Rethinking Relationships Brett Chamberlin of OPEN on Polyamory, Advocacy, and Building Community

Season 6, Episode 735: Beyond the Nuclear Family: Polyamory, Justice, and Building Connected Communities.

Quietly, one of the most overlooked facts in American life is this, the traditional nuclear family now makes up only nineteen percent of U.S. households. Yet our laws, workplaces, and culture still treat it as the default, leaving millions of people in non-traditional arrangements facing real discrimination.

Brett Chamberlin, founder of OPEN (an advocacy nonprofit for polyamory and ethical non-monogamy), joins for a conversation that is genuinely hard to stop thinking about. Brett traces his path from environmental nonprofit work, including student-led zero-waste initiatives and plastic pollution advocacy through The Story of Stuff, to building a movement around relationship diversity. His argument is compelling and wide-ranging, taking a hard look at our loneliness crisis, our fragmented communities, our consumption-focused economy are all connected problems. (He even brings in family abolition theory.)

What does it actually look like to fight for legal protections when anti-adultery laws still exist in fifteen U.S. states? Eight cities, including West Hollywood, Berkeley, and Portland, have already passed non-discrimination protections, and OPEN is pushing for more.

When diverse relationship structures become normalized without needing explanation, something real has shifted in the culture. This episode will make you think harder about what family, community, and connection can mean.

More about Brett Chamberlin:

Brett Chamberlin (he/him) is the Founder & Executive Director of OPEN, a grassroots nonprofit advancing legal rights and cultural acceptance for non-monogamous families and relationships. Under his leadership, OPEN has passed landmark non-discrimination protections in multiple cities and established itself as a leading voice in the rapidly growing movement for relationship freedom.

A repeat nonprofit founder with over a decade of movement-building experience, Brett has led global grassroots campaigns reaching millions, including for the Emmy-winning documentary "The Story of Plastic." His work has been featured in The New York Times, NPR, CNN, and NBC. Find out more: http://www.open-love.org/

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Topics:

Introducing Brett Chamberlin, Polyamory Advocate

Building Community Through Non-Monogamy

Nuclear Family as a Tool of Control

Grassroots Advocacy for Non-Discrimination Protections

Local Agency and Cooperative Living Solutions

Privacy vs. Protection from Discrimination

The Prevalence and Diversity of Non-Monogamy

Building Coalitions Against Traditional Family Norms

Progress Through Intersecting Social Movements

Non-Monogamy Representation in Media and Indie Authors

Supporting Independent Bookstores Through Bookshop.org

Building Relationship Skills for Non-Monogamy

Consent, Communication, and Healthy Sexuality

Christo-Fascism and Resistance in America

Survival, Joy, and Resistance Through Community

Three Main Program Arms for Non-Monogamy Support

Supporting Open Love Through Community Donations