205: Can She Really Know If He’s Not Struggling With Porn Anymore? Look For This.

205: Can She Really Know If He’s Not Struggling With Porn Anymore? Look For This.

Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome pornography use?

Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornographyhttps://stopporn.info/

Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes?

Email me here:

sam@healingcouples.org

Episode Description:

Is she still scared he’s watching porn—even if he says he’s not? And he feels discouraged hoping that his good efforts might not be helping? You’re not alone.

In this episode, Sam Tielemans, licensed therapist and porn recovery expert, explains why wives still fear their husband is using pornography… and what actually rebuilds trust.

You’ll learn why porn urges come back in moments of stress, loneliness, disconnection, or emotional overwhelm—and how to resolve those urges by targeting the real root.

Whether you’re trying to stop watching porn, heal after pornography betrayal, or rebuild your marriage after porn addiction, this episode gives you a clear, proven framework to:

  • Understand why men turn to porn

  • Stop porn urges by addressing emotional triggers

  • Rebuild trust in marriage after pornography

  • Heal betrayal trauma and restore connection

  • Know what to do when she fears he’s still using porn

This is for couples healing from porn addiction, porn use in marriage, secret pornography habits, or emotional damage caused by porn. Learn how to stop pornography at the root—and finally feel safe and connected again.

Episoder(242)

87. How to Properly Disclose a Relapse (and Avoid a Fight)

87. How to Properly Disclose a Relapse (and Avoid a Fight)

On the path to overcoming a pornography addiction, there are often slips and relapses, and those conversations are painful to have. There is a clear, three-step framework I teach to clients to actuall...

6 Apr 202320min

86. 3 Ways To Improve Intimacy After Pornography Addiction

86. 3 Ways To Improve Intimacy After Pornography Addiction

Sexual intimacy is often times badly damaged after discovering a pornography addiction.  There are fears, feelings of inadequacy, triggers, and painful feeling that go along with intimacy as a result ...

30 Mar 202324min

85. 3 Tools to Overcome Feelings of Unworthiness

85. 3 Tools to Overcome Feelings of Unworthiness

When overcoming a pornography addiction, many men experience feelings of unworthiness or some version of feeling not good enough, failure, bad, or defective.  Very often, a wife will experience unwort...

23 Mar 202327min

84. These Types of Boundaries Can Unintentionally Hurt Your Marriage

84. These Types of Boundaries Can Unintentionally Hurt Your Marriage

Creating boundaries in a marriage that's been affected by pornography addiction is a very common solution that offered.  I found that there are certain types of boundaries and the timing they are impl...

9 Mar 202328min

83. How to Identify the Root Cause of Your Pornography Addiction

83. How to Identify the Root Cause of Your Pornography Addiction

When a man struggles with a pornography addiction, identifying the root cause in resolving it on that level is the most effective way to help him change and overcome the addiction. Without knowing wha...

3 Mar 202324min

82. When She Feels Lots of Anger and Resentment

82. When She Feels Lots of Anger and Resentment

After there has been betrayal in a relationship due to a pornography addiction, it’s very common for a wife to experience a lot of anger and resentment.  There are 3 things that a husband can do to de...

24 Feb 202330min

81. 3 Tools to Bounce Back Effectively After a Relapse

81. 3 Tools to Bounce Back Effectively After a Relapse

Relapses can be extremely discouraging both for the husband who is trying to overcome pornography, addiction, and for his wife.  In this episode, I share three specific things that you can do as a hus...

19 Feb 202317min

80. How to Avoid Slipping From Stress Triggers

80. How to Avoid Slipping From Stress Triggers

Stress is a very common triggers for men to slip back into their pornography addiction.  The problem is that stress never goes away in life. So if you don't know how to process it differently, it's go...

9 Feb 202320min

Populært innen Samfunn

rss-spartsklubben
giver-og-gjengen-vg
aftenpodden
aftenpodden-usa
konspirasjonspodden
popradet
rss-nesten-hele-uka-med-lepperod
lydartikler-fra-aftenposten
min-barneoppdragelse
rss-henlagt-andy-larsgaard
grenselos
wolfgang-wee-uncut
rss-espen-lee-usensurert
synnve-og-vanessa
rss-dannet-uten-piano
rss-dette-ma-aldri-skje-igjen
fladseth
frokostshowet-pa-p5
alt-fortalt
relasjonspodden-med-dora-thorhallsdottir-kjersti-idem