The Habit That Destroys Relationships
Jillian on Love7 Jul 2025

The Habit That Destroys Relationships

What if the reason your relationship feels off has nothing to do with your partner—and everything to do with a pattern you don’t even realize you’re stuck in? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the one habit that quietly sabotages even the healthiest relationships: keeping score. From romantic partnerships to friendships and family dynamics, scorekeeping erodes emotional intimacy and creates distance. Jillian explores why we fall into this pattern, how masculine and feminine energies often give love differently, and how resentment can build when those efforts go unrecognized. Join The Conscious Woman Waitlist https://mailchi.mp/0221461c6359/cw-wait-list Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Record and submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://askjillian.com/ Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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