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You might have heard the buzz about positive thinking, but have you ever wondered if it truly works? People are often encouraged to visualize their goals, maintain an upbeat attitude, and affirm positive outcomes. Today, I am going to share the power of shifting your thinking and the impact it has on our lives. We'll begin by dissecting the concept of thinking into three distinct types. It's an eye-opening revelation that sets the stage for our main topic - the Possibility Mindset. This mindset is a game-changer, a shift in thinking that can transform the way you approach life. But, of course, not all thinking is beneficial. We'll delve into the Problem Mindset, dissecting the seven key elements that hold you back from your full potential. From only seeing the issues to choosing your words carelessly, we'll uncover how these habits can discourage not only yourself but also those around you. The ultimate question we'll explore is the difference between talking about big things and actually doing them. So, get ready to challenge your thinking and embrace the possibilities that lie ahead. In this episode, you'll learn: What is possibility thinking How to stop being a problem thinker How to develop the possibility thinking How to level up your doer mindset Your mindset is a powerful tool, and by the end of this episode, you'll be armed with the knowledge to wield it effectively in your journey towards success. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:19 Positive Thinking Doesn’t Work? 03:13 The Three Types of Thinking 04:23 What Is The Possibility Mindset? 05:28 Do You Have A Problem Mindset? 09:19 #1: You Only See The Issues 12:02 #2: Doing Things In The Mind Alone 13:08 #3: Nothing Is Never Enough 15:56 #4: You’re Likely To Discourage Others 18:12 #5: Choosing Words Carelessly 20:27 #6: Thinking Like An Expert 20:56 #7: Talking About Big Things vs Doing Big ThingsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

13 Okt 202325min

What’s stopping you from turning your visions into reality? This is a question that many struggle with and we often spend most of our time finding the answers. Today, we are happy to welcome Austrian-born bodybuilder, actor, businessman, philanthropist, bestselling author, and politician, Arnold Schwarzenegger. Arnold served as the thirty-eighth governor of California and his new book, Be Useful: Seven Tools for Life, takes readers on an inspirational tour through Arnold’s tool kit for a meaningful life. We will explore Arnold's early years, growing up with a strict father and his deep yearning for genuine conversations. His experiences in the military taught him invaluable life lessons that would shape his path to success. Arnold shares the pivotal moment when he first arrived in the United States, igniting his passion for bodybuilding, a journey that would ultimately define his legacy. As the conversation deepens, he emphasizes the importance of creating our own paths to happiness and challenges the notion of sacrifice when you truly love what you do. He highlights the significance of having a clear vision for our goals and how compromise plays a vital role in maintaining family unity. Arnold's insights on the art of selling and looking beyond conventional markets shed light on his extraordinary success. In this interview, you'll learn: How to be resilient in the most difficult situations How to change the trajectory of your life How to be genuinely happy and content The importance of allotting time for your family How to effectively sell your product How to breakthrough any market His journey serves as a testament to the idea that every accomplishment unveils a new purpose, driving us to explore our next chapter in life and an inspiration to us all to reach for greatness and share our stories with the world. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:06 Growing Up with a Strict Father 07:24 How the Military Shaped Me 10:54 Discovering America on My Bodybuilding Quest 17:05 How I Kicked Off My Bodybuilding Journey 23:57 Creating Your Path to Happiness 31:37 Is It Sacrifice If You Love What You Do? 45:26 How to Set Clear Goals and Achieve Your Dreams 49:50 How Compromise Saved Our Family 54:53 Shifting Your Sales Focus to Real Customers, Real Result 01:10:07 Expanding Your Reach Beyond Big Markets 01:15:54 How Arnold Turned Goals into Achievements 01:21:11 Why You're Never Truly Self-Made 01:25:31 Arnold Schwarzenegger on Final Five 01:28:27 Discovering New Purpose Through Achievements 01:32:50 Arnold's Public Speaking on His Success 01:41:24 Finding Calm Amidst Chaos with Meditation Episode Resources: Arnold Schwarzenegger | Twitter Arnold Schwarzenegger | Instagram Arnold Schwarzenegger | Facebook Arnold Schwarzenegger | TikTok Arnold Schwarzenegger | YouTube Netflix: Arnold Arnold’s Pump Club Be Useful: Seven Tools for LifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

9 Okt 20231h 53min

How do you deal with social anxiety? Do you have tools in place to help you overcome anxious thoughts? Today, Zane Lowe sits down with Jay Shetty for a conversation about success in career, marriage and parenthood, and how to navigate social anxiety. Zane is a grammy-nominated producer, executive, and radio host. He is Apple Music’s Creative Director and the flagship anchor for Apple Music 1, part of the award-winning Apple Music Radio. In addition to hosting his daily show, Zane curates original programming and oversees Apple Music's artist-led programming, which features shows hosted by Lady Gaga, Billie Eilish, Lil Wayne, Justin Bieber, and many more. Zane opens up about his lifelong passion for music, which was ignited by a chance meeting with Split Enz. What's truly remarkable is that, despite his immense success in the music industry, He remains a devoted fan at heart. He reminds us that our passions can be a driving force in our lives, and when we put our focus on manifesting what truly matters, we can create space within ourselves for the good things. As we dive deeper into this candid discussion, Zane shares his insights on maintaining a balanced life in the face of distractions and the importance of cherishing the simple things. He highlights the value of creating communities and experiences that inspire others, shedding light on how therapy played a pivotal role in preparing him for parenthood, and the essence of love as an unspoken language, the secrets of lasting marriages, and the true meaning of greatness. In this interview, you'll learn: Why you need to focus on what truly matters in your life How to create space for positive things The power of shared experiences in a community How to love deeply and more meaningfully How to be in-tune with your ego How to maintain a healthy balance in your life How to have impactful and inspiring conversations In the end, we are reminded that the most inspiring conversations often happen with those who have no intention to sell, leaving us with profound insights about life and purpose. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:29 How A Life-long Passion For Music Evolved Into A Successful Career 07:36 We Manifest The Things We Focus On 10:06 Dedicate Your Focus To Things That Feel Authentic To You 14:19 The Importance Of Creating Space Within Your Mind 16:30 The True Purpose Of Music Is To Inspire and Create Community 20:55 How Therapy Helped Prepare Zane For Parenthood 24:55 What Kind Of Father Do You Want To Be? 26:30 Why Is Love Considered An Unspoken Language? 29:36 You Need To Grow Together If You Want Your Marriage Can Last 33:44 Navigating Social Anxiety 36:26 True Greatness Comes From Knowing How To Access It 42:06 How To Recognize A Genuine Connection With An Individual 45:37 What’s Your Relationship With Your Ego? 51:30 Do You Manifest? How Do You Practice Manifestation? 53:23 How Do You Manage Ambition And Still Maintain A Balanced Life? 58:46 You’ll Miss Opportunities If You’re Only Focused On Speed 01:01:00 Practicing Healthy Routines 01:04:07 Undoing Habits And Practices That Society Built For Us 01:11:03 What Is The Difference Between Working And Working Hard? 01:11:55 The Most Inspiring Conversations Are With People Who Have No Intention To Sell 01:17:25 Zane Lowe on Final Five Episode Resources: Zane Lowe | Twitter Zane Lowe | Instagram Zane Lowe | Facebook Zane Lowe | TikTok Zane Lowe | YouTube The Zane Lowe ShowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

6 Okt 20231h 22min

Do you want to live a more intentional life and unlock your creative spark? Do you want to learn how to avoid feeling burnout? Today, Kelly Wearsler joins us on the podcast to teach us how to create an environment that makes you happy, how to understand your own worth when creating a business, and how to train your own eye in order to improve your own home design. Kelly is a multi-faceted and award-winning creator of experiential residential, hospitality, commercial and retail environments, expansive collections of lifestyle products and thought-provoking brand collaborations. Her designs have redefined the design industry and influenced the rise of designer hotels and experiences. She is best known for her eclectic and maximalist designs that tell a story. Some of her clients include Gwen Stefani and Cameron Diaz Today we get to learn about Kelly in a deeper way. She takes us through her own journey of self discovery, starting her business from the ground up, and the moment that her mind changed on her most valued creation to date, her family. Throughout our conversation, we explore the significance of designing spaces that evoke meaningful emotions. We also discuss strategies for ways to prevent burnout when juggling multiple projects. Join us as we chat through living intentionally by using your environment to do so. You will love this episode if you are looking to make a change in your space! With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 01:40 Can the art of designing make people happy? 03:22 “People want to see and experience something they haven’t seen before.” 04:53 Design is a combination of an old soul and a new spirit 10:31 How to stay open-minded for new ideas and not get lost in what is trending 12:20 Kelly shares how taking photos can help you find new patterns and styles 16:42 Curiosity is a driver in pursuing your passion 18:59 Take your time to find things that have meaning and connection to you 21:19 Jay explains the meaning behind the art pieces in his studio 22:51 The deep rooted interest in art and design 26:38 Kelly talks about her first project in Venice Beach 29:50 Then and now, concept presentations can be challenging 32:51 What was the most difficult part about starting your career? 35:29 Mistakes are important in any creative process 34:06 One of the projects that helped shift Kelly’s career 41:02 Let’s take a look at some of the best art projects in Kelly’s book 42:44 Do you need to spend big to create your own space? 44:50 Make do of what you’ve seen or have and make it interesting 48:13 “Give people an experience they can take an incredible memory with.” 49:34 How to incorporate plants when designing a place 50:33 Inspired by a home Kelly visited in Malibu 52:52 Being a mother is one of the most transformational experience for women 55:11 How do you stay present in your work and when with family? 56:25 “Creativity is your soul while replication is looking outward.” 57:34 To avoid burnout, saying no is just as important as saying yes 01:00:58 Transforming dreams into realistic art designs 01:02:55 How can artists appropriately price the worth of their work 01:08:05 Kelly Wearstler on Final Five Episode Resources: Kelly Wearstler | Website Kelly Wearstler | Instagram Kelly Wearstler | Facebook Kelly Wearstler | TikTok Kelly Wearstler | BooksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

2 Okt 20231h 24min

Do you like spending time alone or by yourself? How does alone time help clear your mind and fuel positive thoughts? Today, I am excited to share a conversation I had with Tom Bilyeu in his podcast, Impact Theory, where he interviews me about my profound journey through solitude, relationships, and self-love. We kick things off by shedding light on the wisdom found in ancient texts like the Vedas, which many monks study in solitude. It's a reminder that spending time alone is not a sign of weakness; in fact, it can be a powerful tool for personal growth. I share the incredible benefits of allocating just one hour a week to being alone with your thoughts, a practice that can transform your life. As we venture further into this enlightening conversation, we discuss the importance of dealing with life's challenges, share insights on daily meditation, and the complexities of loneliness and why it's essential to feel seen, heard, and understood in our relationships. With heartfelt anecdotes and wisdom, we explore the concept of love, self-worth, and the hard work required for genuine, lasting relationships. In this interview, you’ll learn: How to be comfortable with being alone How to sit with your inner thoughts How to prepare for love The tips to finding true love How to make relationships last The impotence valuing self-worth How to build lasting trust on others How to maintain a successful marriage Remember, relationships are just one part of our life's journey, and it's up to us to make it a meaningful and fulfilling one. Let’s navigate the complexities of life and relationships with wisdom and love. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:35 Jay explains the vedas that most monks study in solitude 03:34 Loneliness is not the enemy while being alone is not a weakness 08:12 The benefits of allocating an hour a week to alone time 14:12 “This bad thing happened, and now what?” 17:31 Daily meditation has varying positive effects on people 18:47 Why do people struggle with being alone with their thoughts? 23:51 Allow yourself to have positive distractions and random thoughts 27:44 Loneliness is when you don’t feel seen, heard, or understood 30:46 How do you prepare for love? 34:01 Jay shares an unrecorded interview with his mom 35:32 “When you’ve experienced your strength, no one can make you feel weak.” 37:35 Why you should not turn to others to validate your self worth 38:59 Can doing hard things make life easier? 43:11 The absence of a good role model and proper tools can lead to making bad choices 45:15 On parenthood: Would you intervene or allow kids to learn about themselves? 49:06 Top 3 things that can help develop a successful relationship 54:38 Why do people select the wrong partner? 57:26 Jay talks about the four levels of trust we have for relationships 01:00:13 The desperation to be loved makes us give away trust so easily 01:02:20 True, genuine love takes hard work 01:05:01 How can you keep your marriage sacred and successful? 01:14:12 How to grow the relationship you’re currently in and in the right way 01:17:05 Jay explains the consciousness of the human soul 01:19:42 A relationship isn’t everything, it is not the be-all and end-all of your journey 01:22:55 Would you live your life in a hypothesis?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

29 Sep 20231h 25min

Have you ever resented someone from keeping a secret from you? Do you often put other people's feelings before your own? In this incredibly vulnerable episode with Kerry Washington, we dive into the complicated nature of family and generational trauma. We learn about how both compassion and pain co-exist. We explore how to receive and react to challenging news. This episode is one that you definitely do not want to miss if you have ever dealt with navigating familial relationships and dynamics. Kerry Washington is an Emmy award winning, SAG & Emmy- nominated actor, producer and director, and activist. Washington received widespread recognition for her role as Olivia Pope on ABC’s hit drama Scandal. Today we get to see a side of Kerry that we’ve never seen or heard before. She takes us through a journey of unveiling a long guarded family secret. A secret that took her down a journey of transformation, resilience and healing. This is a story that we can all relate to in our own ways. If you love this episode, Kerry’s new memoir is Thicker Than Water and you can hear even more stories about how Kerry has navigated challenges of life. This conversation is an invitation to explore the depths of truth, the human heart and the transformative power of rewriting your own story. In this interview, you will learn: The family secret that changed her life How she leaned into compassion and not anger How do you share challenging news to your children or loved ones? How she embraced her new truth and allowed herself to take control of her narrative The secret to what has allowed her to be deeply rooted How we can hold space for many truths at once How the revelation of a truth can make way for greater and deeper love We invite you to join us on this deep exploration of secrets, truth, self discovery and witnessing the power of compassion and love in the presence of pain. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:15 What is a childhood memory that stands out to you? 09:11 Kerry describes a panic attack she had at age 7 12:55 “I wasn’t emotionally safe” 16:11 Kerry's feeling of needing to perform at a young age 19:15 Why has Kerry been trying to walk away from acting? 26:30 How we are impacted by our dharma and how we can’t extract our dharna from ourselves 30:37: “I survived a childhood where I learned what truth does not look like and so I am really aware of what it looks like now.” 32:30 How can we get closer to our own personal truth? 33:40: Why keeping ourselves busy = control 37:30 Kerry had to redefine what success means to her 38:08 “Everytime I sat down to write it didn’t feel honest.” 38:50 **book spoiler alert - Kerry shares news that changed her life 39:25 “So my parents sat me down and told me…” 49:25 How to move forward with love after receiving life-changing news 59:08 Growing up with shame 01:03:36 How to have compassion over anger 01:16:16 “Sometimes the truth seems so scary.” 01:16:36 How does a parent tell their kids life changing information? 01:21:19 Bonding together as a family not a part after trauma 01:26:32 How we should allow ourselves to be nurtured by love. 01:32:30 Kerry Washington on Final Five Episode Resources: Kerry Washington | Twitter Kerry Washington | Instagram Kerry Washington | Facebook Kerry Washington | YouTube Kerry Washington | TikTok Thicker than Water: A MemoirSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

25 Sep 20231h 48min

How many of us spend our free time on social media? Do you find yourself becoming unproductive because of it? Today, we will unravel the ways in which social media can subtly control our minds and lifestyles. The journey begins by acknowledging that if we don't learn to use technology consciously, it can end up consuming us entirely. Step by step, we navigate through practical strategies to regain control and create a healthier relationship with social media. These strategies guide us toward fostering more meaningful interactions, like detaching from devices during social gatherings, creating 'no technology' zones in our homes, and engaging in curious and vulnerable conversations with loved ones. We also learn the importance of transforming from passive consumers to active creators. In this episode, you'll learn: How addictive social media can be How to develop a healthy screen time How to spend your time more productively How to make genuine connections in person Through these steps, we embark on a transformative journey towards mastering technology, ultimately reclaiming our presence and connection in the digital age. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:14 How does social media control your mind and your life? 06:57 If we don't learn how to use technology, it ends up consuming us 10:42 Step #1 On social media, people talk about themselves 80% of the time 12:39 How can we shift into connecting with others on social media? 15:51 Step #2: Do activities without your phone with your friends 20:00 Step #3: Create a ‘no technology’ zone in your home 23:14 Step #4: Have more curious, vulnerable conversations with people you love 24:59 Step #5: Become a creator not a consumer 26:45 Step #6: Having alternatives is easier than setting blocksSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

22 Sep 202329min

Do you want to feel like you belong? Do you want to block negativity and rejection? In this episode we dive deep into what it means to step into your authentic self and the tools needed to do so. Today, I welcome multi-platinum, award-winning singer, songwriter, actress, and activist Becky G. The 26-year-old global superstar's long list of achievements include four Latin GRAMMY nominations, four number one hits on the Billboard Latin Airplay Charts, and her debut album Mala Santa (October 2019) is certified 8X Platinum in the United States. In June, Becky released her latest single “La Nena” alongside Gabito Ballesteros giving fans another glimpse of what’s to come. Becky G did not hesitate to dive deep into the heart of authenticity and self-discovery. We start by awakening to a deeper sense of self, shaking off those social constructs that keep us from being our authentic selves. It's a reminder that it's perfectly okay to embrace who we are and find happiness in that authenticity. Throughout our conversation, we explore the importance of creating spaces where our uniqueness is celebrated, not just tolerated. We also touch on the idea that it's alright if not everyone likes us - what truly matters is staying true to ourselves. In this interview, you'll learn: How to tap into your authentic self How to embrace your uniqueness How to take risks for success Why self-love is a must How to be persistent in adversities How stay focused on your goal Join us on this journey of self-discovery and connection, where we celebrate the beauty of being our authentic selves in a complex world. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:41 An awakening for a deeper sense of self 02:48 The social constructs that don’t allow us to be our authentic self 04:27 The concept of not half of this and half of that 09:12 You gotta make yourself happy and stay rooted to your authenticity 12:31 We need spaces where our uniqueness is accepted 15:17 We all come from something so much bigger than us 19:13 Maybe it’s okay if we’re not liked by everybody 25:13 “You have to be willing to do something you haven’t done to get the result you never had.” 28:49 The three-legged table: the mind, body, and soul 34:54 How do you create quality connections? 37:23 “Just because you can, it doesn’t mean you should.” 39:59 Always have empathy and compassion for yourself 46:56 Sometimes a good cry is the best way to release pent up emotions 51:46 “Everything happens for you, not to you.” 58:13 The healing journey of relationships that has ended 01:01:27 Who do you share your failures and successes with? 01:09:29 Starting an acting career after empowered personalities 01:14:49 Finding mutual spaces where you can change and grow 01:17:53 How do you stay open to finding your purpose you have in life 01:20:06 Do you believe in guardian angels? 01:23:45 Did we lose our listening ability when communicating? 01:06:37 Becky G on Final Five Episode Resources: Becky G | YouTube Becky G | Instagram Becky G | Facebook Becky G | TikTok Becky G | WebsiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

18 Sep 20231h 32min