The Baddest Bitch in the Building23 Jul 2025

Girly law of power #22: Use elicitation to bypass gatekeepers & egos

This one's crazy because we'll be discussing how to use an FBI-backed technique to get past the gatekeepers and the egos controlling the patriarchy. Because when we really boil it down, the patriarchy is just a bunch of insecure dudes who've institutionalized gatekeeping.

We'll discuss:

Why we can't simply ask for things outright
The mindset that keeps us stuck in limbo, asking for permission & waiting for opportunities
The art of elicitation and how to apply 5 of its techniques (there are 13 in total but 5 that are perfectly suited for our purposes)
How to elicit the answers we need without making the person defensive or suspicious

Btw here's Chase Hughes, the former military chief and expert on elicitation

✨Hope you love it and can use this law to make your dreams come true. You are the baddest bitch in the building.

Love, Neeki xo

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