EP 31 Why Aren't My Boundaries Working? 4 Boundary Mistakes In Active Addiction

EP 31 Why Aren't My Boundaries Working? 4 Boundary Mistakes In Active Addiction

Setting boundaries in a marriage impacted by addiction is hard enough—but what happens when we set boundaries that backfire?

In this episode, we’re walking through 4 common boundary mistakes Christian wives often make when navigating life with an alcoholic spouse:

  • Boundaries made in anger – when emotions take over and clarity is lost

  • Not following through – the emotional toll of boundaries that don’t stick

  • Poorly communicated boundaries – the best of intentions, but instantly the defensiveness shows up from hubby!

  • Controlling boundaries – These sounded so good in my head, but only caused fights and a cycle of NO change.

You’ll hear real-life examples of what these mistakes look like in the home—and how to reframe them with love, clarity, and biblical wisdom. Plus, I’ll show you how to spot the difference between a boundary that punishes and one that protects.

💬 Have a question you’d like answered on the show? Or want to share something God is doing in your life? I’d love to hear from you. Email me at https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession

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Ep 54 Codependency & Natural Consequences in Active Addiction

Ep 54 Codependency & Natural Consequences in Active Addiction

Listener Question Part 2:  "I find myself trying to control my husband's drinking and even some other things. We own a successful (for now) business and I manage it with him—but he is dropping the bal...

12 Aug 28min

Ep 53 The Impact of Addiction on Business and Income

Ep 53 The Impact of Addiction on Business and Income

Wife on The Rocks Marriage and Business - Listener Question "I find myself trying to control my husbands drinking and even some other things. We own a successful (for now) business and I manage it wit...

29 Jul 24min

Ep 53 Rehab for a YEAR? Alcoholism Treatment Options

Ep 53 Rehab for a YEAR? Alcoholism Treatment Options

In this episode of Wife on the Rocks, we continue last week's listener question and dive deep into one of the hardest parts of the recovery journey — deciding what rehab actually looks like for your f...

15 Jul 17min

Ep 52 He's FINALLY Ready for Help: What I Wish I Knew BEFORE Rock Bottom

Ep 52 He's FINALLY Ready for Help: What I Wish I Knew BEFORE Rock Bottom

“My husband finally agreed to get help… What do we do now?” For years you may have prayed for your husband to recognize his alcoholism and addiction. But as wives when that moment finally comes, along...

12 Jun 21min

EP 51 Parenting With An Alcoholic: Emtional Outbursts & Protecting Kids

EP 51 Parenting With An Alcoholic: Emtional Outbursts & Protecting Kids

In this Listener Q&A episode of Wife on the Rocks, I answer a heartbreaking question many wives silently carry: 👉 “How do I parent and protect my children when my husband struggles with alcoholism an...

19 Mai 28min

Bonus Episode: BIG Announcement & Trusting God In Alcoholism AND Recovery

Bonus Episode: BIG Announcement & Trusting God In Alcoholism AND Recovery

Wondering why there has been a pause in new episodes? Tune in to find out why!  God can do more than we ask or imagine and I will explain what that is looking like in my life right now ♥ Years ago in ...

29 Jan 12min

Ep 50 Ever Wonder Why He Drinks More at the Holidays? INTERVIEW: Recovering Alcoholic Explains His Addiction Experience of Christmas Past.

Ep 50 Ever Wonder Why He Drinks More at the Holidays? INTERVIEW: Recovering Alcoholic Explains His Addiction Experience of Christmas Past.

Why does drinking seem to escalate every holiday season — and why does it feel so lonely for the wife watching it happen? In this episode of Wife on the Rocks, we sit down together for an honest conv...

24 Des 202521min

Ep 49 Has He Stopped “Showing Up” for the Holidays? Guest Interview: Addiction, Alcoholism, Depression, and Anxiety Collide at Christmas

Ep 49 Has He Stopped “Showing Up” for the Holidays? Guest Interview: Addiction, Alcoholism, Depression, and Anxiety Collide at Christmas

What happens to holidays as alcoholism progresses? In this episode of Wife on the Rocks, we share a deeply personal conversation about how alcohol addiction slowly changed our family’s holidays over ...

17 Des 202515min

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