Dear Horse World, It's Nicki Shahinian-Simpson: Posing, Priorities and the Pressure of the Equitation Ring

In December, a Facebook post of ours sparked a big debate: does the USA put too much emphasis on riding position? Is there room for riders to find more fluidity and freedom in their style? Today, we're diving into those questions.

Your position in the saddle isn't just about looking pretty for the judge's panel. It's about communication, balance, and creating harmony with your horse. But here's the challenge—so much of what we're taught about position can feel rigid, exclusive, or even unattainable. And for many riders, it leaves them questioning: Am I good enough? Do I fit in here?

You're not alone in feeling this way, and that's exactly why today's episode is a must-listen.

We're joined by Nicole Shahinian-Simpson, a rider who's lived the highs and lows of equitation and show jumping at the highest levels. Nicki is one of only 11 riders in history to win both the ASPCA Maclay National Championship and the U.S. Medal Finals. She's competed on the world stage, represented the U.S. in international competition, and has nearly 35 Grand Prix victories to her name.

But what sets Nicki apart isn't just her accolades—it's her perspective. She knows firsthand how striving for "the perfect position" can create pressure that steals your joy and confidence as a rider. And she's here to help you rethink what good riding really looks like.

In this episode, Nicki dives into the realities behind position—how it impacts your horse, why the American equitation system is both a blessing and a challenge, and how to develop a functional, fluid position that works for you. She also tackles the often-unspoken topic of body image in riding: how the pressure to "look the part" can affect confidence, and why strength, individuality, and skill matter far more than fitting a specific mold.

Whether you're a junior striving to meet the standard, or an amateur who just wants to ride without overthinking, Nicki's insights will help you cut through the noise and focus on what really matters.

If you've ever felt like you don't "fit the mold" of a polished equitation rider, or wondered if the emphasis on position is holding you back, this episode will leave you feeling empowered, seen, and ready to ride your best.

Because your position isn't just about looking the part—it's about showing up for your horse.

Nicki's book that she would read to the Horse World - Champion Minded by Allistair McCaw

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