From Law Enforcement to BDSM Lifestyle, Exploring the Mysteries of Kink, Fetish, and BDSM Safely with Lorenzo The Voice

From Law Enforcement to BDSM Lifestyle, Exploring the Mysteries of Kink, Fetish, and BDSM Safely with Lorenzo The Voice

Ep 506: Exploring the Depths of BDSM with Lorenzo, The Voice!
A deep dive into the world of BDSM with special guest, Lorenzo. With 45 years of experience in the sexuality, kink, fetish, & lifestyle community, Lorenzo brings a wealth of knowledge and unique insights into extreme impact play, sensory deprivation, and more. He also shares his experiences from over 35 years in law enforcement, offering a rare perspective on how these two worlds intersect.
Discussion includes the allure of BDSM, the importance of trust and communication, and the dangers of diving in without proper knowledge. Lorenzo emphasizes the significance of understanding the anatomy and mental states involved in BDSM to ensure safe and consensual play. The talk also touches on the differences between BDSM acts and a 24/7 BDSM lifestyle, highlighting the depth and commitment required for the latter.
Additionally, Lorenzo shares his experiences as a voiceover artist and his involvement with ASN Lifestyle Magazine, where he recently graced the cover of the August issue and is up for a social media personality award. He also just was an announcer for the annual ASN awards!
Watch the Interview Video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ItNE3ZQSaxc

02:31 What do you think draws people into engaging in BDSM acts?
09:13 Do you think there's a crossover between your interest in BDSM and your work?
12:59 Types of BDSM do you enjoy the most
17:48 Contract?
21:11 What about these people saying, "I'm training my sub."
24:06 There are some fetishes that people like, that you will never see.
25:59 ASN Lifestyle magazine will host its annual awards
27:47 ASN cover
30:45 What are certain people that should not consider going into BDSM?
39:50 How do people find each other if they are interested in getting into BDSM?
43:43 Do you regret anything
54:40 You know, social media has too much control over people, right
57:30 I hear too much about suicides from bullying on Twitter
Connect with Lorenzo:
- Twitter/X: @lorenzo4016
- Instagram: @lorenzoG2920
- Fetlife: Sir Lorenzo

Quotes from Lorenzo
"You have to learn the anatomy of a body before you start playing with a body."
"A real dominant is not going to brag or advertise. You don't have to do that."
"Imagine the strength that it has to take to give up everything."
"If you control the mind, you control the body, but when things go wrong with the mind, that's long lasting, more than a physical."
"Everyone wants everything now. Just take your time. It's no rush."

Bio: Lorenzo has 45 yrs experience in the kink, fetish, and lifestyle community...Specializing in Extreme Impact Play and Sensory Deprivation. Lorenzo has over 35 yrs of law enforcement and specialized training in hand to hand combat, special weapons, anti terror, prostitution, human trafficking, narcotics, civil disturbance, etc.
Lorenzo is also a voice over artist, working with several organizations in radio, narrations, commercials, erotic readings, websites, podcasts, events.

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