Why Prioritizing Sexual Pleasure Makes You Healthier (Backed by Science) | ft. Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Why Prioritizing Sexual Pleasure Makes You Healthier (Backed by Science) | ft. Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Join the SmartSX Membership: https://sexwithemily.com/smartsx Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY!:https://bit.ly/3rNSNcZ (free shipping on orders over $99) Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website: ⁠https://sexwithemily.com/ In this data-packed episode of Sex with Emily, Dr. Emily sits down with social psychologist and Kinsey Institute researcher Dr. Justin Lehmiller to break down what science actually tells us about our sexual fantasies, kinks, and casual hookups. This conversation is full of insights that will make you rethink what's "normal" in bed, and help you embrace your desires with more compassion and clarity. Dr. Lehmiller reveals the most common sexual fantasies (hint: kink is more mainstream than you think) and explains what our fantasies say about our emotional needs and life history. We explore the truth about gender differences in fantasies, how to safely explore kink and consensual non-monogamy, and research on why some people thrive with casual sex while others don't. This episode covers practical tips for talking about fantasies with your partner without shame or pressure, plus why self-awareness (not fantasy content) is the key to sexual fulfillment. Whether you're curious about exploring fantasies, navigating open relationships, or just want to understand the psychology of desire, this conversation brings research and real talk together in a way that's both validating and thought-provoking. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction & The Kink Revolution 4:07 - Fantasy vs Reality: The Threesome Gap 11:43 - Why Gay Men Have Better Threesomes 18:17 - What Gay vs Straight Men Really Have in Common 25:04 - The Kinsey Scale & Sexual Fluidity Explained 31:20 - Friends with Benefits: What Actually Works 35:00 - The Couples Vibrator Study Results 37:45 - Dutch Sex Education: What America Gets Wrong 44:13 - How to Talk to Kids About Masturbation 48:51 - Quickfire Questions: Turn-Ons, Turn-Offs & Sex Advice

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Your Brain on Sex

Your Brain on Sex

Emily's new crusade to end the rise of excessive female promiscuity, Menace's crazy Nyquil sex dreams, iPhone apps to save you from scandal, Menace uses Emily's moms financial advice, sex clubs in Seattle, Stanley Siegel, author of "Your Brain on Sex: How Smarter Sex Can Change Your Life", talks about using sex to find "The One", bringing fantasies into relationships, sexual chemistry, and Emily talks about her most recent sexual experience. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

4 Okt 20111h 1min

Sucking Smurf Spooge

Sucking Smurf Spooge

Guest Cunning Minx (polyweekly.com) talks about polyamory, 'sucking smurf spooge', is polyamory that much different than dating?, why porn is good for your relationship, why geeks are into polyamory, gun and fire arm play in bed, how to overcome jealously, licking vs. touching and should you put his penis in a cage? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

3 Okt 201157min

Episode 304 - Why He Disappeared

Episode 304 - Why He Disappeared

Emily gets analyzed by dating coach Evan Marc Katz. Evan answers the top questions women have about dating: why he didn't call you back, why he disappeared, and why we date the wrong people. Evan talks about how not to be weak and needy, and how to send an amazing first message online. For nice guy listeners, Evan tells you how to take on the “strong, successful guys.” Finally, some lessons in how to date without an agenda. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

30 Sep 201147min

Episode 302 - How to Make a Sex Tape

Episode 302 - How to Make a Sex Tape

If Paris Hilton and Pamela Anderson can do it two times, why can’t you? Today Emily walks you through how to make your very own sex tape, and most importantly, what to do with it when you’re done (hint: not leaving it on your zip drive at the office). Emily shares her favorite sex story about Menace, talks about dating bad boys, and the possibility of "ecstasy" killing cancer. Menace thinks he’d make a good part-time Teletubby, and we talk about oral sex in marriage and how to make long-distance relationships last. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Sep 201154min

Episode 301 - Breaking Up For (and with) Dummies

Episode 301 - Breaking Up For (and with) Dummies

How and where should you break up with someone, the importance of the break up and how to move through it amicably. Emily attends the straightest gay wedding ever and Menace wears a teletubby suit. Then it’s onto places to have sex, like in front of a mirror, in limos, and on a jet ski. We also learn why you shouldn’t date a person who has no friends, how to make someone a better kisser, the secret Panty Dropper drink, and why you should love your labia. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

26 Sep 20111h

Episode 300 - Bizarre Phone Sex Request

Episode 300 - Bizarre Phone Sex Request

Phone sex operator Ms. Liz talks about phone sex for beginners, the most popular male fetishes and why they exist, taboo topics, the psychology behind men’s sexual desires and her weirdest most bizarre phone sex requests. Emily talks old flames and whether you should rekindle those fires, what happens when you carry baggage from past relationships, testicle length, and good ‘ol fashioned female ejaculation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

23 Sep 201158min

Episode 299 - Meeting a Potential Love

Episode 299 - Meeting a Potential Love

Today Emily talks about to act when you meet a potential love interest, and gives tips to you don’t giggle nervously or throw up in your mouth. Better yet, Emily suggest places you might find your next love, then Menace divulges his trifecta tip for getting laid. We talk about men being jealous of sex and women being jealous of emotions, how smiling at someone might land you a date, why 2nd marriages are predicted to fail, and why women like older men. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

22 Sep 20111h

Episode 297 - Top Places to Meet Singles

Episode 297 - Top Places to Meet Singles

It’s “National Unmarried and Single American's” Week so we’re talking how to celebrate, the top places to meet singles, and the best ways to hit those places. Emily explains why she loves being single, while Menace wants to settle down. Then it’s on to sex and intimacy during pregnancy and during 'that' time of the month. Emily shares a "walk of shame" story, and she and Menace talk about clarifying "breaks" in relationships, and the impact of Facebook on marriage. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

20 Sep 201156min

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