Perfectionism Is NOT a Personality Trait 🛑📚
Mental15 Jul 2025

Perfectionism Is NOT a Personality Trait 🛑📚

You’re not broken — you’ve just outgrown your shell 🩞

If your “always say yes” phase is turning into burnout, this one's for you. That perfectionist armor that once kept you safe? It might be holding you back now. Growth hurts. But not growing hurts more.

Perfectionism, people-pleasing, coping skills from your teen years — they got you here. But are they the reason you feel stuck now?

This episode breaks open a wild lobster metaphor that slaps harder than expected. đŸ«š Because growth isn’t just hard — it’s vulnerable. But like the lobster, real transformation means shedding the shell that once kept you safe.

If you’re feeling burnt out, lost, or just not you anymore
 this one’s for the next version of you that’s trying to break free.đŸ«¶

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