Why Your Voice is Your Secret Pleasure Tool

Why Your Voice is Your Secret Pleasure Tool

In this intimate episode of the Sex with Emily podcast, Dr. Emily teams up with Dr. Scott Lyons, a licensed holistic psychologist and body-based trauma expert, to explore how vocalizing pleasure can transform your intimate experiences. From a candid discussion about their couples massage experience in Vegas to practical advice on overcoming sexual silence, this episode reveals why making authentic sounds during sex creates deeper connection and more intense pleasure. We dive into the psychology behind sexual silence, examining how childhood conditioning, shame, and societal expectations keep us quiet when we should be expressing ourselves. Dr. Scott explains the nervous system science behind vocalization, including how making sounds stimulates the vagus nerve and helps regulate our bodies during intimate moments. We also tackle the difference between authentic pleasure sounds and performative moaning influenced by porn culture. This episode addresses common concerns like being too loud with roommates or kids in the house, offers practical exercises for gradually increasing your vocal expression, and explores how sound creates crucial feedback loops between partners. Whether you're naturally quiet or overly performative, you'll learn how to find your authentic voice of pleasure. Show Notes: 00:00:00 - The Vegas Massage Story: Learning from Authentic Sound 03:00:00 - Why We Stay Silent During Pleasure 06:41:00 - Men, Masturbation & the Culture of Quiet Sex 08:26:00 - Sound as Nervous System Regulation 11:07:00 - Authentic vs. Performative Vocalization 15:38:00 - The Sixth Limb: Your Voice as Extension of Your Body 18:06:00 - Shame, Control & Sexual Expression 23:10:00 - Practical Exercises: Touch for Pleasure Practice 28:14:00 - Sensory Play & Exploration 30:04:00 - Parents, Kids & Sexual Noise Concerns 33:08:00 - The 10% Challenge: Starting Small Join Dr. Emily and Dr. Scott as they share personal insights and professional expertise on breaking through sexual silence to unlock deeper pleasure and connection. This episode includes a live demonstration and practical homework to help you discover your authentic voice of pleasure. Join the SmartSX Membership : https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ Let’s get social: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily Let’s text: Sign up here https://sexwithemily.com/text

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Does Size Matter?

Does Size Matter?

Free Friday: Emily talks with guest Nicholas Sher about his Inches for Charity, what's jelqing and how does it make your penis larger, vibrating cock-rings, Kim Kardashian is getting pathetic, spider foreplay, Lindsay Lohan vagina mold, do women stop performing oral sex after marriage?, why men are obsessed with big penises and is bigger really better? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

4 Nov 201144min

Episode 328 - She's Faking It

Episode 328 - She's Faking It

Sorry guys, she might be faking it. Emily talks about the signs she’s faking it and the ultimate sign she’s actually about to orgasm. Not faking it extremely important for both women and men’s sexual experience. Emily describes her dream man and whether or not she would pose for Playboy. Also, what someone’s profile picture says about their personality. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

3 Nov 201144min

Episode 326 - Sex Bucket List

Episode 326 - Sex Bucket List

Emily talks Halloween nights and going home to Michigan for Thanksgiving, and Menace hooks up Emily's intern in Las Vegas. Emily and Menace compare what’s on their sex bucket list and discuss the most fun places to have quickies. A man confuses a donkey with a prostitute, semen strips, female ejaculation, why porn might cause erectile dysfunction, accidental nymphos, dating on demand, female ejaculation, should a guy ask to borrow money on a date?, a caller tests out Tenga male masturbation toys, and Emily and Menace compare what's on their sexual bucket lists. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

1 Nov 20111h 3min

Episode 325 - Trick or Cheating

Episode 325 - Trick or Cheating

Emily goes on the Today show in New York and Menace gets sex wounds on his birthday. Dating On Demand videos are taking over, and is Halloween an excuse to be slutty? Kim K files for divorce, Penis pumps enhance your member, and masturbation guilt is the curse of the jerking classes. Should Emily sign up for E Harmony? And Trick-or-cheating: what are the signs you are being cheated on? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

31 Okt 201156min

Semen Recipes

Semen Recipes

We talk about sex, relationships, and everything in between. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

28 Okt 201158min

Slump Buster

Slump Buster

Why women love the bad boy, why Menace isn't having sex, serial monogamy, how to talk dirty, making noise during sex, losing your virginity at 30, why you might need a "slump-buster," how to be a better kisser, what being on break really means to your relationship, how long foreplay should last, how to undress your partner, and how important is an emotional connection during foreplay? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Okt 201156min

Cougar Catching

Cougar Catching

Emily's obsession with the Fyre Tv porn box, what should Emily name her new dog?, what's got Emily smiling so big, women who advertise their break-ups online, Emily's almost nip-slip, a celeb mom catches crabs, why to stay friends with your exes, a "Cross-Legged Strike," do men like the reverse cowgirl position?, how long should sex should last?, how to make a woman feel special, tips for approaching older women, dominating your partner in bed, the right way to turn a date down, the most sensitive part of the penis and taking advantage of foreskin. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

26 Okt 20111h 1min

Deep Orgasm

Deep Orgasm

Emily talks with guest Dr. Jallen Rix about stimulating the prostate. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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