The Tango Banter22 Jul 2025

What to Say When You Don’t Know What to Say in Tango

You’ve probably been there. The song ends, you break the embrace, and there’s this weird little pause. You know another song is coming - but right now, you’re face-to-face with a stranger… and you’re not sure what to say.

Do you say something? Do you wait for them to speak first? Is it weird to compliment their shoes?

In this episode, I talk about those in-between moments at the milonga - the little bits of conversation (or silence) that can feel unexpectedly awkward. Whether you love chatting or dread small talk, this is something every dancer has experienced.

🎧 Let’s talk about how to navigate those moments - and maybe even enjoy them.

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🕰️ Only 10 spots are available, and enrollment is open through July 31.

👉 Learn more and sign up here: https://imsotango.com/dance-the-music

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