00:02 - Exploring Sexual Wellness and Education, intimacy 00:03:07 - Exploring Sexuality and Religious Beliefs 00:07:25 - Exploring Faith and Spiritual Practices 00:09:41 - Embracing Pleasure and Human Experience 00:12:21 - Breaking Free from Negative Beliefs 00:26:17 - The Importance of Negotiating Pleasure 00:35:16 - Exploring the Roots of Sexuality 00:48:00 - Understanding Childhood Sexual Exploration 00:50:58 - Teaching Kids About Healthy Sexuality 00:53:33 - Body Image and Tampon Myths 00:54:53 - Questioning Beliefs About Sex and Consent 00:57:25 - Exploring Safe Consensual Sex Key Takeaways: • Lauren transformed her life from a restrictive background in Virginia's Bible Belt to embracing a pleasure-centered approach to intimacy, which challenges conventional religious teachings.   • Her journey included overcoming early marital struggles and a divorce, showcasing that personal growth can stem from significant life changes.   • Lauren emphasizes the importance of examining and redefining ingrained beliefs about relationships and self-worth to foster empowerment and self-awareness. Connect with Lauren: Website: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@partnershippodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

11 Jul 20251h 1min

Hot Summer Sex: Seduction

Hot Summer Sex: Seduction

Ep 631: The Hot Summer Sex Series has begun with this first story Hot Summer Sex: Seduction! An erotic romance story in the deep dark of night when the air is warm, the feels are mystically sensual, and the juicy climaxes abound! Dane bought a screen tent and surprises Anna with a seduction scene in it... but no clothes allowed for her...it's complete with a comfy air mattress, a basket of toys, drinks, and enough lanterns to spark even more magic than she can handle. The nighttime steaminess is off the charts when Dane edges Anna along by arousing her, but moving slow, even though he's more than ready to dive into pleasure, he wants her desperate and begging, and well-climaxed, before he coasts in. An erotic storytelling adventure for the heat of summer! More hot, sexy, intense summer intimate scenes to come! Take a healthy sexual wellness break and listen to this delicious erotic audio short story. More to come! Enjoy the entertainment! Crush Virtual Erotic Con! CRUSH Publications Don't forget to enter for your chance to win tons of books and now the prize of trip to a VEGAS RESORT, 3 Days, 2 nights for 2 is added in as a prize! Learn more here: 2025 Giveaway's & VIP Packages - by CRUSH Publications Enter your entry to win your chance at a free ticket the con You can watch the Con for FREE but for a chance to win the books and the getaway, you can buy a VIP ticket for $15. I'm on the narrator panel for this conference. Ruan's New Release: Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Summer Teases 2 An erotic story anthology of summer sexy fun! https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/summerteases2anthology Smashwords Sale for July 2025, 50% off Ruan's books: https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/RuanWillow Payhip store: 25% OFF on Payhip through 7/15/2025 4:15 PM https://payhip.com/b/gA5M2 ARC: https://booksirens.com/author/H1HH6OK/BQMGP2J Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

8 Jul 202524min

Connecting Through Kink: Navigating BDSM Compatibility in Dating

Connecting Through Kink: Navigating BDSM Compatibility in Dating

Ep 630: # Finding Love Through Kink: A Revolutionary Dating App Ever wondered if your BDSM preferences could lead you to your perfect match? Meet Pieter, the innovative CEO who turned personal setbacks into a groundbreaking dating platform that matches users based on their BDSM test compatibility scores. This fascinating episode explores how a unique dating app is revolutionizing the way people connect by prioritizing sexual compatibility before diving into traditional dating metrics. Peter shares his journey from heartbreak to breakthrough, explaining how his platform helps users find meaningful connections through shared intimate preferences. The conversation delves into the evolution of the BDSM test as a tool for self-discovery, the importance of open communication in alternative relationships, and how understanding one's desires can lead to more fulfilling partnerships. From creative signaling methods to navigating cultural differences, this episode offers valuable insights into modern dating dynamics. Whether you're curious about alternative relationship styles or seeking a more authentic way to connect, this episode challenges conventional dating wisdom and offers a fresh perspective on finding love. 🎧 Listen now to discover how understanding your intimate preferences could be the key to finding your perfect match. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at https://beedee.app/?r=ohfuckyeah 00:00:02 - Connecting Through BDSM Compatibility 00:04:32 - Revolutionizing Dating App Compatibility 00:08:58 - Understanding Sexual Compatibility in Relationships 00:14:35 - Understanding the BDSM Test Categories 00:16:45 - Growth of the BDSM Test 00:21:00 - Understanding Language Barriers and Relationships 00:24:40 - Understanding Submissive Dynamics 00:29:18 - Exploring Communication in Relationships 00:35:00 - Exploring BDSM and Sexual Compatibility 00:38:25 - Understanding acronyms in BDSM and Kink 00:46:24 - Importance of Communication and Consent 00:52:45 - Understanding Consensual Non-Consent 00:57:07 - Safety Signals in BDSM Practices 01:03:08 - Upcoming Features for the App Key Takeaways: • The BeeDee dating app prioritizes BDSM compatibility as a foundation for meaningful relationships while also challenging traditional dating norms.   • The BDSM test has evolved into a crucial tool for self-discovery, aiding individuals in understanding their desires and preferences.   • The emphasis on clear communication, signals, and introspection can significantly enhance relationship dynamics, even for those outside the BDSM community. Summary Cleanvoice ai Ruan's books on Smashwords https://www.smashwords.com/profile/view/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

4 Jul 20251h 7min

Storm Sex An Erotic Improv Story

Storm Sex An Erotic Improv Story

Ep 628: Storm Sex An Erotic Improv Story, Ruan spins a story off the top of her head as she records...oh the deliciousness of an unexpected unscripted night at home, forced proximity to the basement to hide out and be safe from the storm raging outside! Mike and Felicia both gather supplies to weather the storm in the basement closet, and things are bound to get spicy when she grabs her new sex toy from the charger on her way to the basement! Enjoy the spontaneous sex of this couple, the edging, the fun power play sex game of orgasm control, and of the course, the mutual satiation! A night to never forget! Enjoy this erotic romance, a little spicy erotica story about how to take advantage of a bad situation and turn it into sexy fun times! Great erotic fiction as an erotic audio to peak your libido, stir ideas in you, and satiate your mental health and your sexual health. Making relationships fun with impromptu sex.. oh hell yes please! Delicious ultra spicy storytelling! She enjoyed it, she hopes you do too! Buy books directly from Ruan Willow on her New Payhip store! Including on her new releases Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties and The Drink Master: https://payhip.com/RuanWillowBooks The books are also available on online sellers including: Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties The Drink Master: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thedrinkmaster Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

1 Jul 202538min

Empowering Change: A Journey to Sexual and Reproductive Justice With Holly

Empowering Change: A Journey to Sexual and Reproductive Justice With Holly

Ep 627: **Breaking Down Barriers in Sexual Health Education** Guest: Holly Eckelberger (she/her) is a public health expert, sex educator, and passionate advocate for sexual and reproductive justice. With over 15 years of experience, she's led community education programs, developed inclusive sexual health curricula, and is a fierce community activist. Holly is also the co-founder of the Rochester Sexual and Reproductive Justice Task Force and the host of Meet Me at the Spot Podcast, where she dives into real talk about sex, pleasure, and justice. She brings a unique blend of professional insight and sex-positive enthusiasm to every conversation. Dive into a powerful conversation with Holly, where she transforms from health teacher to community sex educator and reproductive justice advocate. From viral TikTok content to launching a groundbreaking podcast, Holly shares how authentic conversations about sexual health can create meaningful change. The episode explores critical gaps in K-12 sex education, challenging traditional approaches and highlighting the urgent need for comprehensive, accurate information. Holly discusses how her work with the Rochester Sexual and Reproductive Justice Task Force is reshaping conversations around sexual health and education. Key highlights: - Journey from classroom teaching to community advocacy - Impact of social media in sexual health education - Importance of representation in LGBTQ+ sexual health - Role of podcasting in breaking taboos - Challenges of modern sex education Ready to challenge your perspectives on sexual health education and learn how one voice can make a difference? Listen to this eye-opening episode that bridges the gap between education and authentic conversation. Tune in now to join this crucial conversation about reshaping sexual health education for future generations. Chapters timeline: 00:00:00 - Passion for Sexual Health Education 00:03:06 - Journey in Sexual Health Education 00:08:56 - Teaching Kids About Consent and Relationships 00:13:24 - Importance of Comprehensive Sex Education 00:15:31 - Understanding the Reality of Pornography 00:17:54 - Understanding Sexuality and Pornography 00:26:54 - Representation and Acceptance in Society 00:34:59 - The Power of Storytelling and Censorship 00:39:35 - Activism Through Joyful Existence 00:46:58 - Normalizing Body Conversations with Children 00:52:41 - Reclaiming Female Pleasure Conversations Key takeaways: • Comprehensive sex education is often misunderstood and is crucial for empowering youth, yet it remains insufficiently implemented in many schools.   • The influence of porn is detrimental to young people's understanding of healthy relationships and sexuality, highlighting the need for better educational resources.  • Indie publishing plays a vital role in amplifying diverse voices and perspectives, contributing to more inclusive discussions about sexuality and identity. Connect with Holly: Website: thatsexeducator.com Listen: https://meetmeatthespot.buzzsprout.com Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

27 Jun 202555min

Beach House Views Erotica Excerpt, Breeding

Beach House Views Erotica Excerpt, Breeding

Ep 625: Beach House Views Erotica Excerpt, Breeding written by podcast host and author Ruan Willow. Get my erotic suspense thriller novel on Theo Reads! Chapters 1 through 7 are now live and each week a new chapter will release. On Theo Reads  you can search for EXACTLY what you want by searching by trope, kink, gender, orientation, spice level, and sub-genre. Read Beach House Views Chapter 1 for Free: https://www.theoreads.com/story/71ba59ce-badd-4472-90af-b2d324c6a332/view Read Chapter 2: https://www.theoreads.com/story/f54de852-a529-4ee5-9764-21ea3363ae26/view TROPES of Beach House Views: *Dark Romance *Erotic *Thriller *Suspense *Stalker *Breeding   *Open Door High spice\Heterosexual couple, she's bicurious Beach House Views book blurb: Juniper and Bridge find their dream house. It's on the beach! The house is eerily perfect, and the couple can't help but be drawn to its charm and the allure of its famous previous owner. The house seems to be the perfect place for them to start a new chapter in their lives and maybe make a top-notch nursery for that baby they've so desperately been trying for.  During their tour, Juniper finds a mysterious object in the kitchen, a hidden key in an odd place, hinting that there may be more to this fantasy home than meets the eye. After they settle in to the house, mysteries pop up, but they dismiss them as meaningless, that is until they can't deny something odd, and devious, could be going on with the house. They continue to enjoy each other though, on their baby making breeding spree, trying out every room in their quest to create new life. When things start to go south, they find the beach views they didn't want, and the danger of the mysterious occurrences becomes villainous. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

24 Jun 202521min

Finding the Clit and Breaking Barriers: Reclaiming Women's Sexual Health with Dr. Jessica Yih

Finding the Clit and Breaking Barriers: Reclaiming Women's Sexual Health with Dr. Jessica Yih

Ep 624: Breaking down barriers to Women's Sexual Health with Dr. Jessica Yih, MD, a urologist aka drsexandsperm on social media who is an Assistant Professor at the Department of Urology, Director of Women's Sexual Health and Male Infertility at the University of California, Irvine. She shares all her insights about the clitoris, female sexuality, and the new direction medicine is taking in finally paying more attention to women's sexual organs, pleasure, anatomy, function, and illness.  Summary: Discover the Hidden Power of the Clitoris and a Revolutionary Look at Women's Sexual Health Join Dr. Jessica Yih (aka drsexandsperm on social media), a pioneering urologist, as she unveils groundbreaking insights about female sexual health and anatomy. Did you know the clitoris contains an astounding 10,000 nerve endings and is much larger than commonly believed? This eye-opening episode challenges traditional perspectives and breaks down barriers in women's sexual health education. Dr. Yih shares her personal journey in the male-dominated field of urology and discusses how limited medical training on women's sexual health inspired her to become an advocate for change. The conversation explores crucial topics including: - The complex anatomy and size of the clitoris - Breaking down shame and cultural taboos - Understanding sexual health across different life stages - The impact of hormonal changes on sexual wellness - Barriers in testosterone therapy for women and the potentially harmful impacts of the oral contraceptive pill in damaging a woman's ability to have pleasure with sex This frank and informative discussion illuminates the importance of self-discovery and understanding your body without shame. Whether you're curious about your own anatomy or seeking to enhance your sexual wellbeing, this episode offers valuable insights that could transform your perspective on female sexuality. Ready to revolutionize your understanding of women's sexual health?  Timeline: 00:01:57 - Women's Sexual Health Awareness 00:05:21 - Understanding the Clitoris Anatomy 00:10:45 - Anatomy and Arousal 00:17:31 - Exploring Sensuality and Orgasms 00:21:16 - Understanding Sexual Health and Pleasure 00:23:22 - Impact of Aging on Sexuality 00:27:27 - Understanding Women's Hormonal Changes & Hormone Therapy Autonomy 00:35:06 - Hormone Therapy Benefits for Women 00:38:52 - Understanding Vestibule Pain and Testosterone 00:42:01 - Understanding Hormonal Vestibulodynia 00:44:46 - Impact of Oral Contraceptives on Health 00:47:35 - Testosterone Therapy and Patient Advocacy 00:52:55 - Advocating for Sexual Health Awareness 00:55:28 - Exploring Sexual Trauma Healing Key Takeaways Dr. Yih https://linktr.ee/drsexandsperm • There is a significant lack of education about female anatomy, particularly the clitoris, which contributes to societal shame surrounding female sexuality.   • Understanding one's body, including embracing self-exploration, is essential for enhancing pleasure and mental health, regardless of age. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

20 Jun 202556min

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