Deconstruction Doesn’t Mean Destruction, It Might Be The Start Of Something Real-Losing The Lies, Finding The REAL Jesus
Erasing Shame8 Jul 2025

Deconstruction Doesn’t Mean Destruction, It Might Be The Start Of Something Real-Losing The Lies, Finding The REAL Jesus

We’ve been told that if your faith starts falling apart, you’re in danger.
But what if that’s exactly where Jesus shows up?

This isn’t an episode about walking away from God.
It’s about tearing down the fake, the forced, the fear-based religion—
and finding a God who never asked you to perform in the first place.

In this raw and redemptive conversation, author Alysha Tatiana Lee shares how the breakdown of everything she thought she believed… became the breakthrough that brought her back to the real Jesus.

We talk about:

  • Surviving spiritual abuse and reclaiming your voice

  • The lies religion teaches us about God—and the truth Jesus reveals

  • Why deconstruction doesn’t mean destruction

  • And what faith can look like when it’s no longer built on fear

If you’re tired of pretending, tired of shallow answers,
and ready to meet the Jesus who sits with you in the wreckage—This one will wreck you in the best way.

Because sometimes the most sacred thing God can do… is let what’s false fall apart.

Link to Alysha's book:

https://www.amazon.com/Everything-I-Might-Have-Missed/dp/B0DSTD4GWY


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